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Consistent Persistence

Consistent vs persistent, which one are you? I am always trying to challenge language in how we communicate towards others. Look at any Instagram influencer and they are always talking about consistency. The power of consistency, how consistency will be the inevitable change that if you choose to be consistent with your endeavors, inevitably things will change. Consistent is defined as: acting or done in the same way over time, especially so as to be fair or accurate. Personally I am more of a fan of persistence. Just as persistence is defined: continuing firmly or obstinately in a course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition. Persistence to me seems a little more my speed and as well I can relate more to persistence. Anyone who believes that society is holding them back in a certain way can use it as a way of thinking that no matter the opposition or difference someone has about your way of life. They will not only just be another obstacle, they will also just be another face in a crowd of people that are not worth your time in fighting. Opposition is defined as: resistance or dissent, expressed in action or argument. OR a group of adversaries or competitors, especially a rival political party or athletic team. Being persistent against those you disagree with,  you learn weaknesses, or even better, how to utilize their strengths against them. Don’t focus solely on those who disagree with you, focus on more those you can add to your idea and that can help you build the empire you intended. Who knows, it may be so big that they can’t help but to see your side or live the way you do without knowing it. Kind of like those who bitch about capitalism and child labor laws all while wearing Nike Shoes. Contradictions in life are funny. Persistence to me is all about creating who you are going to be in the long run. Be persistent in your battles toward what you want and battles will be things that don’t even phase you. Numb to the feeling of being challenged, all you will see is opportunity, and those who are too lazy, entitled will stop fighting you. My hope for this blog is that people would begin to challenge the lessons being taught to them. think about what has been told to you by your father, your mother, a teacher. See if in a way you could do better than those who tried to influence you while growing up. Were they just passing knowledge that didn’t work for them, or were they just full of shit. A Bangov Actual, out.

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Man Giveth

What is a man? Only one I have ever asked for an opinion is a woman. Probably because I am a man and for another man to tell me what a man is for him to give me his standard. Don’t really give a rat’s ass what a man tells me a man is supposed to be. Unless he is resembling the man I wish to become. I was asked if I could describe it in one word. Endure, endure is defined as: suffer (something painful or difficult) patiently. A man to me is only the standard by which he is able to rise and endure suffering in order to reach the top. Then again reaching the “top” is even up to interpretation. Well some men don’t care to climb, wars and a way of life is not sustained by the rich. Rich don’t have the numbers. Men willing to endure do though. Don’t care how much money you have in your pocket because when the fight is on, your enemies won’t care either. They will just want to fight, and see you fall. Not about who wants it more. It is about who notices pain and says to themselves they will not be controlled by weakness. My life will not be about how much fun I had. My life will entail how much I was willing to devote myself to an idea and see it through. Fun along the way are little in between moments when work still needs to get done. Men don’t have it all figured out, but are willing to endure in order to find out what it takes. To find the answers and don’t back down from problems. I have already stated that problems, big or small are a lie, just takes a man willing to endure in order to find a solution. He doesn’t really care, a problem is a problem, and a solution is what he sets out to find. Man can be many things. Laziness is just not an option for the future depending on those men who have created reasons to get up early in the morning and give life a meaning to keep going. Without that, we lose what we fight for, and nobody steps up to stop those trying to take our way of life. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Don’t Compete With Your Emotions

Bad Days and good days are all going to depend on how you react to them. Take 5 minutes to collect yourself. I don’t mean just decide you’re going to have a good day when you’re not really thinking that in your mind like a psychopath. I mean really just take 5 minutes, and sometimes it may not be 5, may take 30 for your mind to dissolve whatever you got going on upstairs. Just don’t let it make decisions for you. You’re in a state of mind that won’t make any sense to anyone because you’re doing it in a heightened state of emotional distress. Distress is defined as: extreme anxiety, sorrow, or pain. Pain meaning it will pass, anxiety for any of those who have felt the effects, just takes time for your body to chemically reach it’s stability again. Everything passes with time. Biggest problem people have is ignoring it out of some mistaken apathetic disregard for your feelings in order to appear invincible to human nature. Perfect, I have heard, is that which does not need anything taken away from it. As always people like to create their own interpretations on what they think a word means. Perfect is defined as: having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be. Even Perfect is something people fuck up on. When the definition is stated as desirable qualifications, who made the qualifications and why do they get to decide what Perfect is. You can see why it is so frustrating to communicate with people let alone telling yourself that your angry and you should maybe take some time to dissolve these emotions in your head till you’re more in a clear state of mind. Don’t think of it as controlling yourself. Think of it as mastering your emotions in order to be ready for your enemies. Bangov Actual, out.

