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Bangov Is Ever Evolving

What is Bangov? I could say it is an evolutionary standpoint that binds us all who invite themselves into the consciousness that they deserve better and want more out of life before they leave this world. Not to just be facetious, but I am not going to do that because it sounds dumb. As much as I would like to throw a bunch of words at you to sound intelligent, maybe some of you will even know what I am talking about. From a point of learning and going to others for what they are proficient in, I always like to begin telling them I KNOW NOTHING. When someone is willing to teach, in my opinion I have always been expressive in saying that I know little to nothing about what they are intending to say. Even in an applicable fashion, such as learning a skill or trade. Everyone has their way of doing things. All based on their interpretations of what was being taught to them is what they are passing on to you. If there are a million ways to skin a cat then, don’t waste time asking a million people how to do something. Ask one person, then ask another, and another, bend, tweak, and even create your own style of whatever art form you are trying to perfect. Be aggressive, yet open in your retention of knowledge. Listen, learn, interpret and ask yourself if you’re willing to commit action and devote your time. If not, be appreciative of the knowledge you have gathered and move on with your search for a pursuit. Bangov is consistent in what world it seeks to create, Bangov is not finite, nothing is 100%. Constant changes are made, always under scrutiny in order to adapt to any and all situations. All who read and share these blogs and the idea of what Bangov means to them, is all part of minor adjustments being made. It is easy to find a name. I write blogs every day, not too hard to find one word to embody the behavioral code which speaks to a large majority of people who want to feel like they have some sort of control over how they live their lives. (I am kidding obviously). Bangov is and will always be Ever Evolving. Bangov Actual, out.

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Accountability

Accountability of one’s self may be the most important thing you learn how to manage. Discipline is defined as: the practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior, using punishment to correct disobedience. I am not too sure I like this word. I’m not trying to get you to obey anything, as well as a code only you have set for yourself. Discipline I know has been overused by so many that it has lost its meaning. My goal for myself is to remain accountable for remembering what my goals are. Accountable is defined as: required or expected to justify actions or decisions; responsible. This to me feels less forceful for the individual. Not everyone will punish themselves when they do something against the original intentions they have set for themselves. Changing one word, we change the language and the intention. I don’t want you to punish yourself when you do something that is not conducive to your life’s ambitions. I am more interested in the things that get you to do them because you genuinely want to see the results. Kick and scream all you like. Someone telling me I have to kick myself for not conforming to what someone else is telling me to do when I am not even telling myself. You basically just have a person who uses you to see the outcome. Whether it works or not. Incentives work because they get you to do things that may seem hard to do at your own will. Being accountable for yourself and your actions leaves nobody at fault but yourself. Obedience is defined as: compliance with an order, request, or law or submission to authority. These words require actions I am not encouraging myself to go through with. Laws, compliance, submission to authority, Bangov has no authority over you because you encourage its presence from reading. Bangov only exists as it is welcomed. It is not forced upon you, no law requires you to read it, it is strictly sought out for a different perspective. I hope for myself and others a better life is expected through the pursuit of the individual, and will be met by those who truly find what they want and need to be happy. I am accountable for my actions, it is not by law, or fear of punishment that I am accountable. It is through the pursuit of a better life for all. I know what you’re all thinking, “what about responsibility?”…Responsibility is defined as: the state or fact of having a duty to deal with something or of having control over someone…I am not trying to control anyone or anything. This is Bangov for fuck sake. I’m just trying to get you to think outside of societal norms. That is the real brainwash if you ask me. Being OK, or even celebrating mediocrity. Bangov is and always will be a place for perspective…and while we are adding to the list, Perspective is defined as: a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view. Define your lives in what you choose to pursue. Focus on what you’re trying to say, hell say anything and decode from there. Bangov Actual, out.

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Build Your world, Also Pick Up Your Fucking Mess.

