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Battles Within One For Many

Biggest transfer of power that I know is with yourself. First you help someone in need, then you help all who you’re close to, whenever opportunities present themselves you lend a hand. Then when you find your Bangov you start with saying no. Not because you don’t want to help but because you’re chasing your happiness. Don’t worry about the world while you’re trying to figure yourself out. You are either meant to fight or not. Then when you’ve achieved who you were meant to be then you will realize that you are now able to help more people than you could imagine. One thing I have heard from people is that they rather help others, rather than focus on themselves. They are content with their decision of helping on an individual basis. I will not try to convince them otherwise. As Bangov Actual I hope to encourage those into believing in themselves. If they believe they can help even a single person then I am proud of their efforts. “Help” is defined as: make it easier for (someone) to do something by offering one’s services or resources. Personally I am more a fan of incentives that get people to do things outside their means, expertise because I am convinced of incentivizing people to get back to work, and realize their potential, they may just see the shift in the world they may need. If battles can be won with the right angle then many will be won with more good people making the shift. Bangov Actual, out.

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“Problems” Or A Different Approach

Writing to make things bearable. This is why I tell you to write things down. You can’t remember everything. Write down your thoughts, frustrations, goals, ambitions. Keys you have written down will open so many doors for you to embrace how much you’re feeling inside and will bring what is inside to life. I write to communicate. The mouth cannot regurgitate everything that the mind is thinking. It is fitting a super computer on a turn belt, Niagara falls through a straw, which is the same feeling when trying to piss while having an erection, so maybe poor choice of words, but let us move on from this. The mouth can only say what it is trained to say. Think of learning a foreign language, you must train linguistically through repetitive movement of the mouth. Your tongue is a muscle, just like your brain, but what needs to be said needs to be written down first. Accumulate all of your thought processes and analyze them over time. Those who say or do things today may say and do something different a year from now. For me the things I write to you are not only thoughts but the process in which they are expressed. These give me time to digest thoughts and emotions I would rather not express until I have further had time to consolidate what I am trying to communicate. Remember using big words does not make someone intelligent. Intelligence is defined as: the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills. Everyone is intelligent in something, I have said it before. I believe everyone has a talent, and I love to drag it out of them in order to show them they are special in their own way and should utilize their talents in order to rise above poverty or even out of their comfort if they choose to do so. Bangov should be in all of our minds as a way for us to break through barriers. We do not dodge obstacles, we face them head on and on an occasion we step to the side for when shit hits the fan. We can all be intelligent in something, but ignorance is when you think you have it all figured out. I write as a way of getting all I have going for me and all I need to work on in front of me. With so many lock doors and so many keys, it is in my best interest just to keep putting keys into doors till some open. Those who are tired of problems, step into my world and welcome problems as a neurological strike to the brain in order to help you find solutions. Problems are defined as: a matter or situation regarded as unwelcome or harmful and needing to be dealt with and overcome. The need for whatever comes your way will inevitably lead you to a new perspective, as long as you stay positive, what you have in your mind will be all the strength you need to push forward in your endeavors. Bangov Actual, out.

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My Version Of “Fake It Till You Make It”

