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I Miss Friday Nights, There I Said It

You feel like you’re losing your mind. Trying to reinvent the wheel. When you’re dreaming big it is always going to be more work. Don’t compare your success, it is your own and it will never be like someone else’s. If you have the same look, hair, car, house as someone you admire, great. Just don’t compare yourself and think you are a failure if you don’t have those things then you’re doing something wrong. Also this is not me saying to be yourself bullshit. Nobody is good enough as themselves unless they are constantly trying to improve. Mommy does love you, but does want you to make something of yourself. We should all want our children. My hypothetical kids get 2 options. A ball or a book. Either they are really smart or very good at sports. It’s when the kid grabs the book and dunks like, “ya, kids not mine, wife definitely cheated.” Bahhaha calm the fuck down. If you’re offended by my hypothetical family jokes I make then please get off my site. Get’s really exhausting having to remind people of that. I created a social media for fuck sake and you want me to cater to those who can’t answer the simple question of do they like dick or vagina? Or are you confused which one is which? My favorite is pan sexual, always sounded like a kitchen orgy to me. Now as someone who does not want to judge, or provoke, because that is not the intent of Bangov, and not the intention of my blogs. I’ll offend everyone til we’re all on the same page. Can you see how that may seem stressful, or seem like a full time job keeping up with who gets offended for what. I say all are welcome, and if you have a dick, vagina, or identify as another species of animal, so be it. Those are personal thoughts I don’t particularly care to be a part of. I am more interested in your way of life and how you choose to provide for yourself, family and how you treat others in your community. I am a HUGE advocate for close communities. Community being defined as: a group of people living in the same place or having a particular characteristic in common. I’ll extend that to communities where businesses thrive off the environment around it. People that go to a bar because it has great dancing, food, wine selection. Friday nights keep businesses open. Not just bars and restaurants, but this is a part of the workforce way of blowing off steam. Of course those who work through Friday I applaud you and your commitment to the company. Even though that is something to admire about Friday nights, employers see who is putting in the extra effort and staying late to make sure shit is getting done. Health of a community depends on people being able to go out and experience the people around them. Go to a concert, see an opera, I like seeing a ballet just as much as the next guy………just me? OK fine, we all have our different flavors in life. Next bar room brawl, invite me, and next nutcracker or romeo and Juliet that is in town we’ll go and If I see you cry drinks are on you. Bangov Is a push back on government overreach in order to stimulate economic growth through entrepreneurial means. No race, creed, gender, or sexual orientation required. You just need to have a desire to better yourself and be open to conversation because I guarantee you those who disagree with one another can still learn and benefit from one another. Talk reinventing the wheel. The problem for me was that it was broken so long ago that nobody knew where to start. So I am starting with each person individually. Just up to each of you to want to welcome Bangov as a part of your community. Nice because I don’t have to go anywhere. You come to me. So Welcome.  Bangov is Community, Bangov Actual, out.

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Teachers Know About As Much As You

Money will never be enough. With more money you will want more things. Turn that part off in your brain and you will do more with less. Doing more with less will eventually turn your money into purpose instead of looking at money as more than others can handle. Money is just a tool, but just as any other tool, a rifle, or a pen that others take for granted or do not see a specific use. In your hands people will no longer look at money the same when it comes from you. Your job is to inspire others to see money differently than what they have been taught. Everyone has been taught wrong. The many  of our public school system. They will teach everything that is meant to keep you compliant, and yet nothing that stimulates a different perspective. No matter, teachers don’t care enough to even care for their numbers. They also get to justify if the assignment was done to the liking based on their political affiliations. So the education of money is never discussed, especially for a teacher who makes less than some of the kids they are teaching. Kids blogging, or playing video games on YouTube and this “math teacher is going to tell me how to survive in the real world. I am convinced each generation finds a better way than the last. What kills me and I QUOTE, “these kids just have no respect for their elders”, AND WHY SHOULD THEY!!! Seeing their parents struggle, they will do anything to fight it and stray away from the shit life you so want to sell to them. As an advocate of hard work I can’t hate your parents for being tough, or at least wanting to beat your ass when you get out of line. They are convinced if you don’t do things exactly as they do it then you will have a harder time than they did. They think the hard work they have put into the same job for 30 years is the way to be because that is what their parents taught them. Also that generation was more scared than the last. Old school teaching, smack a kid upside the head type days. I miss them too, the ass whooping I got I will cherish till the end of time. Everything has it’s trade offs though. Of course softer parents are having rich kids who kill themselves because they have never dealt with the harshness of life before. Don’t know how to handle life without a pursuit. They think, “well I’m rich, nothing else to live for.” Those who have had it from rough parents just want to work themselves to the bone. Respectful, but have forgotten how to dream. They are beaten into a compliance that they got from their parents. When I say money will never be enough, I mean give me a billion dollars tomorrow, I will learn to make 2 billion with it. Lifelong pursuits give your life meaning and everything else around it will become your identity. Close your eyes and shut everything out. Then open them and set your feet on that drag strip and go 100 miles an hour chasing something that nobody can give you. Not your parents and absolutely not your teachers. Not saying they can’t help you along the way, but teachers must be utilized, not relied on. Focus on the pursuit, and dream big because literally it will be your life’s work. UNLESS MULTIPLE PURSUITS IS YOUR GAME. I can respect that, I am too scatterbrained to just do one thing. Find one and if others catch your eye then, just more fun and learning experiences. Do what you love. Bangov Actual, out.

