When to say “I love you.” This is a tricky one for most, and also for most we go off a feeling, a vibe that it has been a while. What is worse is some will even go off the pressure that they have been dating for 6 months and they think they have to say it or the relationship is over. Don’t be that person. Think to yourself, why? Why would I say I love this person? Have you asked yourself enough questions about it? Or are you just saying it to say, “eh fuck it?” According to a 6000 person study done by okcupid, 62% of people think “I love you” should be when it is felt, 22% after several months and 3% are on the after a year train. Generally most of over 30 it is 6-9 months and under 25 it is like 20 min, or as soon as she touches your wee wee or hoo ha. So everyone has their timeline or specific moment of realization. So what do we do? Do we look at love as a series of longevity. If you both stick around for a year then you get to say it to each other. Or is it 6 months that when we see that person do something nice for you in the kitchen and then it just comes out? As always I like to let others decide their intended path of discovery for nobody should be in control of your experiences and/or intended choices you make except you. “I love you” is very powerful, and can be used for great intentions, or very bad ones just like all other forms of communication. When you say hello, even that can be in either an aggressive or friendly manner. So don’t think “I love you” is any different from being able to communicate how you feel about someone. IN MY OPINION, do not focus so much on the words as they are words that can be thrown out just like saying hello. It is the specific intent behind them that needs more focus. Try not saying it. Try being the person who does whatever is possible in order to show that special someone that you are devoted to them. Countless efforts on your part through the time you spend together. Whether it be 6 months or 6 years, the time and effort you put into it, you will have “I love you” bursting out of your chest and you will want to sing it from the hills of Narnia. So just be patient and focus on the work that goes into saying “I love you.” When it comes time -to say it, it will not only feel right, but evidence will make it undeniable. Undeniable is defined as: unable to be denied or disputed. Bangov Actual, out.
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