Pretending who we need to be, to get where we want. To me everything is salesmanship. Only difference is I am not forcing customers to buy anything they don’t actually need. Bangov is not to take up space in your home, but it is for you to take with you everywhere you go. Confidence is defined as: full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing, or belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance: Bangov is for you to take along your journey of taking risks, daydreaming. Being confident in yourself when you need the strength to move forward. The belief you have in yourself of course will come with time. I didn’t create Bangov in a day, week or year. It has been my life’s work, a constant fear of never having enough money to do the things I wish, living the life I wanted. Never taking risks on love, thinking I have to be at a point in my life in order to live my life. Sometimes it is good to pretend. It helps us solidify the dreams in our heads and realize that the distance between having a dream and living one are only a couple decisions away. For the ladies maybe a dress you can’t afford, makeup and hair done, and OF COURSE let’s not forget about the shoes. For my gentlemen, nice suit, watch, haircut and shave. To treat yourself with things you wouldn’t usually have is just putting on a face of who you are inside. Problem is people usually retreat back to those whom they think they have to be to please others. Or worse, they don’t try to hold on to the dream for as long as possible. Believe me I understand having to make sacrifices in order to get to where you want to be. That does not mean the dream may stay the same. Dreams are evolving with time and experiences. Like a blank canvas you wake up to every morning. Just pick up the brush and start painting and see what comes of your motion. Have confidence in yourself, whatever face you choose to put on, brave face, tired face, angry face and trust yourself that you can keep going. When it has been a hard day, I quietly whisper to myself, Bangov. To me Bangov is something for all to hold on to when you need an anchor. Something when your mind is lost, you need something to ground yourself to. When you’re afraid of floating away, being forgotten, Bangov will always be there. As I am continually trying to make Bangov more accessible to others, through blogs, social media, some day an app which I am tirelessly trying to figure that shit out. I whisper because it is what I wake up thinking about, and what makes it hard for me to fall asleep at night. My hope is for all who read, that you will find your Bangov one day. To dream is such a beautiful thing, and to be lost in your dream is just another way to say you’ve made it a reality.

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The Fear Of Love

Love is a very daunting task to me. Daunting is defined as: causing fear or discouragement; intimidating. Most of us have felt the feeling. High school sweetheart, summer fling, or maybe even a friend you just couldn’t help but push away anymore. We have love, and lost, then lost the love. Like most things that are worthwhile, they take time. That is the only way we know that they are worth the effort. Anything that takes away time from something else is what our focus is on. I focus on many things that I probably shouldn’t. Love is not one of them as I spend all my waking hours writing to you, so it’s no wonder why I am still single. Or hell at least always at arms length with marriage and what it means to me. That all being said, one thing is clear to me, that when I graduated high school, the world had just ended, so to speak. Then when I got out of the military it ended again. You think after all I have written about positivity I would have looked at it in a different light, but that would not be honest to my readers. As I was young, my cynicism grew and grew…and grew. Thing about cynicism(cynical) which is defined as: distrusting or disparaging the motives of others. What I have realized is the relationship between love and fear. When you lose someone, a relationship, or they just are not around anymore. Fear is no longer a reasonable emotion. They are already gone. We fear losing them, we fear the day they may not be there, or the experiences we may not get to have with them. Fear is what keeps people together or apart. Fear is defined as: a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid. Remember fear is just as real as you imagine it to be. So whatever your fears, focus on who and what you want in life and the rest of those fears will pass with time. I have had the pleasure of seeing beauty in the eyes of someone sleeping next to you. You want to tell me something that makes you afraid, pshss try waking and staring at someone when they are at their most vulnerable. As they sleep and hair in their face, a slight bit of drool creeping out of the corner of their mouth, and you put a blanket over them because you felt a slight chill and you’re no longer next to them keeping them warm. You ask “why didn’t he stay in bed with her?” I was making breakfast bitch! It was a Thursday and we got work to do, so don’t give me any shit. So my question to you is do we hold on in fear of them being gone? If you have ready anything previous to this you know I am a huge proponent of choice. That is because it eliminates false senses of security that we have woven into our society’s willingness to comply with the decisions of the masses. In my experience giving someone the choice to make their own decisions, may not always give you what you want, but both parties end up finding peace they can live with. Love should no longer be the goal, it is merely the byproduct of making the decision to be with someone above all because we truly do want them. Then years down the road when time has been invested in the relationship, you will know the fear of losing them will be for the right person. Not just because you are controlled by fear. Bangov Actual, out.

