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Dating, Not For The Faint of Heart.

I recently went on a date with a woman. Ya, who knew I had a romance life..NOT FUCKING ME!. She was nice, beautiful, but when things don’t click, they just don’t click. This is for the gentleman out there looking for someone. Ladies just understand it is nothing against you if I don’t have a blog for you specifically all the time. Don’t think I won’t, I am just not a women so mainly they will be asking for your opinions on a subject, but anyway I digress. Gentleman, what I have learned is do not force chemistry with a woman or it will eventually blow up in your face. As well look out if she is forcing it, then you know something is up(ladies this can all be mirrored for you as well so RELAX.)  A 50% divorce rate in this county and society is now cringing at the fact that we are seeing open relationships, swingers and a rise of only-fans where men and woman can show there goodies for cash. You’re not going to surprise me at all that your 20th date this year has gone bad…20th? oh you think that’s a lot? Well Karen I hate to break it to you but finding your soulmate across the pond ain’t what it used to be. Many dates you will go on and many dates you will have to go on to find someone that is worth your time. Be aggressive, BE E AGGRESSIVE. Nobody knows what they want when it comes to themselves so sure as shit they won’t know when they have a 6 foot blonde hair blue eyed devil who maybe is a mommas boy and sucks in the sack. Meanwhile a 5’9″ blonde/brunette/redhead (whatever the fuck you’re into) is maybe more sexually experienced than you and what is WORSE is you shame her for that to protect your own ego. Spend some time getting to know yourself and get a glimpse of what you want so you’re not chasing life pursuits that are meaningless to you. If you’re under 25, eh, fuck anything you want, you’re young. Either way on a date, or while looking for your passion, just enjoy the date. Be playful, flirt, and just respect the fact that both of you took time out of each others day to realize what you liked and did not like about each other. Both of you can want kids, but if you hate each other then the kids become anchors instead of life rafts keeping you both together. While looking for your passions, or while looking for your person will take time, just know that life will mold into a dream that you didn’t know you even wanted. That is what I call bliss. So keep working, keep going on dates, keep looking for opportunities, or avenues of income, just don’t forget to have a purpose for an eternal happiness that just needs to last a lifetime. BanGov is all about about the individual and their pursuits. So whether you take clothes off for a living, fold them or make them, just think to yourself, BanGov.  Bangov Actual, out. Also any blogs/ideas you want to hear other thoughts on besides your own, hit me up at