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Asking questions is one of the hardest parts of learning. You may not know what questions to ask. It is only questions you can ask through what has already been learned that really will make sense to you. Almost like if I showed you how to screw in a light bulb only then would you ask how it works, where are the wires, and how long will it last. I have found myself most interested in learning more when I am doing that thing. It is how my mind is able to see what needs to be asked, that the question is formed and I can proceed with getting better at something. Writing, or blogging, whatever you want to call what you’re reading is something more and more everyday I find myself getting better at. Not the typing itself. I’m slow as shit at that. The gathering of ideas is what has helped me. Typing them out is just what my fingers are being told to do by my mind that is constant with expression in order to communicate the world as I see it. To make a sandwich I need bread. What is bread? What is it made of, where does it come from? All questions for me derive from actions that have been set in motion. When I have thought of schools I have went to I look back and always have asked in every subject, “why the fuck do I need to know this?” Always for months being beaten over the head with information I have never been able to utilize because I wasn’t sure where it was to be implemented. Biggest issue I have with our education system is it is controlled by the fear of not getting sued. Always have started with either a safety class. Which I agree with when being near harsh chemicals or things that may be hot. You learn to not touch them. Education doesn’t start with all the precautions of life. You don’t sit your child down when they are 18 and tell them everything that could go wrong when they say they want to become a doctor. We are not worried about them suing us. Which is why we teach them as they grow. We monitor them and through time we develop an awareness of what is hot, or bad for us. We learn through experiences as well. Someone has shown us that the stove is hot. Someone has shown us that we don’t drink for various reasons. When you’re in a classroom they tell you to read about things you have never seen or touched just so they can say they told you so and avoid a lawsuit. Even worse, you have to figure out how to pull a question out of your ass, or for you Christians, thin air, about something you have never seen, touched, heard or tasted. You’re essentially remembering words for the first couple months and concepts only come after when you have proved you are not a liability through taking a test you just know the words matched with each concept. Then when that person burns a hand, cuts fingers off, everyone goes welp, we told them so. Absolutely no efficiency and no way of correcting the problem. Remember intelligence is defined as: the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills. Can only be upset with someone for doing something wrong when they have actually done it the correct way. Not just read it in a book or be told. Lazy teaching sickens me. Bangov Actual, out.

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What happens when you work a 9-5? Your bills are all paid every month, all your expenses managed. You’re comfortable in your life and how it is now. A little time goes by when you get in your nice car, go to work and you realize that you have not moved up or done anything in a few years. Ambition sets in. Ambition is defined as: a strong desire to do or to achieve something, typically requiring determination and hard work. We know that hard work is coming. You already know you have to continue on another consistent path, or if you prefer, a persistent path in order to achieve whatever next level vision you have for yourself. Only takes a moment to make the decision and will take maybe another year or 2 of your life depending on the endeavor. Could take 20 years. What is really amazing is that we still have that as a person. If that is to be channeled into our relationships. Goals as a couple, goals at work, with your kids. Then life as you know it gets better with time, or at least you focus on the things that mean most to you and those will never be “perfect” but with your persistence they will be long lasting joy. More importantly we will teach the generation after these types of morals and type of work ethic as a way of life, not just because I told you so. That way no more when the military go to fight they won’t ask what they fight for anymore. They will see clear as day what they are trying to protect and not be sold the lies that have been used over and over again. Cheap trigger words, like freedom, liberty, and “Democracy.” For fuck sake people we live in a republic. Republic is defined as: a state in which supreme power is held by the people and their elected representatives, and which has an elected or nominated president rather than a monarch. Familiar? well it should be. Every swinging dick and snatch on either side of the table, left, right, lazy rhino, these fuckers refer to us as a democracy. Democracy is defined as: a system of government by the whole population or all the eligible members of a state, typically through elected representatives. Problem that most of us have seen with Democracy is that it generally dissolves into chaos. Mob rule is initiated by a group of individuals and then they impose their will on elected officials till they get their way through imposing arbitrary laws on the rest of society. Which brings me back to my initial point is being the ambitious bunch I know you all are, you find ways around these laws in the most beautiful way. For example, no more bump stocks, not a problem, I’ll just get faster on the trigger. Shorter barrel length, no problem, just create a 300 blackout round designed off a 9 inch barrel, or purchasing an arm brace and legally classifying your rifle as a “pistol” or “firearm” hahaha you bunch of criminals. I love every single one of ya. Also for those of you who are not gun nuts, gear queers, rifle rats, ammo addicts, trigger riggers, examples I have for you are not wearing a mask, you put a thong over your face. Have an emotional support animal signed by your doctor, no more monthly pet fee on your rent. I LOVE AMERICA!!! Get out there you ambitious buffoons, Bangov Actual, out!

