How do we push through the effects of negative people? Distance is a big one. Can’t be negative if they aren’t around you. Then again some of you can’t pick your parents, or brothers or sisters. Also maybe you’re under the impression you have to have money in the bank and make 100k before you can go live on your own. Making necessary sacrifices in order to get away from those that may be holding you back is a dangerous way to live. Letting someone impede on your life is just letting them control you. It is hard for you to not be controlled by your emotions when you’ve never really had time to gather them for yourself. Just think of why teenagers are in their rooms for long periods of time. They give themselves time to think about what they want to do aside from being under their parents house. It’s a time for establishing their own personality, it’s literally all over the walls what they into, anything from the Jonas Brothers, to sports cars and supermodels. Clues are around you when it comes to finding those you wish to associate yourself with. Monkey see, monkey do is probably a new system of schooling we should implement. Nothing for what I have seen is faster, and a more reliable means of communication. What’s even more interesting, you don’t really need a lot of words. Mountains of textbooks saved from inevitably will be the trash, or just recycled back for another person to forget a word of what was said. If you think I’m wrong, I wonder how many people would be able to tell me a few things they remembered out of a textbook they read. Not saying nobody would. A large majority of people would not be able to give me a single sentence out of a textbook. If I showed someone how to replace a tire on a car, I bet you they would remember for the rest of their days until they hit alzhemers. Which again if we go full circle, and we are to go back to the root of the question. HOW DO WE PUSH THROUGH THE EFFECTS OF NEGATIVE PEOPLE???.. My advice is to learn from them. Stare at them right in the face and realize the pain they are in due to lack of self worth. They are stuck just like you, but not like you, they are panicking. They are in a world of anxiety where they have to shout out to others in the hope that they won’t feel as lonely if they have someone down in the hole with them. Remember you can learn from even those you despise. Just rise above their pain, and create some distance. As well the moment of clarity is not instantaneous, may take a few minutes, may take a few days. Just don’t let it become a part of how you react to life’s difficulties. Letting someone else control you like that, you’re not an individual anymore, you’re a slave. Bangov Actual, out.
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