There is just something about making breakfast in the morning. eggs , potatoes, maybe some grilled bacon or sausage. Is it the food or the action that sets the mood for peoples day. Throw in some morning sex and you that is the breakfast of champions. Fuck Cereal. Then again cereal does not nag you about the lawn not being mowed and the garage needing to be cleared out. Yes ladies, welcome to the mind of a man. When misery sets in we tend to remember the simple things in life. Food, working in the garage, which by the way garages go through fazes, and ladies if your shit is in there too, don’t be bitching at your man until all your bikes and pottery shit is out of the way. I invite all couples dealing with household duties into my world of simply taking pleasure in the project of cleaning. If cleaning is a recurring problem for you then just remember the act of doing something, like making breakfast. Simple acts of starting a task for some will inevitably create a motion to finish what was originally intended. Like a business..see what I did there. Putting things off like cleaning the garage may be your biggest problem right now, but what about when it is finished. Continuously we evolve based on the situation we are in. As soon as the garage is cleaned you will think, “I have so much room now, maybe a gym, maybe a studio for my music, whatever your heart desires.” With that being said a project in my experience has never been a finished piece when it comes to organizing your life. Starting with your garage, it is a series of evolution that need to take place. We see the garage as a daunting task that is looked down upon. Even if we finish we think we still won’t be happy with the result. With that negativity it is no wonder that people don’t make the time to do it. What is even weirder is that we have this place, or part of what is supposed to be our home that is daunting to think about. What next? The kitchen, unfinished bedroom? Getting these types of things put back into order is all part of the construction of creating a productive and efficient household. Thankfully I have been equipped with the OCD complex of not liking things to be too dirty before I start working. Hahaha I clean dishes before I start eating what I just cooked. When it comes to dinner though I will maybe have a glass of wine so it is really not that bad. As well it just has to feel unorganized for me to start throwing things away I do not need or wiping down the office table. In fact if I have to look at this stapler I haven’t used in 6 months the walls will start to bleed. Ok sorry, it’s in the drawer, but now I know it’s in the drawer so ill get rid of it later. My business is all online, why do I need a stapler. Ok rant over. Understand the projects that in life you don’t want to tackle right now are not going anywhere. I only hope that your home is a place that encourages more perspective, and gives you ideas that come from a positive attitude. Go clean that garage, build some shelves, get everything off the ground so for cleanup all you need is an air compressor or leaf blower. Also stop saying that one or the other should be doing things. We all need help sometimes, especially the garage when all of you use it. Make it a family thing and finish in a quarter of the time. Any job can feel daunting when you think you have to do it alone. Bangov Actual, out.

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Expect Nothing, Communicate Everything

Expectations are only that which are communicated to each other. Job, transaction, parenting, friendships, EVEN SEX, is a negotiated relationship between individuals. I know I have been consistent with relationships between others, but these relationships are very important. Think of creating anything with no help. A business, product, or service, anything you do in order to market yourself, your social skills must improve, saying hello, good morning, good afternoon, good evening, shaking hands looking them in the eye, genuine acts of benevolence. Benevolence is defined as:the quality of being well meaning; kindness. The more genuine you are, which is why I try to be as definitive in who I present to others, being myself. The more I have realized others willingness to engage and be inclusive in conceptualizing. Conceptualizing is defined as: form a concept or idea of something. Be mindful that people are always about “good vibes,” or about being involved with those who encourage growth in how they want to identify.

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What Is Business To You?

