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Are You Struggling, or Complaining?

If you own a horse, I don’t want to hear your problems. “I can’t afford shit.” Ya well I want to own a bear, or tiger like Mike Tyson, but I don’t because then my whole life changes around that animal. So my dog will do it for now. It is amazing how people will complain about their finances, and yet they have a horse, boat, 3 cars and a big ass house. So be honest with yourself and evaluate your situation and what you own. Are you really struggling? Or do you just like having expensive shit? Nothing wrong with that, I have expensive hobbies as well. I just tend to look at purchases like a choice. If they are not the essentials, like food, gas, rent, utilities. Then I can wait a month to purchase that new suit, or watch, anything really. It can wait and it is not the end goal, it is only going to give me happiness for about 10 minutes. Things accumulated are not what defines you, so don’t think that the more you have the happier you will be. In my experience what is done for others is what will define me. That is all I will focus on till the end of my time on this earth. I have had many jobs, made money in many different ways, but never had I realized that a passion for inviting others would be this easy to continue. I’m a communicable person. I believe in opening up communication, whatever that may mean to you. Remember this is Bangov, this is your choice and how you choose to view your life. I am simply here telling you what I am going through. All the questions, fears, doubts, I am going through just as you are. So never think you’re alone in how you’re feeling. All I ask is when you begin your journey, or if you have been at it for a while, make sure communication stays open. The world is always trying to help you in intricate ways that if you just take the time you may be missing what is needed right in front of you. Challenging yourself is supposed to be hard, but again how you decide to view it, you can either make it your prison, or you can make it your game. The world you create in your mind should be what you put on paper. Then paper can be constructed to become reality. Bangov Actual, out!

 

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Path Of Most Resistance

I feel myself battling with all sides of me. What I could be doing. What I’ve dreamed of doing and What I should be focusing on. It is hard to dream and think that you could ever amount to what your dreams are because that is the point of dreaming. Stepping outside your own beliefs and having the confidence to commit to an ideal of yourself. You will probably feel as if you are running in circles as I have many times in pursuit of a passion. This is when you need to evaluate yourself. Really take time to write down, maybe say into a voice memo what you’re feeling right now. Yes feelings do matter, despite popular conservative slogans like, “Facts don’t care about your feelings.” Which is true they don’t when trying to argue reason and logic. This is me trying to instill a passion within myself. Does not happen overnight and I am tired of people giving up when getting rich quick scams tend to not be what they imagined. Not so instant. You better be willing to work for what you want or just be content with mediocrity. Do yourself a favor and look at your lives today and just think 10 years ago was I here? If you have made tremendous leaps and are out of the situation you were in, great. Just realize that 10 years from now when you are better than you are now, you’re still going to want more. May just not be of a financial pursuit. As I have always told friends, money is inevitable. If you’re constant then money should come as you are inevitably going to keep moving forward with your life. Of course we have all felt backed up against the ropes with a mortgage payment, or a credit card payment. Hahahaha slap me with a 35 dollar charge because I can’t pay on time while I am trying to figure my way through this thing called life, sure go ahead. No big deal, and it is not a big deal but you tend to make it a bigger deal then it is. Everything comes down to you. Three things, What could i be doing, What I have dreamed of doing, and what I should be focusing on? Choice is yours. Do you want to follow your dreams? Or are you OK with the 2nd or 3rd tier in order to feel fulfilled. Of course, finding;g love, having a family is all important, but this is about you and I will SAY IT AGAIN! Help yourself in order to help the masses. Can’t help get anyone out of a hole if you’re in the same hole, or bigger. That is the interesting thing about paths of least resistance. Choosing yourself as a path when you’re the resistance. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Let’s Define Terms, “Endure”

