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Coffee With Perfection

OK, for some of you this may be a change of pace for why you visit Bangov blogs. Not trying to get religious on anyone but when you have laid eyes on the forbidden fruit, you must expect a side of you to come out that you have been suppressing for a long time. As it nears, you can only hope for one thing. Please don’t be wearing a thong. If you haven’t caught on to the plot of this blog yet. You need to find a girlfriend. Who’s ass is like that of something you are willing to be damned for all eternity to touch. For my ladies, you have no idea how much power you have as a woman. We advertise life as a man’s world. Salesmanship as I have come to realize is the great Kansas City shuffle. As made popular by one of my all time favorite assassin movies Lucky Number Slevin. For those of you who don’t know it is the ultimate innuendo. innuendo is defined as: an allusive or oblique remark or hint, typically a suggestive or disparaging one. To simplify it is the ultimate phrase of misdirection. Ladies the beauty of your species can never be defined by a word, phrase, or simple meaning. Only way that the human race has ever even come close has been displayed by what a man is willing to say, not say, do or even die for a woman he truly desires. Love, pshhh love is a cheap word that is utilized in billions of dollars of revenue every day just so a man can express to a woman with ease in hopes of reassuring her that even though he took a glance at the waitresses ass last night,  he has reassured her that she is still number 2 to his goals, ambitions, dreams, aspirations. Ladies, this is merely meant to communicate one man’s observations of women in the roles that they choose to play. Play being the optimal word. Even in the military the impressions of military training can not always tell the difference between real combat and training. Simulated stress is still stress. You combine gunfire, explosions, and physical exertion, day after day, year after year, you have the finest warriors that money can buy. When it comes to you ladies, men are put through the fucking ringer. Nothing is simulated, it is all real life. The physical exertion, the explosions, and even gunfire all happen inside a man who’s potential of making you happy is the only war he is thinking of winning. Training is the day to day of men trying to figure out how to win the battles you have placed in front as your standard for him to reach you. Am I saying make it easy on them, HELL FUCKING NO!!!, put that fucker through hell week, and if he is still interested, then you may have found someone that is worth your time. What drives me up the fucking wall is women who settle for losers, beautiful, smart, ambitious women. Even worse they reproduce with them and clog the fucking freeway. Seriously, the 10 freeway is getting out of hand. Never mind that, but ladies you have an innate responsibility and it is between your legs and to shut it to every man who does not live up to what you have envisioned as a man. It’s lonely I get it. It is 2022, Woman created the fucking game that men struggle so much to try and interpret. Seriously ladies, the amount of money that some men will spend to even have the courage to talk to you, dating coaches range from $60-150$ an hour, and then online profiles help. Speech coaching, it all adds up. Of course I am not wanting to say it is all about money, but of course ladies there is nothing sexier than a man with no ambition, or future goals, that lives on welfare…..with mom…gets me hard too. The misdirection of all this as I was describing previously is that women make up 70-80% of the purchasing power on all consumer purchasing. Think of your house, the only way this works if you are honest. Who had the most influence on the curtains, drapes, tile, wall coloring? Shit you cannot tell me that your man did not have some sort of influence from you on what house to buy or even the shirt he put on that day, and if you bought it for him you can fuck right off. Ladies again, you have no idea the power you possess over a man because historically you have been the best parts of our life, and our population as a species would not be double in size since the 1970’s if you were not already perfect. This blog was brought to you by the lady whose ass I was checking out in the coffee shop. You have inspired me, if not millions who may read this as you walked away.