What is a business, the cliche what you eat, sleep, breath. I just don’t think people of the younger generation are getting it. You don’t need a brick and mortar, you don’t even need to have a name yet. You just need to create an LLC in order to have a beginning for what you may end up calling something else. If your name is John Smith, then call it John Smith LLC. The name can come later after you find a product or service you would like to commit to, or even when you find the demographic for your audience. Bangov obviously went through some fazes, haha no way was I going to have another “freedom” or “Liberty” company. Just the names alone make me want to start suck start a shotgun. Only prior military may laugh at that joke, but HEY guess what, that is my demographic. That is what is so great about being able to say such ridiculous shit, is my people I cater to may have a few screws loose anyway. Plus this is my site and you come to me for entertainment. Business is defined as: a person’s regular occupation, profession, or trade. With such a broad definition, it is no wonder people are lost. Break it down. Your profession, profession is defined as: a paid occupation, especially one that involves prolonged training and a formal qualification. Something you’re paid for. Do not get too caught up in what you need countless hours for. If you’re good at sucking dick, and have hours of experience doing it, well I can guarantee you it may be needed in your state, Also after you establish a good client base, you may want to bring on some help, once the word gets out growth is inevitable, SO MANY DIRTY JOKES, but I digress. Knowing you’re good at something and having the confidence to market yourself I know is easier said than done. Just get ready to fail and fail a lot. DOES NOT MATTER. It is all about trial and error in what is going to work and what is going to make your product or service become the new norm for others. Forget the definition for a minute and think of what a business would mean to you? The definition is just to help the understanding of you having the confidence to go through with the process. I had my attorney do it and it cost about 3k, RELAX. I know for you penny pinchers that may seem like a lot of money, but when a lot more money is to be made then 3k, is all about the start-up costs. Also that is what a bank is for. Can we all come together on this and PLEASE quit demonizing banks? They literally give you money. Yes I know you have to pay it back, but I took out 20k for Bangov and was able to pay it off in a year. Was it easy? No, it is all about what you’re willing to sacrifice in your life up till now in order to create the life you want. Business to me was finally putting all this effort towards working 9-5 and overtime, but putting it towards what I wanted to do with my life. I sold stuff I did not want to. I flipped cars, did all my side hustles I have spoken about before, had people move in my house when I could have definitely lived alone and cozy, but I was trying to create something that was for me. No telling what I would have done really to create this and that is what I want for all of you. No judgment on the decisions you may have to make to make something in your life finally work for you. When you people that have been emailing me, just know any story I have read is not approached with anything but a willingness to learn from which hell you have had to endure. I will admit if it is funny and I bet you I can find the humor in possibly anything, time and place of course. When other people tend to tell me things that they need help on, well I am here for you and I live to serve. Business is not so complicated guys, but it does take fortitude, and a lot of dedication over time. Whether it is worth it or not depends on when you get to say to yourself that you enjoy what you’re doing. When you have the rest of your life to commit to yourself and your aspirations. Seems like a pretty good life to me. Just don’t give up, by all means fail. I know talking to military some of you say I will not fail because you have had it drilled into you over years of service, but this is reality and you will fail, but I think you misinterpret failure and giving up. Those are 2 different things. Failure just means you need to go a different way about things for your vision to work. Giving up means you just are not going to try anymore. So FAIL, FAIL, FAIL. Fail everyday. Giving up is not the option here at Bangov Actual, out.

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Please Tell Me You Caught On

I mean is it that hard? What does a woman want in a man? Well ya, actually it is. You gentlemen ask the question, what is that you want in a man. Now gentlemen, think of asking that question plus a few others. What does she want in a lover, in a fighter, in insert word here. The ideal question to ask a woman is multiple. Never leave it up to a one word answer. This in my opinion is why men make all the stupid mistakes in a relationship. Lack of knowledge of the individual, being that one you wish to console. Don’t overthink, it does not matter if you’re the man or woman. You’re instincts may even tell you not to pry but THAT’S THE POINT!!! I don’t mean to pressure anyone, but over a given amount of time I think people stop asking those they wish to have a relationship with general questions. By the way, general questions continue on for the rest of the time you’re together. They are pretty much just questions, but as you both get older, and the deeper you go, you may help in finding things out about yourself you didn’t know you liked or disliked. To ask a person about themselves that you have known for 5 min obviously is going to be different than that of a person you’ve known for 5 years. If someone asked me how I felt about 2 people who are in love or wanting to create it, why the inevitability of their relationship ending came down to a simple argument over curtain shades, I’d be like, “please don’t talk to me”….naa I’d probably engage in the conversation, but that is just my personality. Then again even meaningless conversation is a sign of a good relationship, in that you’re wanting to spend time with them. All meaningless conversation is a door to a deeper conversation, you just have to start somewhere. New questions to ask, new insight In to your partner’s mind can all stem from, “do you like pizza?” Or 5 years from then, “do you like these curtains, or this?” Some of you have caught on. Almost like carving out a different perspective of the person with how you have molded each question. Also rest assured the person you’re so crazy about and hopefully is still crazy about you, does not care how the question was asked, just simply that you asked means something. Nobody has all the right words at the right time, so while you may just be thinking about how you should ask a question, or even say something, just blurt it out and both of you can starts to decode the message that was intended because you’re going to be doing that the entire conversation anyway. Dig, Dig, Dig. When it comes to what men and women want in each other it is still solely that they want each other. Two established individuals that solely want one another is a very powerful thing. Nothing that I have seen has been able to come in between that, throw any stereotype you’d like at them, but those 2 that have found that comfort and that familiarity are very likely to stay with each other. For how long, who fucking knows? Ladies if you told a man that you wanted someone honorable, fair and ethical, men cannot compute that. It is too broad of terms. Honorable traits can be determined by how ethical a man is. Also life is not fair, so don’t expect a man or woman who knows what he is worth to settle for less than what he or she thinks they can have. Best advice I have ever heard is work on yourself and compete to be better. Compete everyday for the man or woman you want, and you may just surpass what you would have settled for a year ago. Bangov Actual, out

