Disappointment is defined as: sadness or displeasure caused by the nonfulfillment of one’s hopes or expectations. Disappointment can be the cause of fluid action. Can teach you to move forward, stand still or go back to the last thing that brought you happiness or pleasure. Sometimes good, sometimes bad. If the last thing that brought you happiness was drugs, bad relationship, then your fate is sealed to inevitably go back to it.
If your Disappointment brings you back to family, friends, an art or passion. You may be able to push yourself forward again. Hell, you may not even feel as if you went back. Maybe just sidestepped a little in order to figure where to place your foot, in order to keep climbing.
Don’t let Disappointment control the narrative in your head. Be as some political agenda where you think you have no control. Happiness is defined as: state of being happy, which is defined as: feeling or showing pleasure or contentment. Happiness is a state of mind. Nobody should be able to control it. Yes, of course you can be sad sometimes, but really distinguish next time if you would like to be. Or are you feeling a certain way just because you have been programmed or seen a movie where you thought this is when I am supposed to be.
Controlling your sadness, I believe is a huge part to being happy. Don’t let others decide your mood. This is when all the past blogs of finding likeminded people come into play. You want these strong-willed people to keep you out of the depths of what you know to be a very sad place. A place you once were, or a place where you’ve seen someone else go.
Like a yawn it is contagious and can spread very rapidly. Bangov Actual, out.
