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Disappointment, Dictate your Happiness

Disappointment is defined as: sadness or displeasure caused by the nonfulfillment of one’s hopes or expectations. Disappointment can be the cause of fluid action. Can teach you to move forward, stand still or go back to the last thing that brought you happiness or pleasure. Sometimes good, sometimes bad. If the last thing that brought you happiness was drugs, bad relationship, then your fate is sealed to inevitably go back to it.

If your Disappointment brings you back to family, friends, an art or passion. You may be able to push yourself forward again. Hell, you may not even feel as if you went back. Maybe just sidestepped a little in order to figure where to place your foot, in order to keep climbing. 

Don’t let Disappointment control the narrative in your head. Be as some political agenda where you think you have no control. Happiness is defined as: state of being happy, which is defined as: feeling or showing pleasure or contentment. Happiness is a state of mind. Nobody should be able to control it. Yes, of course you can be sad sometimes, but really distinguish next time if you would like to be. Or are you feeling a certain way just because you have been programmed or seen a movie where you thought this is when I am supposed to be. 

Controlling your sadness, I believe is a huge part to being happy. Don’t let others decide your mood. This is when all the past blogs of finding likeminded people come into play. You want these strong-willed people to keep you out of the depths of what you know to be a very sad place. A place you once were, or a place where you’ve seen someone else go.

Like a yawn it is contagious and can spread very rapidly. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Interpretation is Taught

Interpretation is a funny thing. It works at 2 speeds. You go 10 miles per hour through a school zone, or you will be going 80 mph through red lights. You either gain a sense of perspective through someone else speaking to you about what you already know but couldn’t rationalize or verbalize yourself. Or you’re screaming and your hairs on fire because you just need the world to go faster. Interpretation is defined as: the act of explaining or making something clear. To those who were not aware, it does not mean how you interpret something in your mind. It is how you are able to teach another of how you understand it. Verbalizing something such as how to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich can be as complicated as taking 2 pieces of bread and putting peanut butter on one slice, taking the second slice and applying jelly. Then taking those 2 pieces and putting them together. To go further we ask ourselves what jelly is and want to know the breakdown of jelly as well as peanut butter to better understand why they go good together, and the history of how they ended up on 2 slices of bread. Why not French bread, or tortillas? I am not telling people how to enjoy pb and J. I’m just saying Wonderbread is the worst bread to put it on, and if you do, you’re going to hell. IN MY OPINION.

That is just my understanding and the only way for me to communicate to you. Bangov Actual out. 

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America The Greatest

As America has always gone through its growing pains. Being a country for 245 years we tend to see our world leaders giving into the language that America is a democracy. That is all I hear when watching the news, democracy, democracy, democracy, when I know it to be a Constitutional Republic. I know what you’re thinking. This is Bangov, this is supposed to motivate me to put the politics aside and focus on my individual pursuits. As Bangov Actual I wouldn’t dream of keeping you from your pursuits. As you read, it is always my full intention to encourage you to keep on focus on your pursuits and embrace what makes you feel fulfilled. If I may divert your attention just for a moment, I would also like to encourage you to focus on this thought process of mine in order to show you just how important the written word is. Now understand I may not be much older than you at 31. I still text and use memes in a comedic manner.

When it comes to defining, or even rationalizing what country we are trying to be. Words are very important. When I say America is, I say with as much conviction as possible that we are a Constitutional Republic. Religious or not, if you are to describe God given, or inalienable rights to yourself. Don’t try at first to convince others of what you are trying to teach yourself. Takes years to ingrain a Pick one first and research to solidify your point of view and let it be challenged so that when questioned, you don’t succeed against those opposing you. Liberty is defined as: the state of being free within society from oppressive restrictions imposed by authority on one’s way of life, behavior, or political views. So, define who you are so that those who challenge it, or even worse those who try and change for their own agenda, will be stopped dead in their tracks. Bangov Actual, out.

