I mean is it that hard? What does a woman want in a man? Well ya, actually it is. You gentlemen ask the question, what is that you want in a man. Now gentlemen, think of asking that question plus a few others. What does she want in a lover, in a fighter, in insert word here. The ideal question to ask a woman is multiple. Never leave it up to a one word answer. This in my opinion is why men make all the stupid mistakes in a relationship. Lack of knowledge of the individual, being that one you wish to console. Don’t overthink, it does not matter if you’re the man or woman. You’re instincts may even tell you not to pry but THAT’S THE POINT!!! I don’t mean to pressure anyone, but over a given amount of time I think people stop asking those they wish to have a relationship with general questions. By the way, general questions continue on for the rest of the time you’re together. They are pretty much just questions, but as you both get older, and the deeper you go, you may help in finding things out about yourself you didn’t know you liked or disliked. To ask a person about themselves that you have known for 5 min obviously is going to be different than that of a person you’ve known for 5 years. If someone asked me how I felt about 2 people who are in love or wanting to create it, why the inevitability of their relationship ending came down to a simple argument over curtain shades, I’d be like, “please don’t talk to me”….naa I’d probably engage in the conversation, but that is just my personality. Then again even meaningless conversation is a sign of a good relationship, in that you’re wanting to spend time with them. All meaningless conversation is a door to a deeper conversation, you just have to start somewhere. New questions to ask, new insight In to your partner’s mind can all stem from, “do you like pizza?” Or 5 years from then, “do you like these curtains, or this?” Some of you have caught on. Almost like carving out a different perspective of the person with how you have molded each question. Also rest assured the person you’re so crazy about and hopefully is still crazy about you, does not care how the question was asked, just simply that you asked means something. Nobody has all the right words at the right time, so while you may just be thinking about how you should ask a question, or even say something, just blurt it out and both of you can starts to decode the message that was intended because you’re going to be doing that the entire conversation anyway. Dig, Dig, Dig. When it comes to what men and women want in each other it is still solely that they want each other. Two established individuals that solely want one another is a very powerful thing. Nothing that I have seen has been able to come in between that, throw any stereotype you’d like at them, but those 2 that have found that comfort and that familiarity are very likely to stay with each other. For how long, who fucking knows? Ladies if you told a man that you wanted someone honorable, fair and ethical, men cannot compute that. It is too broad of terms. Honorable traits can be determined by how ethical a man is. Also life is not fair, so don’t expect a man or woman who knows what he is worth to settle for less than what he or she thinks they can have. Best advice I have ever heard is work on yourself and compete to be better. Compete everyday for the man or woman you want, and you may just surpass what you would have settled for a year ago. Bangov Actual, out
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