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Live In Fear, You May End Up Liking It

What is it people want at the gym? Well what do you want? Then go to every other person at the gym and ask what they want. How many different answers do you think you will get? People go to the gym, grocery store, and the same schools. We all have a choice in life to be where everyone else is. This is someone you admire, or even think you would like to have their life for a day. You think it’s so great, grass is greener on the other side kind of bullshit. You know everything about them. Where they live, job, what kind of dog they have, you are them for a day and in the end you’re still not happy because you haven’t really been able to choose anything for yourself. We idolize others for what they have done, what they have and even what you want to have. Well tough, guess what they have put in the work and you have not. Stop comparing yourself to others that are more “successful” than you. Success and fame are interesting concepts, when you think, success is defined as: the accomplishment of an aim or purpose, fame on the other hand is defined as: the state of being known or talked about by many people, especially on account of notable achievements. So who gets to decide notable achievements? As well not everyone likes who you like, nobody is held to the same standard as everyone else because nobody knows who everyone is. This may seem like a ramble but if you continuously chase the by-product of fame, that means skipping hard work in order to achieve success, you will always be one that has dreams, but never does anything to achieve them. Stuck in limbo, daydreaming and building a fake persona of who you are based on what you feel and not by what you’ve done. I’m not saying don’t dream, dream all you can, but you must have a plan of action or at least get wheels in motion. Having a dream and chasing them are very different feelings. Investing time and money will be one of many challenges, but the start is probably your most important. To persist, I can only tell you what I have done to keep going is find something you believe in hard enough, doubts will come so frequent, it will be like being numb all the time. Doubts are a part of our innate being to not make bold or take risks. Then again, what kind of life has that been in the past? Bangov Actual, out.

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Work All You Can

Expectations are only that which are communicated to each other. Job, transaction, parenting, friendships, EVEN SEX, is a negotiated relationship between individuals. I know I have been consistent with relationships between others, but these relationships are very important. Think of creating anything with no help. A business, product, or service, anything you do in order to market yourself, your social skills must improve, saying hello, good morning, good afternoon, good evening, shaking hands looking them in the eye, genuine acts of benevolence. Benevolence is defined as:the quality of being well meaning; kindness. The more genuine you are, which is why I try to be as definitive in who I present to others, being myself. The more I have realized others willingness to engage and be inclusive in conceptualizing. Conceptualizing is defined as: form a concept or idea of something. Be mindful that people are always about “good vibes,” or about being involved with those who encourage growth in how they want to identify. Don’t worry always about liking everyone, sometimes you may just need to be colleagues in order to get the job done. I remember through all my past jobs, those I worked best with were those whose sole focus was the job. Nothing more, they just wanted to do their work and go home. For as long as I can remember work has been the pass time off everything. Work, then rest, work then pray, work then eat, work then, eat, drink or sleep. Work is the inevitability that we must all get used to. Work as well is what we as people do in order to enjoy what has been gained from work. Those who choose to not work and think that they deserve more than those who do are entitled and these words are not for you. Bangov, is for those who work, like to work and instill work ethic in their children. Work is my life’s work and I can only hope that I can inspire those who read to make the changes necessary in order for your plans to come to fruition. Bangov Actual, out.

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Bangov Is Ever Evolving

What is Bangov? I could say it is an evolutionary standpoint that binds us all who invite themselves into the consciousness that they deserve better and want more out of life before they leave this world. Not to just be facetious, but I am not going to do that because it sounds dumb. As much as I would like to throw a bunch of words at you to sound intelligent, maybe some of you will even know what I am talking about. From a point of learning and going to others for what they are proficient in, I always like to begin telling them I KNOW NOTHING. When someone is willing to teach, in my opinion I have always been expressive in saying that I know little to nothing about what they are intending to say. Even in an applicable fashion, such as learning a skill or trade. Everyone has their way of doing things. All based on their interpretations of what was being taught to them is what they are passing on to you. If there are a million ways to skin a cat then, don’t waste time asking a million people how to do something. Ask one person, then ask another, and another, bend, tweak, and even create your own style of whatever art form you are trying to perfect. Be aggressive, yet open in your retention of knowledge. Listen, learn, interpret and ask yourself if you’re willing to commit action and devote your time. If not, be appreciative of the knowledge you have gathered and move on with your search for a pursuit. Bangov is consistent in what world it seeks to create, Bangov is not finite, nothing is 100%. Constant changes are made, always under scrutiny in order to adapt to any and all situations. All who read and share these blogs and the idea of what Bangov means to them, is all part of minor adjustments being made. It is easy to find a name. I write blogs every day, not too hard to find one word to embody the behavioral code which speaks to a large majority of people who want to feel like they have some sort of control over how they live their lives. (I am kidding obviously). Bangov is and will always be Ever Evolving. Bangov Actual, out.

