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Leave People The Fuck Alone

Awareness is defined as: knowledge or perception of a situation or fact. Knowledge of anything does not make you an expert, we can all agree on this, but I’m sure I will get one of you morons to disagree with me. Which is OK as long as you can express your thoughts intelligible and without being triggered, then I’m happy to listen to you. Awareness is something that when a particular group of people gain an understanding of the cause they have either read or had someone tell them about in a tweet, then they choose sides and now they think they have an enemy. Anyone who disagrees is either a racist, or rich, or white, has privilege..etc..etc. People tend to create definitions in their head, which is again why I write these the way I do. I go off my perception of the definition of a word, not my perception of what someone has told me a definition is, or what is believed to be a definition based on casual conversation. I tend to think of awareness as a means of communicating to others, either we need help, or is this something you’d like to be a part of. Awareness to me should never be a cause for the intended good, but that is forced upon others to join, and be mandated in order to avoid scrutiny from those who “feel” more compelled or have some personal connection with the cause. If people are trying to clean the earth, great, don’t scold them for not wanting to help fight against gang violence. How about you go your way, and I go my way. Together we can help make the world a better place if we just leave each other the fuck alone. Wanting people to join your cause without putting in the work, or without giving them the why, and I mean a real why. “If you don’t help us, you’re racist.” Or you stand against us, if you don’t stand with us.” Any sort of variations to these statements without facts, or at least a conversation without intent to scrutiny. Don’t waste your time or money, just walk away. Those who are very passionate, passionate being defined as: showing or caused by strong feelings or a strong belief. Can be very effective in either creating havoc, defined as: widespread destruction, or if speaking intelligible defined as: able to be understood; comprehensible. They can lead many individuals to believing in the same cause. For what you feel strongly about, don’t ridicule those who don’t feel the same way. You have your way of life, and they have theirs, that includes what they deem worthy of spending their time on in all aspects of life. Bangov Actual, out.

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What Is Bangov

Biggest misconception of Bangov is that it is an anarchist type mentality. For the last time guys no, this is not about anarchy. The concept or motivation behind Bangov is the pursuit of the individual. I hope to not only inspire, but give people a new outlook on the life they are living and even the life they may have been forced into by societal norms or some misguided sense that they need to follow in people’s footsteps that do not have their best interest. It is all about what you as the individual makes sense of your own life and your perspective of what you think it should be. Anarchy is defined as: a state of disorder due to absence or nonrecognition of authority. The concept behind anarchy is a state of chaos or lawlessness. That is not what I believe, I don’t wish for laws to be absent from society. Property rights, murder are still very real things that we need laws for. I am interested in seeing what Bangov can do for you when implemented. The key concept to get your mind wrapped around is banning government from your mind. If you’re not a politician, or someone striving to be in the political spectrum then my interest is to get you to stop thinking of the government as something that is in the way of you creating a life you believe is worth your time. Probably 3 of the biggest excuses that I get from people about why they think they can’t or should not go through with an idea is they will either get taxed. They keep doing cash, or under the table work. That is not how you scale your business. It is a push, you put all the money you make on your taxes, of course unless under a certain amount. If you’re making thousands of dollars on a product or service you provide for others, then why wouldn’t you legitimize it and go even bigger. Stop thinking of government interference as an excuse for you to not try and make something of your life exceptional. Second is that they have to go through many loops and don’t believe in themselves enough to go through all the state regulations. It is exactly the point to go through as much bullshit as necessary in order to make your dreams a reality. As I have said before, it is not easy but only those who really want it, and are tired of their way of life will continue. Finally, the excuse that they look to news media and what is happening in politics to tell them what not to do. IF YOU ONLY FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE, YOU WILL ONLY FIND PLACES TO NOT SUCCEED. So make all the excuses you wish to not succeed. Don’t go left or right. Just stay where you are and complain to others that life is not going how you saw it going in your mind. Or Bangov, and get rid of every excuse you have so there’s no reason not to move forward. Bangov Actual, out.