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Friends Are Always There

We’re all trying to figure out life’s challenges. We call them challenges, but they are just choices. Kids, who we want to be and be with. You said so yourself you don’t need all the answers right now. Some of us must remember if there’s an answer we need, then don’t live in ignorance. Seek answers, and ask questions. Conversation shouldn’t be the fear. Decisions shouldn’t be either but ignorance is terrifying when we think about what might have been. When a friend is in need, be there. Maybe the gesture will be returned to you. Maybe not, only this way will you find out If the company you keep is the company you want.  I have always said I have the greatest friends in the world. It is because they constantly surprise me. We do not owe each other anything, we do not talk all the time, we don’t see each other all the time. I am far from them, but in the end they are always there. A constant reminder of those I have in my life. Knowing who they are answers so many questions that I need not ask them. They are forever images and hopes of a life where I could be with them always, but life’s ambitions keep me from them. I am a constant seeker, while those who choose to stay have found their bliss. A man in search of a vision(or woman) is that of relentless anxiety that if they stand still, they may be forgotten about. Waking up in a sea of decisions that needs to be made within the hour to make sure your day is more productive than the last. When the day is done, the dust has settled, I still see them, they are the calm, right before the storm starts again. May just answer some questions on why I encourage you as readers to open yourself up to others. People will hurt you, but it is part of the experience of finding those you will need to fight exceptionally more fierce battles. For those of you who have all the wrong ones around you. You’re better off alone if you choose to be better.

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Live In Fear, You May End Up Liking It

What is it people want at the gym? Well what do you want? Then go to every other person at the gym and ask what they want. How many different answers do you think you will get? People go to the gym, grocery store, and the same schools. We all have a choice in life to be where everyone else is. This is someone you admire, or even think you would like to have their life for a day. You think it’s so great, grass is greener on the other side kind of bullshit. You know everything about them. Where they live, job, what kind of dog they have, you are them for a day and in the end you’re still not happy because you haven’t really been able to choose anything for yourself. We idolize others for what they have done, what they have and even what you want to have. Well tough, guess what they have put in the work and you have not. Stop comparing yourself to others that are more “successful” than you. Success and fame are interesting concepts, when you think, success is defined as: the accomplishment of an aim or purpose, fame on the other hand is defined as: the state of being known or talked about by many people, especially on account of notable achievements. So who gets to decide notable achievements? As well not everyone likes who you like, nobody is held to the same standard as everyone else because nobody knows who everyone is. This may seem like a ramble but if you continuously chase the by-product of fame, that means skipping hard work in order to achieve success, you will always be one that has dreams, but never does anything to achieve them. Stuck in limbo, daydreaming and building a fake persona of who you are based on what you feel and not by what you’ve done. I’m not saying don’t dream, dream all you can, but you must have a plan of action or at least get wheels in motion. Having a dream and chasing them are very different feelings. Investing time and money will be one of many challenges, but the start is probably your most important. To persist, I can only tell you what I have done to keep going is find something you believe in hard enough, doubts will come so frequent, it will be like being numb all the time. Doubts are a part of our innate being to not make bold or take risks. Then again, what kind of life has that been in the past? Bangov Actual, out.

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Work All You Can

Expectations are only that which are communicated to each other. Job, transaction, parenting, friendships, EVEN SEX, is a negotiated relationship between individuals. I know I have been consistent with relationships between others, but these relationships are very important. Think of creating anything with no help. A business, product, or service, anything you do in order to market yourself, your social skills must improve, saying hello, good morning, good afternoon, good evening, shaking hands looking them in the eye, genuine acts of benevolence. Benevolence is defined as:the quality of being well meaning; kindness. The more genuine you are, which is why I try to be as definitive in who I present to others, being myself. The more I have realized others willingness to engage and be inclusive in conceptualizing. Conceptualizing is defined as: form a concept or idea of something. Be mindful that people are always about “good vibes,” or about being involved with those who encourage growth in how they want to identify. Don’t worry always about liking everyone, sometimes you may just need to be colleagues in order to get the job done. I remember through all my past jobs, those I worked best with were those whose sole focus was the job. Nothing more, they just wanted to do their work and go home. For as long as I can remember work has been the pass time off everything. Work, then rest, work then pray, work then eat, work then, eat, drink or sleep. Work is the inevitability that we must all get used to. Work as well is what we as people do in order to enjoy what has been gained from work. Those who choose to not work and think that they deserve more than those who do are entitled and these words are not for you. Bangov, is for those who work, like to work and instill work ethic in their children. Work is my life’s work and I can only hope that I can inspire those who read to make the changes necessary in order for your plans to come to fruition. Bangov Actual, out.

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