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Accountability

Accountability of one’s self may be the most important thing you learn how to manage. Discipline is defined as: the practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior, using punishment to correct disobedience. I am not too sure I like this word. I’m not trying to get you to obey anything, as well as a code only you have set for yourself. Discipline I know has been overused by so many that it has lost its meaning. My goal for myself is to remain accountable for remembering what my goals are. Accountable is defined as: required or expected to justify actions or decisions; responsible. This to me feels less forceful for the individual. Not everyone will punish themselves when they do something against the original intentions they have set for themselves. Changing one word, we change the language and the intention. I don’t want you to punish yourself when you do something that is not conducive to your life’s ambitions. I am more interested in the things that get you to do them because you genuinely want to see the results. Kick and scream all you like. Someone telling me I have to kick myself for not conforming to what someone else is telling me to do when I am not even telling myself. You basically just have a person who uses you to see the outcome. Whether it works or not. Incentives work because they get you to do things that may seem hard to do at your own will. Being accountable for yourself and your actions leaves nobody at fault but yourself. Obedience is defined as: compliance with an order, request, or law or submission to authority. These words require actions I am not encouraging myself to go through with. Laws, compliance, submission to authority, Bangov has no authority over you because you encourage its presence from reading. Bangov only exists as it is welcomed. It is not forced upon you, no law requires you to read it, it is strictly sought out for a different perspective. I hope for myself and others a better life is expected through the pursuit of the individual, and will be met by those who truly find what they want and need to be happy. I am accountable for my actions, it is not by law, or fear of punishment that I am accountable. It is through the pursuit of a better life for all. I know what you’re all thinking, “what about responsibility?”…Responsibility is defined as: the state or fact of having a duty to deal with something or of having control over someone…I am not trying to control anyone or anything. This is Bangov for fuck sake. I’m just trying to get you to think outside of societal norms. That is the real brainwash if you ask me. Being OK, or even celebrating mediocrity. Bangov is and always will be a place for perspective…and while we are adding to the list, Perspective is defined as: a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view. Define your lives in what you choose to pursue. Focus on what you’re trying to say, hell say anything and decode from there. Bangov Actual, out.

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What Is Business To You?

What is a business, the cliche what you eat, sleep, breath. I just don’t think people of the younger generation are getting it. You don’t need a brick and mortar, you don’t even need to have a name yet. You just need to create an LLC in order to have a beginning for what you may end up calling something else. If your name is John Smith, then call it John Smith LLC. The name can come later after you find a product or service you would like to commit to, or even when you find the demographic for your audience. Bangov obviously went through some fazes, haha no way was I going to have another “freedom” or “Liberty” company. Just the names alone make me want to start suck start a shotgun. Only prior military may laugh at that joke, but HEY guess what, that is my demographic. That is what is so great about being able to say such ridiculous shit, is my people I cater to may have a few screws loose anyway. Plus this is my site and you come to me for entertainment. Business is defined as: a person’s regular occupation, profession, or trade. With such a broad definition, it is no wonder people are lost. Break it down. Your profession, profession is defined as: a paid occupation, especially one that involves prolonged training and a formal qualification. Something you’re paid for. Do not get too caught up in what you need countless hours for. If you’re good at sucking dick, and have hours of experience doing it, well I can guarantee you it may be needed in your state, Also after you establish a good client base, you may want to bring on some help, once the word gets out growth is inevitable, SO MANY DIRTY JOKES, but I digress. Knowing you’re good at something and having the confidence to market yourself I know is easier said than done. Just get ready to fail and fail a lot. DOES NOT MATTER. It is all about trial and error in what is going to work and what is going to make your product or service become the new norm for others. Forget the definition for a minute and think of what a business would mean to you? The definition is just to help the understanding of you having the confidence to go through with the process. I had my attorney do it and it cost about 3k, RELAX. I know for you penny pinchers that may seem like a lot of money, but when a lot more money is to be made then 3k, is all about the start-up costs. Also that is what a bank is for. Can we all come together on this and PLEASE quit demonizing banks? They literally give you money. Yes I know you have to pay it back, but I took out 20k for Bangov and was able to pay it off in a year. Was it easy? No, it is all about what you’re willing to sacrifice in your life up till now in order to create the life you want. Business to me was finally putting all this effort towards working 9-5 and overtime, but putting it towards what I wanted to do with my life. I sold stuff I did not want to. I flipped cars, did all my side hustles I have spoken about before, had people move in my house when I could have definitely lived alone and cozy, but I was trying to create something that was for me. No telling what I would have done really to create this and that is what I want for all of you. No judgment on the decisions you may have to make to make something in your life finally work for you. When you people that have been emailing me, just know any story I have read is not approached with anything but a willingness to learn from which hell you have had to endure. I will admit if it is funny and I bet you I can find the humor in possibly anything, time and place of course. When other people tend to tell me things that they need help on, well I am here for you and I live to serve. Business is not so complicated guys, but it does take fortitude, and a lot of dedication over time. Whether it is worth it or not depends on when you get to say to yourself that you enjoy what you’re doing. When you have the rest of your life to commit to yourself and your aspirations. Seems like a pretty good life to me. Just don’t give up, by all means fail. I know talking to military some of you say I will not fail because you have had it drilled into you over years of service, but this is reality and you will fail, but I think you misinterpret failure and giving up. Those are 2 different things. Failure just means you need to go a different way about things for your vision to work. Giving up means you just are not going to try anymore. So FAIL, FAIL, FAIL. Fail everyday. Giving up is not the option here at Bangov Actual, out.