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If You Don’t Laugh, You’re Dead Inside

As I have observed, we as people, maybe not you, but if the shoe fits. I have observed that we all look to find those of a certain “emotional intelligence.” Emotional intelligence is defined as: is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflict. Key concept here, in my opinion, is that the management of emotions in a positive way. This I think is overlooked when observing our partners in different situations. Whether it be, an argument between another, or even how they react to a situation towards you. Actions are key indicators that we all tend to give off, like it or not, you can catch whether someone is the right fit for you in an instant. Daniel Goleman, (American Psychologist) popularized Emotional Intelligence with these 5 key elements-Self-awareness, Self-regulation, Motivation, Empathy, Social skills. Can only wonder how many relationships have ended off one night of drinking and you find your sugarplum doing a keg stand when you have been 5 years sober or never got into the drinking game. What is your emotional intelligence on that Danny!!! Sounds like Danny, so I ran with it. Or my favorite, you find out that he or she is cheating on you and you NEVER SAW IT COMING. Sure he has to work late 3 days a week. Sure she has been going out more than usual and that new boob job she is keeping from you is still healing after 6 months. In any sense, remember no matter what the situation, the dependency on your emotional intelligence is how you react to situations. Remember in a positive way, don’t buy that double barrel, or single action revolver just yet. Remember you ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE. Writing to all of you I can only hope you choose to look at pain, lies and suffering in a way that really is better for you and your future. Emotional intelligence to me is an understanding between two individuals, based on the conversation and understandings they have presented to one another. Don’t care how long you both have been together, you’re individuals as much as your souls became one when you got married, or even if you’re still dating just remember it is called a soul mate, not a soul mending person. Hahaha ,and with a divorce rate 50% you better believe it is entirely possible that you have some more life to live before you find your someone special. Just look up any article and you will find out that the average age for marriage has been increased to 30s, and probably for a good reason considering half my High School Senior class was snatched up and divorced before 26. So who knew you might want to do stupid shit or fuck around just a little longer before you got married, had kids, bought a house and realized you were stuck. Not saying having a family is not a beautiful thing. When you didn’t want it that soon and think of what could have been for the next 10 years into your 30’s. Beautiful may not be the word you use right then. If currently in this predicament, well what’s great about today’s topic, makes things into positives. I will say having kids move out or go to college, and you’re not even 50 yet, sounds DOPE! Hell you can still get divorced, agree WE MADE IT, and just part ways amicably and go fuck around with 30 year olds. What? This is Bangov, not some Christian Blog Bullshit. I am getting side tracked though. Emotional intelligence, like regular intelligence, has to be developed over time and taught. The one you’re with is teaching you how to be with them and vice versa. Once you tend to enjoy each other’s company, everything will fall into place and you can start to check off those 5 elements I mentioned. That’s my 2 cents. Bangov Actual, out!

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