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I’m A Hopeless Romantic

I am CONVINCED that men have to find out what they want to do in life to be happy. All the interconnecting webs of misconceptions, societal norms and culture pressures are just distractions to what a man is really in need of to not only feel fulfilled, but also to not feel cheated that he is only doing something, or living his life in a way that was constructed by someone else. It is a hopeless romantic story, I will admit that but I love romance. I like them for the breaking of “natural” barriers put in place by those trying to control an outcome. Romeo and Juliet all the way to “The Best Of Me.” Hell if you haven’t heard of what Cleopatra did to get in with Julius Caesar, look that shit up. If a woman has her servants roll her in a rug and sneak her in my house, I’d probably fuck her too. Not sure about a second date because that bitch is out of her mind. Still, breaking the natural order of things for lust, love or even luxury, turn up the volume and shut up. Of course ladies would love to hear from you about what makes your foundation in order to be content in life. I can only speak from a man’s perspective. While a man can have many aspirations throughout his life It is interesting to me what I see a man go through during a break up. He will dress, eat, sleep, and occasionally talk differently. All of life’s possibilities are thrown in his face, he no longer has a commitment to a life that he did not understand. That is to say he was the one that initiated the break up. If not then get ready for a whiny little bitch that needs meaning in his life again because he hates his job, and doesn’t have the life that he thought he was going to have and thought he could be happy with someone else when he really should have been happy before he met the woman. Not saying it is her fault, she could even cheat on him, but that does not take away from the fact that the man was not happy before they were together. He may have been happy with her, but that is probably why she cheated on him. She couldn’t stand to share a life with a man who didn’t enjoy his. Gentlemen for those of you who may see a flaw in the logic, I encourage you to ask yourself if you are happy with or without your partner. If you were happy before, great, if not then stop wasting time focusing on the fact she cheated, spend time on making your life happy in order for the next woman to feel as if this is a life she is excited to be a part of. Shit rolls down hill. So make sure while you are choosing your day to day life, realize you are creating a world for yourself that the right woman for you would enjoy. Having a career determines your health, happiness, and way of life. So define that and the woman you end up with may be entirely different than the one that cheated on you. At least I hope she wouldn’t cheat on you because you got your shit together. That is not what I mean though. Think of the girl you dated, to the woman that is going to be your rock till the end of time. Unless you just want to pay for it, in that case BANGOV, Bangov Actual, out.

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Contradictions Come Out Of Nowhere

Life is one big contradiction. What I mean by this is getting where you have to go in life is not always as easy as going for the gold, or climbing the corporate ladder. A contradiction is defined as: a combination of statements, ideas, or features of a situation that are opposed to one another,  Or a person, thing, or situation in which inconsistent elements are present. So we as a people are highly involved in the contradictions of life. Court battles, opposing ideas, or even the inconsistencies we put ourselves through. We decide a certain path for us, and we end up going another way entirely. Nothing wrong with that, that is kind of why I am writing this. Hell Michael Jordan played baseball, so really anything is possible at this point. The Island Boys are famous, so just goes to show just what can be accomplished while on a certain path. Not saying it is easy, as I never will, but I have just come to terms that I may never be satisfied with one pursuit. I like to work. I like to continuously have things to do. Which of course is a contradiction of me as well having dreams and aspirations of having a life that I no longer have to work for anymore. Definitely hard to picture myself not working ever. I personally would get bored on a beach. I’ll enjoy a couple drinks, maybe 4 or 5 but the point is that I will have reached a moment of clarity in mind that this is not real. It is a fabrication of reality that anyone could be anywhere doing anything for the rest of their life and be truly “happy. ”Happy” or happiness is defined as: feeling or showing pleasure or contentment, or having a sense of confidence in or satisfaction with (a person, arrangement, or situation). Life is constantly in motion, so to be happy is only for as long as the mind allows. For some of you, you just keep drinking and want to live in that world forever. We’ve all been there, and man is it fun, but reality must set in and keep you on your feet in order to keep life interesting, or as I said, ONE BIG CONTRADICTION. Then you have those who are going for the gold. We all remember steroids right? People still use those things? Makes your dick smaller, which everyone sees as a huge oversight. Would probably stop there if you told me that. “Any side effects doctor?” “Yes it will make your package shrivel like two raisins and an Oscar Meyer Weiner whistle.”…”hmmmm, maybe not for me.” Words I always have said to myself are “always look for the contradictions.” These don’t necessarily have to be consequences. Sometimes they are just underlying situations that may dictate which direction you take. Point being is you can try as hard as humanly possible to earn the right to wear gold, and still a month before let the fear set in and be doing steroids to make sure that your time has not been wasted. Don’t lie to yourself and try to remain at the top when the top is just a fabrication of happiness. You make it there, great, just don’t try and stay there forever if you’re going to destroy other parts of yourself. Contradictions don’t have to catch up to you, they are already ahead along the way. Bangov Actual, out.

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Belief vs Trust

Belief vs trust, to believe those who you let into your life is a maze of twists and turns that cannot be expressed through the written word. Ups and downs, that between 2 people have a shift, a paradigm of human interaction, actions, and exchange of phrases in order to further connect each other’s existence through a given period of time. Though on the surface you may have many acquaintances, and everything may look great on the top. You must ask yourself for those you want close to you, do you believe, or do you trust these people? Another common misconception that people do not communicate towards those they wish to be closer to. In creating a stronger bond with others we must share vulnerabilities, experiences and ask for their opinions on the matter. If you don’t feel as if someone’s opinion is of any worth to you, then why keep them around? Maybe they are younger, have done things in the past that you don’t feel as if they are the best person for you to ask advice about a particular situation. Belief is defined as: an acceptance that a statement is true or that something exists. Belief is the mind telling your body that it is OK to enter, or what can be transferred to a physical response in knowing things are safe. To trust is defined as: firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something. To trust someone as a reliable source of guidance or even perspective for the long term. That is what makes trust and belief so different. Ladies and gentlemen reading, though your significant other tells you they never went home with that person from the bar. Maybe you believe them, but does history or evidence tell you that they are trusting, that they will never put themselves in that situation again? Cheating is an easy way for me to communicate this to you, but what about a harder example. What if I was to tell you to believe in yourself? It is all the praise right now for life coaches to tell you to believe in your potential, abilities. What about trust? Do you believe for a week that you will keep yourself on track in order to find and commit to your own pursuit? Or do you not trust yourself for the  long term of committing to what you feel deep down is what you were meant to do? Say to yourself that you believe in what you are doing, but you don’t trust. If you don’t believe that then you must trust and have more confidence in your ability than you were led to believe by yourself. Believing is achieving, meh, seems outdated, If you trust you must. If you trust then you have a soul purpose of responsibility of seeing it through. A belief can waver, to trust is more reliable, all you must do is commit. Bangov Actual, out.