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Fat Kids Who Are Angry…Admit it, You Laughed

Everything is about salesmanship. Look at the entirety of your day and all day. From billboards to television sets. People are on their phones all day. Spam calls all day long. Yes you’re not the only one, we all get them and yes I cuss them out too. If that seems rude, then so be it. “They have a job to do.” Don’t care, waste my time, I get mean. As well knowing I am not interested and then call back with a different number, fuck off, go die. We are constantly reminded of things that are available to us just in case we are in the mood to purchase. Through emotional appeal, sexual desire, constantly we are analyzed as a flock of sheep, how is the weakest of the bunch brought down. Or for the high rollers, how is it we are cornered into believing what is being presented is needed. Set up a booth with brownies and gun stuff, you will see me crying in front for spending money I do not have while my ass continues to get fatter. What is crazy is we have seen all of these things before. We have seen a thousand commercials for different things we like. How many state farm, liberty mutual, snickers, Gatorade, iPhone, and herbal essence commercial does it take before the subliminal messages take affect and you’re thinking, I’m hungry, I’m thirsty, I need a new phone, I stink or am I covered for any accident? Warren Buffet said, “ If you can’t control your emotions, you can’t control your money.” So what about control does it mean, to you to not spend money? Does it mean being a dictator about your money? When your kid asks for a toy, do you say no, or do you give into those little eyes and think, daww I can never say no to you. Or are you like ya, fuck that, you’ll get tired of it in a week. Being honest about your purchases all will depend on the individual. If you see value in what you purchase then you will instantly buy it. Haha I have heard people tell me video games is a cheap hobby to save money. It is 300-500 dollars worth of shit that hinders communication skills and is a world of meaningless pursuits. I beat the game, GREAT, and haven’t been on a date in 6 months. You may have money saved, but nothing to invest in. Also that job you have been dreaming about from NASA that you have never applied for, good luck with that. Ya, i know all you keyboard whores are just getting amped up, but I’m not finished. I love it when I see a married man, who has no handy man skills is bested by the bartender fucking his wife. Has only happened a few times in my experience. Of course I am not saying video games are bad. I have seen PLENTY of hotties with naughty bodies on the gamer feeds. Your emotions do not just come from what money you are saving. It also has to do with not having a physical attraction to those benjamins you may have in your pocket. Keep as many as you can, but just know they are losing worth as long as they are in your possession. People are usually unaware of how money moves or even the speed of it moving around them. In 24 hours, a dollar you may have invested can be anywhere from a penny to 1000 dollars by the time you wake up. Unless you’re in the financial world. Stocks crypto currency, accounting, you may have an idea of how money is to be thought of as multiplication instead of addition in order for the world around you to seem less crazy than it is. I know it can get hectic once in a while, but understand that everyone in this life is just trying to get a piece of the pie. Not everyone is gonna be Jeff Bezos, or Elon Musk, but those who want it can be anything they want to be, or even just the best version of themselves. Know that money may seem as if it is being lost when you’re not getting instant gratification. When you go to eat, and spend 20 dollars on a sandwich, as well I like to eat so 20 is an average for me when going out. I got 2 meals. Your gratification from food, or chocolate, or a movie you spend is not the same when you will invest in a business, or something you may not get back for years until it is up and running and others see the value in it. So spending money when you don’t get anything in return right away, you will start to feel like a fat kid who hasn’t got his cake. Blood will boil, vein popping out of the forehead. I am here to tell you it is O…K. continue to work towards your goal. Money is inevitable if you have not read that blog already. Work, work, work. Don’t let the pressure get to you, and get that fucking pie. Bangov Actual, out.

