Jealousy has many faces. Jealous is defined as:feeling or showing envy of someone or their achievements and advantages. Synonyms for jealousy I find to be fascinated due to the perspective it opens. Usually when i have heard someone speak of a jealous person they do it in a passive aggressive way in order to make quick sense of a person’s irrational or even erratic behavior. Synonyms of jealousy are: enviousness,covetousness, desire,resentment, resentfulness, bitterness, discontent, spite, grudge, the green-eyed monster, suspicion, distrust, mistrust, doubt, insecurity, anxiety, apprehension about, rivals, possessiveness, over protectiveness, protectiveness. defensiveness, vigilance, watchfulness, heedfulness, mindfulness, care. solicitousness, attentiveness, just to name a few. Sounds pretty fucking evil right? Well no actually, evil is defined as: profoundly immoral or wicked. Not that Jealousy can’t turn into immorality. With such an easy definition.
Jealousy is a great way for me to describe to you, for anyone who reads this to choose your words more carefully. In moments of erratic behavior, arguments, verbal confrontation, really try and be careful with the words you may use to describe someone. If you call someone jealous, understand all the other words that coincide with that word. This doesn’t aid in a solution for you to just scream out random words in order to project an image on someone in order to win a crowd. In fact it just furthers confrontation. For anyone who may have an issue with someone for any sort of reason, it may take more than 20 min of hard thought in order to gather what you may describe that person as. Are they really jealous? Is there something underlying that could be the issue? You put that into perspective, you may have found a solution you both can agree on.
I would rather people said “fuck you” than label them as a word that is not conducive to finding a solution, or resolution. Fuck you is said in a defensive manner when not having anything else to say or when you’re establishing that you will not be walked over. People don’t really remember fuck you,but they do remember an impression they didn’t mean to give. Call someone evil, jealous, or racist. They know that to convince you otherwise is an uphill battle that may not be worth their time. So they walk away, and now 2 people who may have come to an understanding are now bound by their ignorance’s that could have been saved with simply digging into the heart of the problem. As a community, learning to communicate, just makes the community seem that much more productive, when we all speak with a purpose. Bangov Actual, out.
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