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Decisions Of Pain

Pain, how do we deal with it? Pain is defined as: physical suffering or discomfort caused by illness or injury. We always ask how  to deal with pain because when you’re in pain you can’t avoid something that is already happening. Getting hit by a truck and then jumping out of the way. No you just got ran da fuck over. Physical, or mental pain is the subject of many today because mental illness has made the headlines. Kind of the rule, if it is in the news, then it is all people ever really bring up. I mean even in random conversation someone will warrant the subject out of nowhere trying to make light of a situation they heard about on the news. It is all fun and games until someone disagrees with you. Then the cold chill goes down everyone’s spine. Oh no they don’t see things exactly the same. Why isn’t that a mental illness? The mere fact that someone could have an opinion different from your own. IMPOSSIBLE, it is almost as if someone who has had a different upbringing, lifer experiences or influences than me. Well this cannot be happening.  I will gladly repeat it over and over again till maybe they just didn’t hear me the first time, or maybe if I scream in their face they may see how passionate about the topic and say, “oh, they seem angry, they must know something I don’t.” Wouldn’t life be so great to where if people went off emotion, life would be so grand??? Probably not, it would suck. Mental illness being defined as: are health conditions involving changes in emotion, thinking or behavior (or a combination of these). Mental illnesses are associated with distress and/or problems functioning in social, work or family activities. Well let’s say that truck that hit you now has begun to change who you are. Of course it is hard to choose how someone will react to certain tragedies. Will they look both ways across the street, or will just never cross a street again, walk aimlessly in circles and be trapped in their own pain of a traumatic event that statistically is very unlikely. Choices made under emotion are very risky, and usually made under stress have a poor result of bringing us out of our own pain. That is not to say people cannot make decisions under extreme circumstances. This being a military veteran blogging site I think making decisions under high stress, the occupation speaks for itself. When “dealing” with your pain, understand a choice has to be made. The injury has occured, may have some scars later, but a decision has to be made still. Are you the one to run, and develop a mental illness of living in fear that you may not be able to make it across the street. Or do you make the decision to stare at your fear, and say fuck you, I decide my pain. Bangov Actual, out.

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The “Power” Against Worrying

Worry, worry is defined as: give way to anxiety or unease; allow one’s mind to dwell on difficulty or troubles. Pay attention to the words being used. If to worry is allowing yourself to do anything, then knowing you have the ability to manipulate your own worry, you may just worry for the right reasons, or even utilize worry, instead of letting it control you. Your difficulties or troubles can only be managed by you. So you need to take into consideration the power you possess of your own emotions. You may SUCK at it now, but the day to day of consciously pushing yourself makes you more and more resilient to variable change happening around you. Of course it is stressful, it is wear and tear on the body and your consciousness. You have to condition yourself to being the constant that you wish to perform at. Not saying you have to hit the gym. Mentality is the game. Why wouldn’t anything else be different? Look I have had my share of failures, which is why I am 30 talking out into the ether. Come on laugh, it is OK to be brutally honest with yourself. At least I have an audience though. A lot of you scream, cuss and question out into the ether out of fear, anxiety, loss and you feel like you’re alone. I am here to tell you that you are not alone. Bangov grows everyday. More and more views of those like you who are not alone. The community is growing, the message is being spread, maybe not even through word of mouth but through actions taken by those who have read. Every day those who read are doing things to change their way of life for the better. You should as well, reader or not. Worry is a very powerful word that has the ability to affect a lot of people. Worry about money, job, family, worry about worrying. Like a lot of things I like to discuss in my blogs, people are talking to you but have never communicated what these words effectively mean. Effectively meaning how they affect your confidence, your identity, and your worth. To have the “power” to affect your mood. Power is defined as: the ability to do something or act in a particular way, especially as a faculty or quality. Power is another bullshit term people have been throwing around. Like it is this magical, mystical entity that we need to possess in order to make changes for ourselves. When you break it down, defining the word power seems less heroic. You don’t have to be more powerful than a locomotive, leap tall buildings, or even overcome the SAME FUCKING ORIGIN STORY in every movie. You have the ABILITY, ability is defined as: possession of the means or skill to do something. OR talent, skill, or proficiency in a particular area. I have written this before and it will be written again, go with the path of least resistance when it comes to your ability in making a way of life for yourself. What are you good at, what is your talent. When you realize what that is, you’ll worry less or you’ll worry the same, you just will have the “POWER” to act accordingly. Bangov actual, out.