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You Are Your Only Hope

People have asked what Bangov is about, as always I tell them it is a push back on government overreach in order to stimulate economic growth through entrepreneurial means. Then they ask what is the difference between your agenda and the governments. Of course it is always labeled as the anarchist group. Nope, I have already explained that it is not about that. A better way to describe it is when they have asked what is your “agenda.” Now “agenda” is defined as: a list of items to be discussed at a formal meeting. Or the underlying intentions or motives of a particular person or group. My ” agenda” is simple. For the government to be irrelevant in people’s decision making in order to better their lives. Government holds no solution for you. It has its place in society and should be utilized as a necessity, not as a solution for complex societal problems. The biggest difference is that government has never implemented any sort of action as a solution for any problem that does not mean death or power. Nazis were a problem, send millions to fight and kill. Yet the “drug war” is to this day a laughing stock of an effort for the government to implement some sort or false sense of security that it has any control over what is going on. I could buy Marijuana from a 5th grader when I was going to school. Government does not have control over anything except you as an individual thinking that they are in your way of making a better life for yourself. Don’t worry, they will not come and get you for becoming something better than you are. Of course they want their taxes, because for some reason they can tax anything and it be “legal.” Ban government from your mind as a solution, the more you press on government to be the solution, the more you just take away choice from others. Arbitrary is defined as: based on random choice or personal whim, rather than any reason or system. Arbitrary laws are only a means that you think you get what you want, then others have to figure ways around those laws. We only restrict ourselves when looking to the government for solutions. They don’t have solutions and as I have stated before, government is defined as: the action or manner of controlling or regulating a nation, organization, or people. Or the system by which a nation, state, or community is governed. Or the group of people in office at a particular time; administration. Nowhere in the definition of government is it for the good of the people. Control is the agenda. Bangov is the pursuit of the individual. You decide to rely on the government, or yourselves. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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But Do You Really?

When to say “I love you.” This is a tricky one for most, and also for most we go off a feeling, a vibe that it has been a while. What is worse is some will even go off the pressure that they have been dating for 6 months and they think they have to say it or the relationship is over. Don’t be that person. Think to yourself, why? Why would I say I love this person? Have you asked yourself enough questions about it? Or are you just saying it to say, “eh fuck it?” According to a 6000 person study done by okcupid, 62% of people think “I love you” should be when it is felt, 22% after several months and 3% are on the after a year train. Generally most of over 30 it is 6-9 months and under 25 it is like 20 min, or as soon as she touches your wee wee or hoo ha. So everyone has their timeline or specific moment of realization. So what do we do? Do we look at love as a series of longevity. If you both stick around for a year then you get to say it to each other. Or is it 6 months that when we see that person do something nice for you in the kitchen and then it just comes out? As always I like to let others decide their intended path of discovery for nobody should be in control of your experiences and/or intended choices you make except you. “I love you” is very powerful, and can be used for great intentions, or very bad ones just like all other forms of communication. When you say hello, even that can be in either an aggressive or friendly manner. So don’t think “I love you” is any different from being able to communicate how you feel about someone. IN MY OPINION, do not focus so much on the words as they are words that can be thrown out just like saying hello. It is the specific intent behind them that needs more focus. Try not saying it. Try being the person who does whatever is possible in order to show that special someone that you are devoted to them. Countless efforts on your part through the time you spend together. Whether it be 6 months or 6 years, the time and effort you put into it, you will have “I love you” bursting out of your chest and you will want to sing it from the hills of Narnia. So just be patient and focus on the work that goes into saying “I love you.” When it comes time -to say it, it will not only feel right, but evidence will make it undeniable. Undeniable is defined as: unable to be denied or disputed. Bangov Actual, out.

