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Money is an endless pursuit. Not that I need it all the time. Sometimes I just want to sit with my dog and have a beer on the porch. I mean, I did have to buy my dog, beer, and porch that I newly refinished. See what I am getting at here? I am here to tell you it is OK that you want certain things. You want expensive things. You want cheap things, in the grand scheme of things wanting at all can be a very invigorating feeling. Be aware that you want something. I mean I really want a Gunwerks HAMR 2.0 chambered in 375 Cheytac. All for the low price of $14,000. I have expensive taste yes, but the difference is I don’t ask daddy or a sugar momma to buy it for me. I will continually seek a way in order to pay for this gun and all the ammunition I want through products or services I may provide for someone else in return for any form of currency. Unless greed is used to hurt others, I encourage everyone to have a higher standard of life. Have a higher standard in all aspects of your life. This may not be your ambition. Think of a vehicle, home, watch, shoes or trip you want and fight like hell to get it. The object itself may not be important but the will and determination that you build in my opinion is worth more than what you will pay for a ROLEX or BENTLY you want. Blows my mind that people who have the means to buy expensive things still care about how they are going to be judged by their surroundings. IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THEY THINK! Don’t let other define how you spend your money. I want everyone READING THIS to try this social experiment. When you say you want something, when you say you’re going to make a purchase, listen to what they say. Body position, how they look at you. Just tell them you want the most expensive thing. Tell them money is not the issue. Small things, not like a castle, just for the experiment. If you want the castle then go for it, but just for this realize what everyone around you is doing. They will do the same thing, look at you funny, will feel like judgement, tell you don’t do it, tell you it is too much. I am telling you buy the most expensive thing that you are willing to work for. You want that $300 dollar watch, fuck ya go get it. I am on your side with the things you want because I know that when you make the purchase you will not starve because you just showed me that you are not afraid of wealth. You are willing to work and willing to overcome whatever obstacle necessary. Bangov Actual Out!

Gentleman I am under the impression that their is an epidemic of bad sex going on. Only by what women have told me I cannot speak for every man, but this being said what I have been hearing is mainly the one pump chumps, and the quickie crew are all it has amounted to. This is not me writing this one this is woman telling me what is going on. We will get to romance in a bit. Let’s just go into the new year with a state of mind that we will do better. This is not a feminist rant either so don’t even try that shit with me. Starting to explore a sexual nuance is no easy task. Just as everything else, it will take a little time, little effort on our parts, but we can do better. This may be due to the Covid-19(oh no I have to get to know my partner) type people but sex toy sales are on the rise. Whether those toys are only for one party or used in a partnership that is anyone’s guess, but the effort that you put into this part of your life does matter in how you attack anything else. Sexual frustration can very much be a part of stress that hinders your creativity. Women telling me they have never had an orgasm in 5 years of marriage…ya…missionary only couples, or just no effort or emotion into it anymore. These kinds of things can be a strain on anyone, especially those trying to be innovative or encouraging in entrepreneurial pursuits. So for the love of whatever God you pray to, communicate with your partner on what it is that they desire and both of you I am sure can come to some kind of conclusion on what needs to happen in the bedroom. Bangov is the pursuit of the individual and I want for all of you to get the most out of all aspects of life.

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So let us say we are 2 different people. How we perceive others and how we would like to be perceived. I am perfectly fine staying in on a Sunday watching TV, eating a few bowls of cereal, while mindlessly scrolling through Instagram for a laugh or 2. I don’t because I have to run every morning with my dog because she is a spaz ball of energy. After the exertion I feel the need to be productive. So I am essentially 2 people. Before the run I am a piece of shit on the couch. Then after the run I am bed made, clean clothes, ready for business type and on the computer or running errands. I think it is important for us to be able to distinguish ourselves and really set a parameter for what gets us going in the morning. For some it is coffee. I have met women who you have to hand a cup of coffee to with a 10 foot pole so you wouldn’t have your arm ripped off if you woke her up too early and she didn’t have coffee in sight. Or just the silent zombie meandering from one room to the other until the first cup has been processed in the stomach. So what is your switch? Is it exercise?  Is it coffee, shower, sex, slap your partners ass in the morning, yoga, jerk off, or the classic scream in a pillow? Whatever gets you to start your day, or if you don’t have one then find something that really gets you ready to take on every morning. These kinds of things are just as important as knowing things about yourself. Favorite food, color, shape, sex position, but that is another blog as well. Just know to have a morning of your own is very powerful in a sense that it defines you as an individual and how others perceive you. So choose how you want to be perceived from the moment you wake up to the second you go to bed, and if you snore, hog the blankets, or drool, well some things are just not in our control. Knowing these things aids in being confident in who you are around other people. You know who you are when you wake up and when you go to bed, so don’t let anyone else have control over telling you. Bangov Actual, out.