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Assholes Are Misunderstood (non sexual)

We know what we know and nobody can tell us different. This is a dangerous mentality. I have been very grateful to have had leadership and great teachers, who love what they do and are very passionate about what they teach and want to share with others. Really sucks  when a piece of shit has to prove to everyone that he is the baddest. I mean it is fun for me because I want to be the one to test him. Not saying he won’t pass my test. I am definitely not the baddest fucker around, nor do i pretend to be, but testing those who seem to think they are the best has always intrigued me. I want to spar, or I want to open up lines of communication to them. To see what they know and what they think is right. Treat everything as a learning experience and you will never waste a day in your life. We have all met assholes before, but maybe just like everyone else until you get to meet someone they may seem like an asshole. Ladies you cannot tell me that someone has misunderstood your man who you snuggle up to every night and think he is a mean person. He is big, has tattoos, drinks, likes angry music and cusses all the time. THAT IS LIKE HALF MY FRIENDS. Most of them are some of the funniest people I have ever met and like to have a good time. This is why I keep them around. They are also very hard workers, collaborative, smart, funny and very family oriented people. I am not saying go up and make friends with everyone around the bar. I will say if you open yourself up and let people surprise you then they probably will. They may even become good friends or even someone you can have a casual nod to when you see each other at the same bar. The concept of opening yourself up as well gives you an advantage, for my military people, (tactical advantage) in familiarizing yourself with an area and those around you. Setting the scene for you to be the person who does not come off as the aggressor, but wants everyone to have a good time. This is how people gravitate towards you, an better yet it is positive people feeding off your vibe. Stereotypes do keep you alive in some certain situations. So not saying to drop your guard, but you can always have a shield up while being inviting. Just takes practice and a willingness to open yourself up to new ideas and experiences. If you do this in a bar or public setting, which I hope is a safe setting. Don’t be making friends in back of allies, but in an environment where people are meeting and greeting, this may help in how you approach people of importance in your life. When you ask your boss for a raise. Discussing with potential clients, or even just creating connections with possible investors. This is what I would like to see others doing when trying to improve themselves. Paying attention to the “assholes” in the room. If you label them too quickly then it is your fault if you did not take the time to learn from them. If they are so confident in themselves then why wouldn’t you want to find out what they know? Very rarely is someone a bad person in this world. I mean an actual bad person. We are all trying to find our way in this world, but unless you enjoy or have the intent of hurting someone, and you just wish to make something out of your life then that means everyone else is just jealous when you have found the confidence that everyone wishes they had. I do jujitsu a few times a week and man is it fun to roll with those who you know are trying the hardest. Those who want to be the best. Of course if your intention is just to feel more confident or just get in better shape, then maybe the attitude they have is not for you. Those who really want to improve or even compete, they all tend to find each other on the mat. After a few months, you know who the challengers in the class are. You just decide is it a easy flow day I’m going to go roll with this group or am I going to roll with this group and really feel the soreness tomorrow. Some of you go to the gym, so ask yourself is it going to be a heavy lift day or an active rest day. Quit treating those you don’t agree with, or maybe have a different approach. They are not the enemy unless their sole intention is to hurt you. Some guys are just trying to make it to the next level. If this so-called “asshole” is so arrogant then maybe he would like to talk about himself. So go ask some questions. Military was so easy for me to pick out great leaders. All you had to do was ask a question to someone that was a higher rank than you. If it was a legitimate question about your job or a way to make yourself better, and they did not want to give you any knowledge. Then fuck that guy I won’t follow him anywhere. Leaders and those I would follow in the gates of hell were people who constantly wanted me to learn, take classes and if they did not know an answer they made sure and found it for you. Nobody likes assholes, but nobody likes the leader either. BanGov Actual, out.

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Battles Within One For Many

Biggest transfer of power that I know is with yourself. First you help someone in need, then you help all who you’re close to, whenever opportunities present themselves you lend a hand. Then when you find your Bangov you start with saying no. Not because you don’t want to help but because you’re chasing your happiness. Don’t worry about the world while you’re trying to figure yourself out. You are either meant to fight or not. Then when you’ve achieved who you were meant to be then you will realize that you are now able to help more people than you could imagine. One thing I have heard from people is that they rather help others, rather than focus on themselves. They are content with their decision of helping on an individual basis. I will not try to convince them otherwise. As Bangov Actual I hope to encourage those into believing in themselves. If they believe they can help even a single person then I am proud of their efforts. “Help” is defined as: make it easier for (someone) to do something by offering one’s services or resources. Personally I am more a fan of incentives that get people to do things outside their means, expertise because I am convinced of incentivizing people to get back to work, and realize their potential, they may just see the shift in the world they may need. If battles can be won with the right angle then many will be won with more good people making the shift. Bangov Actual, out.