 

 

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Dictate Your Focus

Today is a new day. Yesterday there may have been a storm. May have been things broken, or even damaged beyond repair. Start to rebuild anew and you will be forever grateful that you did not give in to your fears. Life’s only consequences are the ones that you create inside your mind. Control, control, control. Dictator is defined as: a ruler with total power over a country, typically one who has obtained control by force. The only time you will ever hear me advocate for a dictatorship is within yourself. Nobody should be in control of you, your happiness or how you choose to live. Yes, that even means your own spouse has no control over your state of mind or wellbeing. The right to choose is something nobody will ever take away from you. Choose to be positive, daring, and those who have not chosen themselves, may either follow or be dismissed (allowed to leave). 

Many will shatter at the thought of disappointing others. You cannot please everyone. You can barely please yourself and you worry about whether you have hurt someone’s feelings. Dictate how you want to live and dictate how you want to feel every day. Doing that, why wouldn’t you want to be positive? Bangov Actual, out.

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Motivation, The Career Killer

Are you willing to put in the time necessary? Or are you just going to watch as opportunities pass you by. You can’t grab onto all the opportunities. Why not do 10 different jobs? You’ll never go anywhere, or you’ll go so slow in your many pursuits that you will feel as if you are standing still. Have a ton of knowledge, and you may even be able to have some fun doing different things. Problem is, to be proficient in something you have to do that one thing over and over again. Not 10 different things. Kind of like college when they tell you, you must do the prerequisites in order to be well rounded. Sounds more and more like bullshit the more you say it in your head. So don’t waste your time worrying about if this is the right career for you. Do what you’re passionate about. Pick one, because in 6 months you may not “feel” passionate about it anymore. Remember that you were, and you may just find what you were looking for in the first place. Also, you will be farther into your career and more understanding about why you chose what you chose in the first place. As I have said motivation is a sucker’s drug, you can be motivated for about 20 min and go back on your decision. So don’t decide your motivation to go left or right. Weigh options, who are you? What are your passions based on evidence of what you’ve done in the past? Motivations come and go, passion which is defined as: any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate. Sometimes you will love, and sometimes you will hate what you are doing, just as a relationship is with a person, son, daughter, spouse, brother, sister. It being a lifetime commitment it has gradually only gotten stronger unless you have given up entirely. So, choose, and then create the relationship.

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Ask Away

 Giving up on your dreams. Quitting, I think about it allll the time. I don’t because that is the fundamental point of what Bangov is. To remain within the game of pursuit. If you don’t have a pursuit, or something you’re chasing then you’re just existing. That shit is boring. You can be the smartest, gone to all the fancy schools. Even have had all the knowledge on a particular subject. What strikes me as odd is that still those who have a degree still suffer with purpose. Still suffer with a pursuit that enables them to be able to feel fulfilled. Of course it is not about the size of the bank account number, but very seldom do I hear people say that they love what they do. If we are to look deeper within ourselves, the only push that I am willing to bet is that in which the people you surround yourself with are just not getting you to where you want to go. Or maybe you haven’t asked the question. Ask and you shall receive is still a real thing. So even if it annoys, ask.

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Pissing People Off Is Fun

Really chaps my ass when I see a so-called conservative angry with me when I ask them a question about something that they get emotionally triggered about. Ever as a “liberal” or the left about something that will annoy them? Abortion, climate change, women’s rights. Of course, they get triggered and yes, it is hilarious. Ever try it with a so-called conservative who gets mad about money, or sports, or when you’re able to trump them with facts. These are my favorites. It is easy to make a snowflake cry. Just misgender them. With these so-called conservatives it’s just as easy as telling them you want to avoid all of that and become successful at something. 

So what can we learn from this. Is tough skin a thing of the past? Is a majority of the people we come into contact with not able to compartmentalize emotion from logical thought without lashing out at thier fellow man…or women…zim?…Zer? See it is funny. Just laugh and go on with your life.

Problem to me seems to be that most who have not found their purpose in life, or at least something that they are passionate about are just miserable to talk to. Probably even a waste of time talking to them, but this isn’t about time management, this is just about pissing people off, which sometimes is just fun to do. Bangov Actual out.