I am CONVINCED that men have to find out what they want to do in life to be happy. All the interconnecting webs of misconceptions, societal norms and culture pressures are just distractions to what a man is really in need of to not only feel fulfilled, but also to not feel cheated that he is only doing something, or living his life in a way that was constructed by someone else. It is a hopeless romantic story, I will admit that but I love romance. I like them for the breaking of “natural” barriers put in place by those trying to control an outcome. Romeo and Juliet all the way to “The Best Of Me.” Hell if you haven’t heard of what Cleopatra did to get in with Julius Caesar, look that shit up. If a woman has her servants roll her in a rug and sneak her in my house, I’d probably fuck her too. Not sure about a second date because that bitch is out of her mind. Still, breaking the natural order of things for lust, love or even luxury, turn up the volume and shut up. Of course ladies would love to hear from you about what makes your foundation in order to be content in life. I can only speak from a man’s perspective. While a man can have many aspirations throughout his life It is interesting to me what I see a man go through during a break up. He will dress, eat, sleep, and occasionally talk differently. All of life’s possibilities are thrown in his face, he no longer has a commitment to a life that he did not understand. That is to say he was the one that initiated the break up. If not then get ready for a whiny little bitch that needs meaning in his life again because he hates his job, and doesn’t have the life that he thought he was going to have and thought he could be happy with someone else when he really should have been happy before he met the woman. Not saying it is her fault, she could even cheat on him, but that does not take away from the fact that the man was not happy before they were together. He may have been happy with her, but that is probably why she cheated on him. She couldn’t stand to share a life with a man who didn’t enjoy his. Gentlemen for those of you who may see a flaw in the logic, I encourage you to ask yourself if you are happy with or without your partner. If you were happy before, great, if not then stop wasting time focusing on the fact she cheated, spend time on making your life happy in order for the next woman to feel as if this is a life she is excited to be a part of. Shit rolls down hill. So make sure while you are choosing your day to day life, realize you are creating a world for yourself that the right woman for you would enjoy. Having a career determines your health, happiness, and way of life. So define that and the woman you end up with may be entirely different than the one that cheated on you. At least I hope she wouldn’t cheat on you because you got your shit together. That is not what I mean though. Think of the girl you dated, to the woman that is going to be your rock till the end of time. Unless you just want to pay for it, in that case BANGOV, Bangov Actual, out.
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