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Not all your ideas will come when they are supposed to. Just heading out the door and was like “damn it.” Had something else on my mind I just have to get down. Not always how it goes. While working warehouse jobs I would have to sneak away from the boss man in order to get ideas down on paper. Text them to myself, or write them out in the bathroom. The so called “natural flow” of your day more than likely will change the more you chase what inevitably will be what you’re trying to accomplish. Didn’t even know why I would write anything down, I just did. Just became a part of who I was. Never shared it with anyone, never thought anyone would care. Just kept writing and once I had all my writings in front of me I realized it was a manuscript for myself. I really started to write for myself, trying to develop my BanGov. Something was just really wanting to burst out of me and this is what it became. Still have more vision, enough for a lifetime that I have written down. At this point it is just laying dormant until like I have explained before, the fear comes into focus and I am ready to really make it a reality. It is building and building and I don’t know if it will ever stop. The inconvenience of day to day as it seemed was just a place holder for my life in the current moment. I have had a few jobs. Military, Warehousing, mailing, carpentry, home renovations, remodeling, property management, delivery driver, retail, sales, landscaping, dump hauling, painting, and last but not least a paper route. After all these things you realize these are just things that were a place hold for what was to become my true passions. Hell I even applied to be an apprentice of a hot shot Male Escort…ya you read that right. Didn’t get the job, and I asked why but they never responded. I do not care what work you choose to do, of course I encourage you do it through legal means, but never underestimate the power of a 9-5. Stop thinking about the pay you receive and think of it as time being given in order to take charge of your own life and get paid for what you’re worth while doing what you love. If you like your job then ask for a raise or go somewhere else. know your worth and make sure you have the work ethic to back it up.These are where dreams are made of for what kind of lifestyle you want. Who watch what they are apart of and think they do the same job as the boss. You just have to believe that you’re capable and possibilities are endless. BanGov Actual, out!

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So this is what I mean to make everything a positive. Had an earlier than usual morning, but now I am here writing about it for you guys. So this was actually a dream of an individual in an office setting who had a gun.(oh just wait, it gets better) As I am in my dream I am also thinking about things I had failed to realize in life that I wanted to do, but like so many of us had either pushed off out of laziness, lack of self-esteem, or just wasn’t willing to commit due to other priorities. The person with the gun does not know I am around. Is not aware of anyone following them around the halls. I know they have a gun because of the thing slung inside the waistband behind them. I am just walking through the hallway behind trying to get close enough in order to possibly subdue, throw down on the ground yell some movie line and say “all in a days work”,(ya like I am that cool) It occurs to me That I am actually terrified even though I am not necessarily part of the situation. What I am really afraid of is not making a move when maybe i could of done something and saved everyone else from having to deal with this, those way more afraid than me, less likely to be able to think in the current moment and just become a victim. I inch closer and closer, I have but one feeling and then suddenly someone jumps out of the broom closet and startles me. Person says to me, “hey that guy has a gun, come in here with me.” Now to be clear I am not advocating anyone take this dream I had and base a decision on this if caught in this in a real life situation, this is just the dream and how it played out. So I am thinking that I will tackle first and get the gun, and just fight like hell to not get shot. You know, simple enough, to the point. Then again with my luck I have the gun, shoot myself in the foot and then lose the fight. It is just a bad day from then on. Ugh how embarrassing would that be to tell friends and family…nope just kill me, not dealing with that. AFTER ALL OF THAT, ladies and gents you must stop doing this to yourself, or even if you do realize you are doing it and just make a decision. Is this something you want? Is it something you have wanted to do for a long time? Just know all this is going to happen, you’re going to feel embarrassed, you may even get shot in the foot, but all of these things will not matter if you cower away and never even begin to make decisions that will lead you closer to your goals, ambitions, life’s pursuits in order to be truly happy. I am moving closer and closer to this guy with a gun, I want to be the difference, I want to take the chance, but I must realize that all these negative thoughts are me telling myself that I can’t do something. Which means I have nobody to blame but myself when making decisions about how my life will go. Death is inevitable so you might as well make some decisions in life, life is short, or is it just the right amount of time. I don’t get in the closet with the guy, I am not trying to hide. I want this fucker on the ground and I am taking his ass down hard. I sprint towards him, wrap my arms around him and then……I wake up…..I shit you not I wake up. The dream having nothing to do with the threat, having everything to do with me just making a decision. Don’t let anyone else talk you down, and certainly don’t talk yourself down. Thanks for reading.

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Comes a time when your comfort zone will have to be stepped out of. Even if it was not the intended plan. Having self confidence is extremely important in this fact that when you get the thought of “maybe this is not for me, maybe I am not good enough, maybe I should stay at my job where I am safe?” Understand the easiest time to quit in a marathon is within the first five minutes. That is when all that quit talk starts in your mind. Starts to build until about the first sweat. Then after that you’re in fuck it mode, LET’S GO!!! Now you’re in it, now you’ve pushed back against all that is saying no in you and say yes. Say yes because every part of you that wants to quit and go back to your safe space will say no. You’re the only one you should be concerned about because how you treat yourself reflects on how you treat others. Teach others by teaching yourself, not to quit, to say yes I am doing this. Don’t always worry about the coming in first part. Just do things in order to get the experience. Failing is such a trigger word for people so I’m going to bring it back. Fail in a way that puts you closer to your goals. Fail in a way that you know this is or is not the path you intend to make your life’s pursuit. When you find it, and you know it is what you were meant to do then failing becomes inevitable while you change the game itself. Then you have manifested a world all your own. Very important to fail because most are not even trying. Just spectators in life, just waiting for life to come to them. That is not a BanGov mentality. Wake up and go through the motions, and stop thinking your body is going to break. All I can say is I want to work til I die. Whatever that means, death is the only way out of life, so while I am here, I will be inevitable.

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