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Dream Between The Lines

It is said that battles can be won from different angles. I have mentioned this before in previous blogs. Obscurity is defined as: the state of being unknown, inconspicuous, or unimportant. Or the quality of being difficult to understand. As individuals we need to come to terms with what we can and cannot control. Think of anyone who has created a business from nothing. They did not know what the outcome was going to be. They did not know how they even got to where they are now. They know what steps they took, but in the end they just trusted that EVERYTHING WOULD WORK OUT FOR THE BEST. These are people who above anything else that may have gotten in their way, they just made sure to not quit. They had a vision in their head and it became their identity. Ignored all who said no, and money became no object for them to be successful. Everyone I have come into contact with that is afraid of starting a business will always bitch about the upfront cost. Most people are only interested in a zero upfront cost. Which of course I wish I could have started Bangov with zero money down, BUT I just wasn’t aware of the resources that may have helped me. I just had capital at the time that I had worked for doing all the jobs that were about ripped jeans, dirt in my face and constant soreness. I will admit every once in a while I miss it. I miss the beating sun, soreness everyday. At work all day, and the people I worked with in a blue collar setting are definitely my favorite type of people and environment to be in. To be honest, to be with any group of people that can tell a joke is fun. While in your world now, you’re eager to start something that you didn’t know may have been hovering above your head the whole time. This is why I tell people to be in constant motion. Not saying you have to be going 100 mph the whole time because then you may miss something for you to invest your time in. Invest is defined as: expend money with the expectation of achieving a profit or material result by putting it into financial plans, shares, or property, or by using it to develop a commercial venture. Or devote (one’s time, effort, or energy) to a particular undertaking with the expectation of a worthwhile result. The importance of what you spend your time on has to do with doing things that are of interest to you and surrounding yourself with people who know more than you about it. This is for all you artistic people out there whose motivation is not of money, but of pure intentions to create something that makes people think, or feel different. How the beholder chooses to interpret whatever art you have created will be how they interpret you as the artist. Don’t be worried about sending the right message. Everything is up to others interpretation. That you cannot control, but you can trust to make their own decisions and you must do the same. Don’t try and understand everything about what you’re trying to create. You’re just throwing paint on a canvas until you see something you want to create. You may mess up, just get another canvas and trust in your ability to read between the lines that you created. Things being difficult to understand is half the fun. So go and create some confusion for yourself and the end result may be something that you didn’t even know you had. Bangov Actual, out.

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Ladies,First Foot Out, Watch Out

Abstract is defined as: existing in thought or as an idea but not having a physical or concrete existence. Everyone may have an idea of what they want to see in a man and woman, but then they see someone else and they think oh that is another type of beauty that i was not aware of. We all have this, especially the guys, hell we ;designed to fuck anything in sight. Don’t really care how religious or “good” of a person you are. I say good because good can be defined as: having the qualities required for a particular role. So when someone says they are a good person it just makes me chuckle a little. Women are everywhere and as many forms of beauty as they can be in, their special powers still to this day come from the eyes. The way a woman looks at you can mean 2 things. In a close relationship, they are asking for approval. She is asking, “does he think I look beautiful, sexy, is he still attracted to me?” Or for women with a little more confidence the thought may be, “let’s see if he can handle this.” Either way ladies just know when you least expect it we are looking. When you step out of the shower, it does not matter if we have seen you naked before. We see you in your most vulnerable state with only a towel around you and your man has one thing on his mind. POUNCE, which is defined as: notice and take swift and eager advantage of a mistake, remark, or sign of weakness. Just know ladies your mistake was putting us in this situation. You’ve just stepped out of the shower, you smell like the garden of Eden or what we interpret an herbal essence commercial would be like in real time. You wrap the towel, and put your first foot out. Then the second one comes out. Now you’re in this situation where your man could be waiting outside, so you peek, just to be sure. You don’t see but you hear him. You are on a time table, you have to get the kids to school, get to work or make it to the grocery store before the rush. You just slip out in time to make it to the bedroom. Whew! OK he didn’t see you, still downstairs SO YOU THOUGHT. You just now realize you fucked up the moment that you turned the water off. That is what he heard and that is why he gave the kids a pot and pan to play with while you were in the shower. He is actually in the bedroom waiting, you just think…POUNCE. Ladies, we are big balls of testosterone and your goddess-like physique coming out of a shower is pretty much like a glass of whiskey, cigar and game all wrapped in a towel. We’ll bend you over the bed and don’t care if the kids are watching while they learn sex ed faster than they can scream and run out of the room. Just food for thought ladies while you’re questioning what we think, our job is to keep that lust alive. Although our vision of you may be abstract, it is also our own. Why we feel the way we feel, the way we look at you are all tied up in the intricacies that are you. Subjective is defined as: based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions. In all you mean to us in our day to day is why we sometimes forget to tell you. Or even why you would doubt it just seems as if you don’t know what is going on inside us. Bangov Actual, out.

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Chips Are Your Biggest Problem

Life is too short for chips, caught a couple at the grocery store in a highly semantic and yet rudimentary discussion based on the decision to buy a bag of chips for tonight. Or maybe it was for the week. I pause for a minute while they ask detailed questions about size, shape, and strength of the chip. I overheard one say that this company has the best chips, but always costs the most. I think to myself ” well of course, because they make the best of what you want.” I call it the “cost of craftsmanship.” You pay for the level of experience in making said product. Like a bag of chips to the vehicle you drive. These decisions I agree I do not take lightly. I pretend to, but in my mind I am constantly looking at what I get for my dollar. With so many options I have ruled out anything generic, your junk food type chips. Situation dictates that during camping, fight night or football games all of that goes out the window and you buy whatever you want. These occasions call for just being able to keep eating while faces are getting smashed and touchdowns are within 10 yards. Right down to the selection of what you’re going to eat that night, you’re debating the cost. Why don’t we pay 10 dollars for a bag of chips? Is it because nobody would buy it? I’ll bet you a million dollars you’re wrong. A brewery in Sweden makes chips out of matsutake mushrooms and truffle seaweed. In a little display box containing only 5 chips, a0 hundred were made and sold for 56 dollars a box. People buy crazy things for experiences all the time. So is 3 dollars for a bag of chips worth 10 min in the chip aisle? What’s your time worth to you? Bangov Actual, out.