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I have had this conversation with many people and it has taken me years to come to a conclusion. For a lot this may seem out of your norm. For others this may seem right up your alley as a new way for relationships to be considered. Those of you who want kids, but don;t want marriage. Does it ever occur to you that the one you want kids with may ;see a need to be married? Ya, I know, people want happiness… Makes me SICK!!…Also if we are to remain a glass half full audience, which I would hope that would be the case for my readers. Look at it as the heart sometimes has such a strong hold on the one it wants to connect with that what you initially want does not get to take form. You have someone that wants what contradicts what you want, so a “compromise” is to be made. Some may argue it is love. Love is defined as: an intense feeling of deep affection. This being the culprit of a lot of confusion. What about attraction? Attraction is defined as: the action or power of evoking interest, pleasure, or liking for someone or something. Love, and attraction, although worded differently can confuse the shit out of 2 people trying to make sense out of how they feel for each other. Biggest concern I have thought of is the man or woman so intent on living together because he or she needs to know at all times who is in that bed. If a man and woman are in a relationship and they have communicated intentions with each other about being exclusive. Then why is it that either side would feel the need to live together. Not saying it is wrong for a couple married or not to be in the same house together. Oh man can it get old. Bangov is the solution, right? Well where can a compromise be made? Compromise is defined as: an agreement or a settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions. This is when you look at your woman, you may love, or just have a deep attraction to. “Mary Beth?” You and I have been together a long time and I wish to build a life together. Now we already have 2 homes, and we are happy as things are. Why don’t you and I think about having children and what would you say to us living in separate homes in order to keep the romance alive. No more do I need to tell you “wait 15 minutes before entering the bathroom. You never have to pick up after me again. No more dishes, half the laundry and when you need a break from the kids, just drive them on over. We make a schedule and we are not always in each other’s business.. Whether this is helpful or not is really up to each couple and how this suits their needs and wants of a relationship. Lot of conversation and what makes sense to you just makes sense. As couples I hope that you try new things, things that don’t cost thousands of dollars up front. Maybe one of you will stay at someone’s house for a while to see how you feel differently not sleeping with your partner every night. May just find out why you enjoy them by your side in the first place. Relationships are an experiment from the first date till the last till the day you both either give up or grow old and die. Don’t be afraid to try new things. As time goes on, people change, and so do wants and needs, so always be honest and don’t be afraid to let the other one know what makes you happy. When you’re not happy, the relationship is doomed to fail. Bangov Actual, out.