To endure means to suffer patiently. It is increasingly surprising to me that old Merriam Webster, with just the simplest definitions. Can bring you out of a funk to give you a different perspective. A way of the world that was only undiscovered a moment ago. To endure, if your pursuit is one I would not say is for everyone but those who dabble in it will be the most grateful for it’s lessons. To endure when you are lost is to be as you are now. The thing is when trying to find life’s pursuit we just don’t think we are lost. We just tend to give up too early and don’t wish to endure the darkness of our own existence. Ask me what I wanted to do 10 years ago, I would have told you the military. When I got out I didn’t want to do it anymore. I only wanted to do it because that just seemed like my only option. No way I would have made it in college. I know, I have the grades of me attempting to prove it. I personally just came to the conclusion that I wanted to work. That was it, in simplest form. Work, work, work, money, money, money….. I think a lot of people feel this way at some point. Out of some notion that the money will fill a void, or a certain dollar amount will make you happy. Nope, it is what I have come to see as a degree of wealth, or a measure of means. Haven’t really coined it yet, but it is the measurement of confidence in the individual and what they choose as a life for themselves. What do you think you deserve out of life? What do your manifestations build for you? What is your end? Have to let go sometime right? I won’t decide when. Just when you’re done with the ride, step off. How do you choose to suffer? Are you alone? Have you found someone to suffer with? To endure is a life’s pursuit. When you find yours just always remember…Bangov….

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Just… Breathe..

So stress being the biggest bitch of all when it comes to wanting to work hard and play hard every day all day. We have to take a step back and remember we are human. The immune system is still a thing and we want to keep it strong, so aside from maybe vitamins and tea which I take and drink everyday, what are things that you guys do to keep the stress level down. Can never really get rid of it. Think of yourself as a teapot. Once the water boils it is time to turn it off or take it off the burner. What happens if you don’t? Water evaporates then you ruin the pot, and then your mom smacks you because you saw your favorite show on TV and forgot what you were doing. The point is stress will come in all forms or fashions and having a regular regiment of ways of relieving the stress is very important. Make sure you’re actually using the time to relieve stress. Workout, focus on breathing, meditate, and sleep is probably the biggest one for me. I have a cold now and my biggest pet peeve in the world is getting sick. I mean even more than hearing Alec Baldwin didn’t pull the trigger. Also a big one I am sure we all could do is maybe cut down on social media. I have a social media site, but in the pursuit of people’s happiness I would like to be an advocate for your physical and mental health. I tend to overwork myself, but understand that just like everything, persistence is not just in how hard you work, it is how you do what is necessary in basic maintenance to continue on. So grease up the hinges, tighten up the bolts, put coolant in the reservoir, whatever you need to tell yourself so that tomorrow is just another day and you’re in good health, so it is going to be a good day. Or like me and on day 3 of this shit cold. This is so dumb. Bangov Actual, out!

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Competition Fuels Your Desire

It is Interesting when you ask someone what their hobbies are. They either have a ton or none. It’s either they run, swim, hike, dance, or sing. Hobbies are addictive, they give you something to strive for without having the pressure of success. You can do them at your leisure. So why is it that a business is different? Why don’t we think of business and individual hobbies or pursuits as a leisurely thing. You spend money to do one and the other you make money. Let’s just understand those who have it all together, make those two things become one in their life. Being able to make your hobby or passion be your income is a very beautiful thing. Hunting fishing, dancing, singing. All wonderful things if you can establish a business out of it. When is it that it kicks in for you that if you’re not moving forward, you are stagnant, or you’re going back. So challenge yourself whenever you get the chance. Utilize your hobbies to transfer into your pursuits, whichever they may be. Competition is a breeding ground for those looking for that rush in their life. Stop thinking it is only for those to prove themselves, even that being true, is that really a bad thing? It is a community of individuals who are trying to better each other by bringing their best to the table in all aspects of a competitive nature. Just like anything you will get from my blogs, if you’re in a negative state of mind you will get negative results. So think of what it may mean to you to be competitive and think positively about it and you’ll find a fuel inside that drives you to new heights. Positive, positive positive, wake up this way and you’ll be ahead of those whose days are filled with regret and even may bring them out of it. I hope to one day use my hobbies as a means of income for those in search of their own pursuits. Competition only has a disdain for those who don’t like to lose. Nothing wrong with losing, especially if you are new to whatever you are doing. You’re expected to fail because those who know what to do with failure end up being the most competitive. Not because they are big and scary, or mean, it is all mental. So is money, so again the excuse of “I am just not good enough,” is a lie you can tell yourself for the rest of your life. If you have a hobby, great, if you don’t get your ass off the couch and go find something you’re passionate about. I mean holy fuck, even a gamer will get pumped if they get 20 kills on Call Of Duty. I don’t know for sure if it is 20, I made that up, but I have seen those competitions and they get intense. So don’t think just because you are overweight, or can’t run fast that you can’t be competitive. That is a lie as well, so after all the excuses are gone and the dust settles which one are you going to choose? Bangov Actual, out.