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Pro Tip: Restraining Orders Don’t Work Against Psychos

Why do we stay? Why do we endure those we have told ourselves not to go back to for certain reasons. He’s too short, not ambitious enough. We don’t communicate well, she’s erratic, and doesn’t get along with my family. Even when you are convinced you have found something about someone that will end the tie, and you will be able to finally break away. As those in a relationship, no matter if the relationship ends on good or bad terms, we all remind ourselves of the consequences of not associating with people we used to. Relationship, for 10 months or 10 years that person was a part of your life and you shared aspects of your life that you hoped they would understand. Your parents met them, your friends and you invited them into your life as an addition. Not sure if anyone I have met has ever gotten into a relationship in order to push someone else away. Maybe a ploy between the both of you to show your ex you’ve moved on so they stop eyeballing you in the bar, sure I get that. Those types of rouses are fine for about as long as it takes the guy or girl to back off. Whether they do or not is another blog entirely. Restraining orders are issued and just not a fun situation. Now aside from that dark situation. Those who can’t seem to break the cycle of letting this person into your life are in my opinion trapped or unaware. It’s not someone physically holding you down, but trapped is defined as: induce (someone), by means of trickery or deception, to do something they would not otherwise want to do. This also is just 1 of 2 situations I am trying to communicate. As well I am not trying to demonize anyone here. Emotions for one another are hard to control and everyone can react differently to the same chemicals telling us we want to be with that person. I look at it from the perspective of if one is intentionally trying to trick, or play mind games in order to coerce the other into being in that relationship. I have said before everything is about salesmanship. May just have fallen for a really good salesman. Sell yourself, you can sell anything, the first rule of sales I learned. The fault of going back to that person over and over again eventually becomes yours, but no matter who’s fault it is, it is still up to you to make the decision on if you would like to continue giving this person a part of your life. You may feel trapped in the web of familiarity, god sex and promises that were made prior before the relationship becoming confusing and turned to shit. Talked to couples that have been together for 10, 20 or even 30 years. They have all gone through some shit, and may even still be dealing with things. Relationships are a constant project, but when it comes time for it to end it is important for us to realize that it ending does not mean that it is over forever. Unless he or she was a terrible person, abusive. Look at it in a way where you’re still learning about you and what you want. Ever heard the story where the guy went back to his ex-wife? Ladies right now are shaking their heads.

 

The 2nd situation I want to refer to is that of 2 people in my opinion who are just unaware. Unaware is defined as: having no knowledge of a situation or fact. So you have 2 people that are unaware of the damage they may even be doing to each other. These I communicate more towards my younger audience, or your first real relationship. Without being aware of the damage we may be doing to someone else, we are also doing it to ourselves. Someone who can only remember the pain caused by you while you keep them “on the back burner” so I have heard others explain it to me. Of course some people will need to learn the hard way, just their nature and I ADMIT IT, I am one of them. I am 30, not married, and I have not yet “found the one”, or am too “into my career” right now”, or I am “ just having fun right now.” Not that these are lies. If you are not wanting to commit to someone then DON’T. With that being said, I revert back to my point, which is through the back and forth you really take the time to think and maybe notice the damage that you may be doing to a person that you can’t let go. Not letting them experience someone new for themselves just because it may be hurtful to you. It’s called heartbreak for a reason. Hurts for both parties, just not everyone reacts the same. For those of you trapped, or unaware, treat it as a situation that you need to get out of, or even a dangerous situation, because it is YOUR LIFE. Time being wasted on someone who can’t let go. If you have to move, or even simply just stop answering their calls for a little while till you are able to give yourself some clarity. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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I Miss Friday Nights, There I Said It