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“Problems” Or A Different Approach

Writing to make things bearable. This is why I tell you to write things down. You can’t remember everything. Write down your thoughts, frustrations, goals, ambitions. Keys you have written down will open so many doors for you to embrace how much you’re feeling inside and will bring what is inside to life. I write to communicate. The mouth cannot regurgitate everything that the mind is thinking. It is fitting a super computer on a turn belt, Niagara falls through a straw, which is the same feeling when trying to piss while having an erection, so maybe poor choice of words, but let us move on from this. The mouth can only say what it is trained to say. Think of learning a foreign language, you must train linguistically through repetitive movement of the mouth. Your tongue is a muscle, just like your brain, but what needs to be said needs to be written down first. Accumulate all of your thought processes and analyze them over time. Those who say or do things today may say and do something different a year from now. For me the things I write to you are not only thoughts but the process in which they are expressed. These give me time to digest thoughts and emotions I would rather not express until I have further had time to consolidate what I am trying to communicate. Remember using big words does not make someone intelligent. Intelligence is defined as: the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills. Everyone is intelligent in something, I have said it before. I believe everyone has a talent, and I love to drag it out of them in order to show them they are special in their own way and should utilize their talents in order to rise above poverty or even out of their comfort if they choose to do so. Bangov should be in all of our minds as a way for us to break through barriers. We do not dodge obstacles, we face them head on and on an occasion we step to the side for when shit hits the fan. We can all be intelligent in something, but ignorance is when you think you have it all figured out. I write as a way of getting all I have going for me and all I need to work on in front of me. With so many lock doors and so many keys, it is in my best interest just to keep putting keys into doors till some open. Those who are tired of problems, step into my world and welcome problems as a neurological strike to the brain in order to help you find solutions. Problems are defined as: a matter or situation regarded as unwelcome or harmful and needing to be dealt with and overcome. The need for whatever comes your way will inevitably lead you to a new perspective, as long as you stay positive, what you have in your mind will be all the strength you need to push forward in your endeavors. Bangov Actual, out.

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My Version Of “Fake It Till You Make It”

Pretending who we need to be, to get where we want. To me everything is salesmanship. Only difference is I am not forcing customers to buy anything they don’t actually need. Bangov is not to take up space in your home, but it is for you to take with you everywhere you go. Confidence is defined as: full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing, or belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance: Bangov is for you to take along your journey of taking risks, daydreaming. Being confident in yourself when you need the strength to move forward. The belief you have in yourself of course will come with time. I didn’t create Bangov in a day, week or year. It has been my life’s work, a constant fear of never having enough money to do the things I wish, living the life I wanted. Never taking risks on love, thinking I have to be at a point in my life in order to live my life. Sometimes it is good to pretend. It helps us solidify the dreams in our heads and realize that the distance between having a dream and living one are only a couple decisions away. For the ladies maybe a dress you can’t afford, makeup and hair done, and OF COURSE let’s not forget about the shoes. For my gentlemen, nice suit, watch, haircut and shave. To treat yourself with things you wouldn’t usually have is just putting on a face of who you are inside. Problem is people usually retreat back to those whom they think they have to be to please others. Or worse, they don’t try to hold on to the dream for as long as possible. Believe me I understand having to make sacrifices in order to get to where you want to be. That does not mean the dream may stay the same. Dreams are evolving with time and experiences. Like a blank canvas you wake up to every morning. Just pick up the brush and start painting and see what comes of your motion. Have confidence in yourself, whatever face you choose to put on, brave face, tired face, angry face and trust yourself that you can keep going. When it has been a hard day, I quietly whisper to myself, Bangov. To me Bangov is something for all to hold on to when you need an anchor. Something when your mind is lost, you need something to ground yourself to. When you’re afraid of floating away, being forgotten, Bangov will always be there. As I am continually trying to make Bangov more accessible to others, through blogs, social media, some day an app which I am tirelessly trying to figure that shit out. I whisper because it is what I wake up thinking about, and what makes it hard for me to fall asleep at night. My hope is for all who read, that you will find your Bangov one day. To dream is such a beautiful thing, and to be lost in your dream is just another way to say you’ve made it a reality.

