Don’t Control, Communicate Instead

Bangov Actual

August 31, 2023

Again, people it’s called Bangov, not anti-politics. I truly believe that conversations are great to build and understand in this world, BUT when you are talking to someone that has already made up their mind, or someone who is emotionally involved in the subject, they may think of themselves as a subject matter expert. Great example is David Hogg, survivor of the Parkland Shooting and is now an advocate for gun control. Does this make him an expert on the subject of gun control, violence or reform, absolutely not, but those who know even less than him are willing to partake in someone who has risen to fame in such a short amount of time. Don’t worry about credentials, people on the internet know who he is so he must be a legitimate person to follow for “change.” 

 Bangov is a very strong advocate for communication in various forms. Especially in which it strengthens communities by mutual respect and understanding. How diverse a community can be can only see the light of day between violence and chaos is through discussion and said having an understanding of each stance on a particular matter. If someone is one way, let them be that as long as it poses no harm to you or others. Way of life as I have stated many times in other blogs is up to each individual to decide for themselves. How they wish to dress, talk, or where they wish to work. Of course, conversations can be had about the best option based on the facts, but then again those who have convinced themselves they are right are immune to logic and reasoning and should be left to live as they wish. Control your actions and not those of others. As I like to tell others, if those who feel someone is trying to control your outcome based on what you believe, it is almost as if a bomb is about to go off. They usually don’t have control over their own lives and when they feel you slipping away, or they feel their way of thinking is irrelevant, they tend to explode. So, my best advice is to steer clear of the blast area. Get these people out of your life and this is a self-confidence you will gain all on your own as you take a step in the right direction.

Control is an illusion, Bangov Actual, out.