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A Case Of Over Indulgence

Most of you won’t get this till it is time. Like waves on a beach. Will come a time where all of this will seem like a memory, dejavu even. Just the same old slopes you’ve been going down and around. You’ll tend to see a different side of things and then everything else that bothered you before will seem irrelevant. You’ll be heading down that bunny slope looking for big air, but it’s a bunny slope so you’re going to look for the next challenge. Will never end. Pursuits are not supposed to end, just what you get out of them are supposed to be another piece of the puzzle missing from your life. Life, relationships, sex, business. The things you get in life pursuits will always be a greater than what you get from quick fixes like brownies, or sugary things, and there are 2 things in life I destroy, that is pizza…(get your mind out of the gutter) and a box of doughnuts. I have a wicked sweet tooth that every so often comes back with a vengeance. Holiday parties I have to have someone watch me so I don’t overload on sweets. I will eat myself sick. That being said I am like a fat kid with cake just trying to fill the void of something that I truly want. The pursuit is always there but sometimes I just lose track and before you know it I am in a line at Cinnabon with NO SUPERVISION, and I will order 4, no real reason. I even lie to the lady at the counter and say “yes I need these for a party.” Party is in my mouth BITCH! Then I go home and after all of them are consumed and I am being pg saying they are consumed. More like they are engorged by a sea serpent from the Nile. After the fact that it is over, and I have been found with belt open and napkin on the ground, I lay in my own wake as to be licked by my dog trying to get the last remaining filling off my forehead. I realize this is what it means to be where I am now and not be moving forward. The void is still there. The void is still in existence because I am still who I am. The choice to be better was shattered as soon as the decision was made to steer off the path. Could of probably been satisfied with a smoothie or something that would not put me in a coma for the next 4 hours while I binge watch romantic comedy’s and cry. Then again, tomorrow is another day. Know that it will be hard, because no matter if you go to the gym for 3 weeks, your cheat day depending on the severity will always be how you feel the next day, like you are starting over. So the key word is consistency. Choose what you would like to be consistent in. Cinnamon rolls, or steps to making yourself feel better and life more meaningful. We are all trying to make some sort of consistency work in our lives. Be consistent in your attempts, and see where it gets you. Bangov Actual, out.

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Whew!, Glad I Made It Out Of There Alive

I told myself i was going to go to bed now but as you are reading I am still up and typing away for my mind has no bounds when it comes to sleep deprivation. For me sleep has always been a, “eh I will get to it when I get to it.” Kind of like chores, or having to do homework. My principal and I were very well acquainted, my straight c report card was not going to mail itself. For this I will say high school for me was not the standard educational practices. They definitely had those to some degree. I just chose to look at school as more of a social experiment to maneuver while in close quarters with other mouth breathers, and people who think they had it all figured out by age 17. Was not in the popular crowd, did not drink, did not smoke, and yet I found myself in very close proximity of these people all the time. Understand if you have teenagers, they are into some weird shit. It’s OK unless they start torturing animals, but that’s for you to figure out just how weird it is. When any group of teenagers get together, you have hormones raging, fireworks, light shows, making pizzas in an oven for 50 people in the guest house. Drunk and passed out on the couch, sail boat cover, in a sea of cheerleaders, or my personal favorite was 5 sitting in a circle with heads rolled back to high to get up. Yes prom night was fun. When do we cut off lost causes? What age is that not appropriate? I mean we as a society are OK with our 20’s nearly comatose from alcohol. Then you can’t forget about dirty 30’s. I am there now and it is pretty fun considering I am still trying to build everything I have invested in. This also coming from a guy who used to clean Department buildings. Vacuum, scrub floors, toilets. Don’t be someone who justifies your existence by what you do for a living, because that is what others are already doing for you. Just keep your head up and keep moving forward. What makes sense to you now will make sense to those when they are ready to see it. Even these 5 high in a circle could be a doctor or lawyer some day, I choose to not put people in that bubble. They have aspirations and dreams all their own and even older now I am sure I will have my day I just need to let go and will find myself looking for my own sail boat cover to lay in after a night of boozing. For now your reality is only a thin fabric of who you are and at any moment you are more than capable of starting a new avenue that may just be a better fit for your lifestyle. Always be thinking of improvement, it is not greedy to think how your life can be better, the more you do for yourself, the more you can do for others. Bangov Actual, out.

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