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The Fear Of Love

Love is a very daunting task to me. Daunting is defined as: causing fear or discouragement; intimidating. Most of us have felt the feeling. High school sweetheart, summer fling, or maybe even a friend you just couldn’t help but push away anymore. We have love, and lost, then lost the love. Like most things that are worthwhile, they take time. That is the only way we know that they are worth the effort. Anything that takes away time from something else is what our focus is on. I focus on many things that I probably shouldn’t. Love is not one of them as I spend all my waking hours writing to you, so it’s no wonder why I am still single. Or hell at least always at arms length with marriage and what it means to me. That all being said, one thing is clear to me, that when I graduated high school, the world had just ended, so to speak. Then when I got out of the military it ended again. You think after all I have written about positivity I would have looked at it in a different light, but that would not be honest to my readers. As I was young, my cynicism grew and grew…and grew. Thing about cynicism(cynical) which is defined as: distrusting or disparaging the motives of others. What I have realized is the relationship between love and fear. When you lose someone, a relationship, or they just are not around anymore. Fear is no longer a reasonable emotion. They are already gone. We fear losing them, we fear the day they may not be there, or the experiences we may not get to have with them. Fear is what keeps people together or apart. Fear is defined as: a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid. Remember fear is just as real as you imagine it to be. So whatever your fears, focus on who and what you want in life and the rest of those fears will pass with time. I have had the pleasure of seeing beauty in the eyes of someone sleeping next to you. You want to tell me something that makes you afraid, pshss try waking and staring at someone when they are at their most vulnerable. As they sleep and hair in their face, a slight bit of drool creeping out of the corner of their mouth, and you put a blanket over them because you felt a slight chill and you’re no longer next to them keeping them warm. You ask “why didn’t he stay in bed with her?” I was making breakfast bitch! It was a Thursday and we got work to do, so don’t give me any shit. So my question to you is do we hold on in fear of them being gone? If you have ready anything previous to this you know I am a huge proponent of choice. That is because it eliminates false senses of security that we have woven into our society’s willingness to comply with the decisions of the masses. In my experience giving someone the choice to make their own decisions, may not always give you what you want, but both parties end up finding peace they can live with. Love should no longer be the goal, it is merely the byproduct of making the decision to be with someone above all because we truly do want them. Then years down the road when time has been invested in the relationship, you will know the fear of losing them will be for the right person. Not just because you are controlled by fear. Bangov Actual, out.

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Friends Are Always There

We’re all trying to figure out life’s challenges. We call them challenges, but they are just choices. Kids, who we want to be and be with. You said so yourself you don’t need all the answers right now. Some of us must remember if there’s an answer we need, then don’t live in ignorance. Seek answers, and ask questions. Conversation shouldn’t be the fear. Decisions shouldn’t be either but ignorance is terrifying when we think about what might have been. When a friend is in need, be there. Maybe the gesture will be returned to you. Maybe not, only this way will you find out If the company you keep is the company you want.  I have always said I have the greatest friends in the world. It is because they constantly surprise me. We do not owe each other anything, we do not talk all the time, we don’t see each other all the time. I am far from them, but in the end they are always there. A constant reminder of those I have in my life. Knowing who they are answers so many questions that I need not ask them. They are forever images and hopes of a life where I could be with them always, but life’s ambitions keep me from them. I am a constant seeker, while those who choose to stay have found their bliss. A man in search of a vision(or woman) is that of relentless anxiety that if they stand still, they may be forgotten about. Waking up in a sea of decisions that needs to be made within the hour to make sure your day is more productive than the last. When the day is done, the dust has settled, I still see them, they are the calm, right before the storm starts again. May just answer some questions on why I encourage you as readers to open yourself up to others. People will hurt you, but it is part of the experience of finding those you will need to fight exceptionally more fierce battles. For those of you who have all the wrong ones around you. You’re better off alone if you choose to be better.

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