Looks can be deceiving….no shit, right? Well, that’s because you tend to look at everything through our own eyes and continue to skew your own reality towards a perverse reality. It’s ok though, you’re not the only one. When things get hard, or time seems like it is standing still then we have more and more things to pile onto life.
What is seen through the eyes should not always be trusted. Close your eyes and start seeing things from the mind’s eye. Too many distractions when you open your eyes you let in all the distractions as well. I’m reminded of times when I have been frustrated with someone or something and not known of any of the factors that have come into play. When my children frustrate me of course it is always hard at the moment to get them to calm down and think rationally. Rational is defined as: agreeable to reason. That is very hard when they get to the kicking, screaming, door slamming phase.
You must bring them down from the storm that is brewing inside their head, and then bring rationality into the mix. Same happens when everything looks to be deceiving. You’re in the storm. You’re only seeing what you have to fight, you’re punching, kicking, and screaming in your head. So don’t think just because something has happened to you, that it must be everyone else’s reality. The world doesn’t revolve around your problems. So be a solution. Don’t pester those who don’t know what you have been through, maybe they have been through more than you. Also, maybe they have a better attitude than you. Bangov Actual, out.