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Life Decides What Life Is

Life is mental, physical can be a byproduct, but mental comes first. Strength or strong is defined as: aside from having the power to move heavy weights or perform other physically demanding tasks. Powerfully affecting the mind, senses, or emotions. In order to do the first thing you must do the second. Again this is important to define what you say to yourself. Are you strong, courageous, brave? Define yourself in order to unlock the ambiguity that is you. Ambiguity(ambiguous) defined as: open to more than one interpretation; having a double meaning. The plethora of interpretations that can be used to describe you, still only the one you have matters in creating a world that is in motion for your well being. Test your limits everyday in order to create new ones. Limit yourself in what is needed in order to be a constant adaptation to environments around you. This is not a be like water speech, because even water does not have what you have. A level of consciousness to be more than what you are. Water is water, you are a person of intellect, a matter in which needs motion to create motion. If mental is the game then game over is only when the mind finally finds its inability to expand.

As always let us look at what we are telling ourselves. “Life is all Mental.” So as we dive into this we must define mental: relating to disorders of the mind. OK so now how about “disorders” which is defined as: a state of confusion OR an illness or condition that disrupts normal physical or mental functions. With things now defined we can break down what it is that we need to do in order to push past what is expected and create something that can be expressed to others only through our minds eye. If you’re a painter, you use colors you may not have used before, a singer, you try to reach a new pitch, or bring in different artists. Don’t care if you’re a fucking plumber and you create a new device that gets hair unclogged from the drain because that was a fucking pain in my ass last week. Any subject matter expert can say to themselves that it is all mental, but it may not help you in really communicating to yourself what is needed to bring a vision to focus. Think of a wall that is in front of you and something is on the other side. You don’t know what it is. Nobody can tell you a color, size, shape, what it smells or tastes like. The only thing that you have convinced yourself is that something is on the other side.

That is the power to be realized about the mind. The ability to see or have visions of its own without any evidence whatsoever. Confusion is defined as: lack of understanding; uncertainty. It will not hurt you physically, you may get a headache sometimes but as for something that will physically keep you from your own pursuit you do that enough on your own. So don’t fear it, just acknowledge that it has a presence and become familiar with one another. I will let you decide on if you want to be buddy buddy, or just acquaintances. This brings me to conclude that life in my mind’s eye is yes mental, but only to a percentage of a degree. Life’s little intricacies are all about the little nuances that we deem necessary. Almost as easy as saying life is breath, life is water, life is cat, dog, monkey, starfish. Just end with life is you. Your importance to the world is all going to come down to what you made of yours. As the sun explodes and we are all gone maybe life will take a step back and realize what we did and find its own meaning for it. Bangov Actual, out.

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Leave People The Fuck Alone

Awareness is defined as: knowledge or perception of a situation or fact. Knowledge of anything does not make you an expert, we can all agree on this, but I’m sure I will get one of you morons to disagree with me. Which is OK as long as you can express your thoughts intelligible and without being triggered, then I’m happy to listen to you. Awareness is something that when a particular group of people gain an understanding of the cause they have either read or had someone tell them about in a tweet, then they choose sides and now they think they have an enemy. Anyone who disagrees is either a racist, or rich, or white, has privilege..etc..etc. People tend to create definitions in their head, which is again why I write these the way I do. I go off my perception of the definition of a word, not my perception of what someone has told me a definition is, or what is believed to be a definition based on casual conversation. I tend to think of awareness as a means of communicating to others, either we need help, or is this something you’d like to be a part of. Awareness to me should never be a cause for the intended good, but that is forced upon others to join, and be mandated in order to avoid scrutiny from those who “feel” more compelled or have some personal connection with the cause. If people are trying to clean the earth, great, don’t scold them for not wanting to help fight against gang violence. How about you go your way, and I go my way. Together we can help make the world a better place if we just leave each other the fuck alone. Wanting people to join your cause without putting in the work, or without giving them the why, and I mean a real why. “If you don’t help us, you’re racist.” Or you stand against us, if you don’t stand with us.” Any sort of variations to these statements without facts, or at least a conversation without intent to scrutiny. Don’t waste your time or money, just walk away. Those who are very passionate, passionate being defined as: showing or caused by strong feelings or a strong belief. Can be very effective in either creating havoc, defined as: widespread destruction, or if speaking intelligible defined as: able to be understood; comprehensible. They can lead many individuals to believing in the same cause. For what you feel strongly about, don’t ridicule those who don’t feel the same way. You have your way of life, and they have theirs, that includes what they deem worthy of spending their time on in all aspects of life. Bangov Actual, out.

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