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So Many Keys To Success, Get In The Fucking Door

When your passion is tested. Think of the millions of times when in your head you will tell yourself to quit. I used to play a game with myself and count the number of times I told myself to quit. I did it for a week. I quit over 300 times. When you’re constantly telling yourself to stop doing something, something is too hard, or this is not what I want to do. Usually the body follows the head anatomically. So therefore you just need to make the conscious decision to tell yourself the opposite. Nobody is holding you down, I hope, nobody is physically restraining you from succeeding. Of course everywhere you may look someone is telling you to go in a different direction but what you need to make as part of your daily routine among all the other things is telling yourself that you are your own person, and you have the confidence to do whatever you WANT TO DO. Not that you can do anything, that just confuses people. Understand the difference of what you have passion for, other than what you have seen on TV and just been motivated to do for a week. If you are truly passionate about something then nothing will stop you from attending in making yourself better. It will become easy and of course hard times will be mixed in but remember that it is all apart of the process of molding yourself and what you want to get out of each experience so maintaining that positive mental attitude will be the deciding factor on if you become one of the community or one of the best. Continue to encourage yourself, unless you can hire a coach, personal trainer, or someone just giving you compliments all day, still won’t matter until you tell yourself and do it so much that you start to believe it. Just has to be what you want. I have covered wants before and I can only hope that people continue to define what they want by what they are passionate about. The struggle is inside you so don’t play the blame game. Everything starts and ends with you and what you’re willing to tackle responsibility for. If your passion is key then turn it and go through the fucking door. Bangov Actual, out.

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Confidence Is The Game

When money is the obligation then freedom becomes second. Obligation is defined as: an act or course of action to which a person is morally or legally bound; a duty or commitment. I happened to know a little something about duty, commitment, and the legal binding of signing your name on the line for years of dedicated service to your country. The morality of that I will let you decide. Years of your life you are obligated to has a different feeling. Every day you get up not because you have ambition to get up. You do it out of a sense of duty to your promise you made. When the day comes that you have established your duty based on your moral obligations to what you have created. It will become a part of you. Doing it everyday, and you won’t have a day off because it will consume you. The days you had before seemed distant, unimportant and a place saver for what was going on inside you. Just takes time. Which again is why I write so many other blogs about saving time, not wasting it on people that haven’t found their own way of life. They don’t have their vision, direction, or they just don’t care to compete. Common misconception is that when the race is over,win or lose that it is over. You are done. Look at any star athlete, celebrity, Olympic champion. Once the race or game has been won to prove themselves they are still at a constant. Life doesn’t end when you win. Life ends when it ends. Even after they have proved themselves they continue on for the next challenge, adventure. Whether it be wealth, love, or another physical pursuit. There are those who don’t have enough confidence in themselves in order to make the decision to pursue something. Also be very aware CONFIDENCE IS THE GAME. Look at life as it is only the things you want to do. You’ll be amazed at what world you can create for yourself. We always look to people of fame and fortune and say those are things I cannot do. I am not interested in those things. THEN PICK SOMETHING YOU LIKE. Nobody daydreams of what they wish not to be. Granted they may have flashes or decisions in order to stay away from what they fear to become. Only you can make those choices for yourself. Pick and choose based on what manifests in your mind. Create, create, create, dig, dig, dig. Nothing I have not said before, but I will continue to say it to get it through your big heads. Also a big head can still be small minded so stay hungry in your pursuit of knowledge and always stay confident in your abilities. You may think you’re in last place right now, may be broke, hungry, tired. In the game of life, if you’re not moving forward, then get out of the way. Bangov Actual, out.

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