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War In Ukraine Is Just A Distraction

Just a reminder that the war in Ukraine is a distraction for something you’re going to be upset about later. Is it worth your time, probably not. Will voting in the next election solve your problem, probably not. More than likely you will focus on this topic for the next year and still be no closer to any of your own goals and be bitching about how a war that is thousands of miles away is keeping you from succeeding when all you have to do is change the channel,  or better yet turn off the tv. This is probably the 50th time just in the last 3 years that the news has been able to distract others by pushing their narrative on what they deem important. What is important is what gets ratings. Also I am fully aware that people have the choice to watch the news as they please and as much as they please. My issue always comes from what is portrayed in people’s reactions to things. You can have one conversation with someone and tell whether it is CNN, or Fox News they watch. Then you have the ever so intelligent bunch who think they have it all figured out and watch both. Still screaming at the television while eating dinner. They continually will alert the public about a break in or stabbing that happened between 10 min to 5 hours away and say “what a tragedy?” Tragedy is what sells, so it is as if people are on repeat in their own homes. This is not me trying to convince anyone of anything, which way to lean, what to believe, this is me telling myself these are things I cannot control so why waste my time. Talk about these things all you like. My opinion as well as yours is all we have so why not utilize that energy towards something that may help you in your personal endeavors. Bangov Actual, out.

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Unfuck Yourself, No Excuses

I’m just a guy who had a vision. Between covid, politics, and everyday struggles. I knew solutions were not within government hands. Didn’t matter who the president was, it did not matter if everyone was vaccinated, it did not matter how many government assistance programs were available until people started to realize that the keys to their happiness had everything to do with how they represented themselves as individuals. Even if you are married, you are still an individual. Maybe you’re with the wrong one. Maybe you were someone when you got married. Who you want to be is still in there and maybe it conflicts with the person you chose. As an individual I am constantly struggling trying to bring something alive in me. I am sure everyone else is struggling as well. Choices are hard. Interestingly enough it is not hard for a lot of people to make a decision, like get a shit job, and be paid a shit salary. So let us look at it in a different perspective. What if we are to see it as a job where you hate your job, but make a lot of money. Money doesn’t become a reason for doing something. Then to see it as the opposite. You love your job, but don’t make a lot of money. So you have to make the choice to yourself of what is most important to you? Loving your job or making that money? Decisions you make must be looked at from 2 or more angles in order to determine what is important to you, and what road to take. Of many, you must be honest with yourself. Is money important to you? If so then you must do something, or be able to create something that maybe you can have a bit of both. See where your compromises are and focus on those. Compromise is defined as: an agreement or a settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions. Gotta ask both of yourselves. The dreamer, and the realist, where you both are going to meet in the middle. Just know this is one of those lifetime commitments. Doesn’t matter how rich, how old, decisions will haunt you till the end of time so suck it up buttercup, figure your life out. Maybe put down that heroin needle, or not, I personally don’t care. If you’re still a functioning member of society then good for you. For those of you who don’t have an addiction and you’re still a piece of shit then well you need to unfuck yourself. Just remember all those celebrities, rock stars, government officials, who so eloquently like to enforce or create laws. All of these kinds of people are rich or successful and they do drugs. Hell if we as a people elect officials who are child molesters, I mean  COME ON, literally nobody is standing in your way of you making your own decisions in life. Trust yourself to decide your reality. Just remember to keep your friends close, and your kids away from politicians. Bangov Actual, out.