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Consistent vs persistent, which one are you? I am always trying to challenge language in how we communicate towards others. Look at any Instagram influencer and they are always talking about consistency. The power of consistency, how consistency will be the inevitable change that if you choose to be consistent with your endeavors, inevitably things will change. Consistent is defined as: acting or done in the same way over time, especially so as to be fair or accurate. Personally I am more of a fan of persistence. Just as persistence is defined: continuing firmly or obstinately in a course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition. Persistence to me seems a little more my speed and as well I can relate more to persistence. Anyone who believes that society is holding them back in a certain way can use it as a way of thinking that no matter the opposition or difference someone has about your way of life. They will not only just be another obstacle, they will also just be another face in a crowd of people that are not worth your time in fighting. Opposition is defined as: resistance or dissent, expressed in action or argument. OR a group of adversaries or competitors, especially a rival political party or athletic team. Being persistent against those you disagree with,  you learn weaknesses, or even better, how to utilize their strengths against them. Don’t focus solely on those who disagree with you, focus on more those you can add to your idea and that can help you build the empire you intended. Who knows, it may be so big that they can’t help but to see your side or live the way you do without knowing it. Kind of like those who bitch about capitalism and child labor laws all while wearing Nike Shoes. Contradictions in life are funny. Persistence to me is all about creating who you are going to be in the long run. Be persistent in your battles toward what you want and battles will be things that don’t even phase you. Numb to the feeling of being challenged, all you will see is opportunity, and those who are too lazy, entitled will stop fighting you. My hope for this blog is that people would begin to challenge the lessons being taught to them. think about what has been told to you by your father, your mother, a teacher. See if in a way you could do better than those who tried to influence you while growing up. Were they just passing knowledge that didn’t work for them, or were they just full of shit. A Bangov Actual, out.

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What is a man? Only one I have ever asked for an opinion is a woman. Probably because I am a man and for another man to tell me what a man is for him to give me his standard. Don’t really give a rat’s ass what a man tells me a man is supposed to be. Unless he is resembling the man I wish to become. I was asked if I could describe it in one word. Endure, endure is defined as: suffer (something painful or difficult) patiently. A man to me is only the standard by which he is able to rise and endure suffering in order to reach the top. Then again reaching the “top” is even up to interpretation. Well some men don’t care to climb, wars and a way of life is not sustained by the rich. Rich don’t have the numbers. Men willing to endure do though. Don’t care how much money you have in your pocket because when the fight is on, your enemies won’t care either. They will just want to fight, and see you fall. Not about who wants it more. It is about who notices pain and says to themselves they will not be controlled by weakness. My life will not be about how much fun I had. My life will entail how much I was willing to devote myself to an idea and see it through. Fun along the way are little in between moments when work still needs to get done. Men don’t have it all figured out, but are willing to endure in order to find out what it takes. To find the answers and don’t back down from problems. I have already stated that problems, big or small are a lie, just takes a man willing to endure in order to find a solution. He doesn’t really care, a problem is a problem, and a solution is what he sets out to find. Man can be many things. Laziness is just not an option for the future depending on those men who have created reasons to get up early in the morning and give life a meaning to keep going. Without that, we lose what we fight for, and nobody steps up to stop those trying to take our way of life. Bangov Actual, out.

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Bad Days and good days are all going to depend on how you react to them. Take 5 minutes to collect yourself. I don’t mean just decide you’re going to have a good day when you’re not really thinking that in your mind like a psychopath. I mean really just take 5 minutes, and sometimes it may not be 5, may take 30 for your mind to dissolve whatever you got going on upstairs. Just don’t let it make decisions for you. You’re in a state of mind that won’t make any sense to anyone because you’re doing it in a heightened state of emotional distress. Distress is defined as: extreme anxiety, sorrow, or pain. Pain meaning it will pass, anxiety for any of those who have felt the effects, just takes time for your body to chemically reach it’s stability again. Everything passes with time. Biggest problem people have is ignoring it out of some mistaken apathetic disregard for your feelings in order to appear invincible to human nature. Perfect, I have heard, is that which does not need anything taken away from it. As always people like to create their own interpretations on what they think a word means. Perfect is defined as: having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be. Even Perfect is something people fuck up on. When the definition is stated as desirable qualifications, who made the qualifications and why do they get to decide what Perfect is. You can see why it is so frustrating to communicate with people let alone telling yourself that your angry and you should maybe take some time to dissolve these emotions in your head till you’re more in a clear state of mind. Don’t think of it as controlling yourself. Think of it as mastering your emotions in order to be ready for your enemies. Bangov Actual, out.

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