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Nobody Has The Right Answer

If I told you to write a book to tell someone how to succeed, would you tell someone what not to do, or would you tell them how to do it? I can’t imagine those who are successful. The billionaires of our time and what does it mean for them to write a book on success? Success is defined as: the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. How bout a book written about accomplishment, which is defined as: something that has been achieved successfully. How about legacy, which is defined as: an amount of money or property left to someone in a will. We see just by the definition of a word that things can be misconstrued or even left out entirely. For a very long time I have always asked those who have taught me different tasks. How? How? How? like the equivalency of those you with kids when they get to the Why? Why Why age. A child doesn’t commit to action until it knows why it has to do something. Why you shouldn’t say mean things. Cross the street without looking. Most adults think they know or can rationalize in their mind the why so they stop asking unless they are afraid, confused or don’t agree with the morality. As an adult it is all about asking how. How do I do this, or that? How do I become rich? How do I become successful? Immediately as adults the defeat that has kept up the standard for societal norms we rationalize in our own mind. This becomes important later in life. As a child we are smart enough to ask why we do something, and also instinctively challenge what we are told. As we age and think we have “matured” into adults we are brainwashed into thinking we have to live, eat, sleep, drink and fuck the way that society has done it the past generation. This leads to slow growth and continued poverty. How do I become something I am not? Why do I become something I am not? Like asking why would I want to make more money than I do now? Why, why, why? Be 5 years old again and give it a shot. I have heard many reasons you should not have more money or things that you want. Greed is bad, money is murder, more money more problems, Greed is the route of all evil, I don’t need money to be happy, money is not everything, or my favorite rich people are usually unhappy. What people tend to forget is money is not the objective. Listen to any millionaire/billionaire talk, they never give a specific dollar amount on what would make them happy. They do what they want and what they are passionate about in this life. I have said it before, if you are lazy or don’t care about getting the most out of life, then this is probably not the community for you. Most of the problem stems from when people get the answers of how and why then are too lazy or lose ambition the second they hear a solution. We must continue the why in how we live in order to fix what is broken, or just build new. Success, accomplishments, or whatever word you want to use to make yourself feel good about what you have done is going to take commitment. For some of you, depending on what you’re chasing, or how much money you’re chasing, it may take the rest of your life. That alone scares people into never trying. They are afraid of failure so they won’t even begin to try. Failure is not an option, it is inevitable, so you might as well start now in order to find out where you succeed. Everyone has their version of what it means so get off your ass and find your version. Bangov Actual, out.

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Familiarity, Good Or Bad?

Relationships are hard. No shit statement of the year right? Well, what about it is hard? As well to break that statement down. Hard is defined as: solid, firm, and rigid; not easily broken, bent, or pierced. We say this to ourselves as well as others who may be going through things we have already been through. Problem with this is we confuse even ourselves with the language we choose to describe the “hard” problems that we may encounter when wanting to share intimacy with another person. Intimacy is defined as: close familiarity or friendship; closeness. Which in my experience is what hurts the most when a relationship comes to an end. The familiarity of someone that was once close and close for a long time. When it is over, a part of you seems like it is missing. Constant reminders of what you used to be together. Whether the relationship ended on good or bad terms, familiarity is something that when broken. It is partly ingrained into our subconscious. Creeps, and makes its way into our everyday life and weaves a web that is just below the surface of the skin. Can tug on heartstrings at times. We have all heard that wounds heal but scars remain. I have plenty of scars and they have never kept me from feeling something for another. They definitely have set another standard for the next person I choose to create familiarity with. Relationship is defined as: the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. We just discussed familiarity, so why is it that when people have established they are in a relationship and it goes wrong why have I heard from others that they feel trapped? Trapped in what, you’re in a relationship, not in jail. You have no legal or moral obligation to anyone who gives you a feeling of entrapment. Familiarity can be both good and bad. Just depends on who you choose as your partner and how long you’re willing to stay. I won’t pretend to know what someone has gone through being in a bad relationship. I have been fortunate enough to be around some pretty incredible people in my life and those who seemed to be dead weight I dropped or just don’t care for their opinion, because FUCK EM! Or just realized some were going off in a different direction. Only thing I can offer to communicate is that I do know what it feels like to be trapped. Not knowing where to go, what to do with yourself and wanting something more. Changes will always have to be made and will always need to be made with the intention of doing things for yourself. If you are not enough incentive, then maybe your kids, or whoever in your life is maybe dependent on you. People I have met that have not only been through rough relationships, I am happy to say you couldn’t tell given they have a heart of gold and it has not stopped them in achieving great things as well. Definitely have kept a spark about them keeping a positive attitude about things to come. When you or someone you know is in a situation where familiarity in any aspect of life, relationships, job, or just life overall is in need of a change, look to yourself and ask what needs to change. Drastic changes and distance have always given me a fresh perspective on what I have needed for clarity. Distance has given me the insight and independence to think for myself. Without realizing, it has given me the self reliance in order for me to stand on my own 2 feet. Creating distance from issues, people, projects incentivizes us to trust ourselves more and get us moving. Don’t worry about making it rain with cash day one, just get your head out of the clouds first. Bangov Actual, out.

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