You feel like you’re losing your mind. Trying to reinvent the wheel. When you’re dreaming big it is always going to be more work. Don’t compare your success, it is your own and it will never be like someone else’s. If you have the same look, hair, car, house as someone you admire, great. Just don’t compare yourself and think you are a failure if you don’t have those things then you’re doing something wrong. Also this is not me saying to be yourself bullshit. Nobody is good enough as themselves unless they are constantly trying to improve. Mommy does love you, but does want you to make something of yourself. We should all want our children. My hypothetical kids get 2 options. A ball or a book. Either they are really smart or very good at sports. It’s when the kid grabs the book and dunks like, “ya, kids not mine, wife definitely cheated.” Bahhaha calm the fuck down. If you’re offended by my hypothetical family jokes I make then please get off my site. Get’s really exhausting having to remind people of that. I created a social media for fuck sake and you want me to cater to those who can’t answer the simple question of do they like dick or vagina? Or are you confused which one is which? My favorite is pan sexual, always sounded like a kitchen orgy to me. Now as someone who does not want to judge, or provoke, because that is not the intent of Bangov, and not the intention of my blogs. I’ll offend everyone til we’re all on the same page. Can you see how that may seem stressful, or seem like a full time job keeping up with who gets offended for what. I say all are welcome, and if you have a dick, vagina, or identify as another species of animal, so be it. Those are personal thoughts I don’t particularly care to be a part of. I am more interested in your way of life and how you choose to provide for yourself, family and how you treat others in your community. I am a HUGE advocate for close communities. Community being defined as: a group of people living in the same place or having a particular characteristic in common. I’ll extend that to communities where businesses thrive off the environment around it. People that go to a bar because it has great dancing, food, wine selection. Friday nights keep businesses open. Not just bars and restaurants, but this is a part of the workforce way of blowing off steam. Of course those who work through Friday I applaud you and your commitment to the company. Even though that is something to admire about Friday nights, employers see who is putting in the extra effort and staying late to make sure shit is getting done. Health of a community depends on people being able to go out and experience the people around them. Go to a concert, see an opera, I like seeing a ballet just as much as the next guy………just me? OK fine, we all have our different flavors in life. Next bar room brawl, invite me, and next nutcracker or romeo and Juliet that is in town we’ll go and If I see you cry drinks are on you. Bangov Is a push back on government overreach in order to stimulate economic growth through entrepreneurial means. No race, creed, gender, or sexual orientation required. You just need to have a desire to better yourself and be open to conversation because I guarantee you those who disagree with one another can still learn and benefit from one another. Talk reinventing the wheel. The problem for me was that it was broken so long ago that nobody knew where to start. So I am starting with each person individually. Just up to each of you to want to welcome Bangov as a part of your community. Nice because I don’t have to go anywhere. You come to me. So Welcome.  Bangov is Community, Bangov Actual, out.

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Teachers Know About As Much As You

Money will never be enough. With more money you will want more things. Turn that part off in your brain and you will do more with less. Doing more with less will eventually turn your money into purpose instead of looking at money as more than others can handle. Money is just a tool, but just as any other tool, a rifle, or a pen that others take for granted or do not see a specific use. In your hands people will no longer look at money the same when it comes from you. Your job is to inspire others to see money differently than what they have been taught. Everyone has been taught wrong. The many  of our public school system. They will teach everything that is meant to keep you compliant, and yet nothing that stimulates a different perspective. No matter, teachers don’t care enough to even care for their numbers. They also get to justify if the assignment was done to the liking based on their political affiliations. So the education of money is never discussed, especially for a teacher who makes less than some of the kids they are teaching. Kids blogging, or playing video games on YouTube and this “math teacher is going to tell me how to survive in the real world. I am convinced each generation finds a better way than the last. What kills me and I QUOTE, “these kids just have no respect for their elders”, AND WHY SHOULD THEY!!! Seeing their parents struggle, they will do anything to fight it and stray away from the shit life you so want to sell to them. As an advocate of hard work I can’t hate your parents for being tough, or at least wanting to beat your ass when you get out of line. They are convinced if you don’t do things exactly as they do it then you will have a harder time than they did. They think the hard work they have put into the same job for 30 years is the way to be because that is what their parents taught them. Also that generation was more scared than the last. Old school teaching, smack a kid upside the head type days. I miss them too, the ass whooping I got I will cherish till the end of time. Everything has it’s trade offs though. Of course softer parents are having rich kids who kill themselves because they have never dealt with the harshness of life before. Don’t know how to handle life without a pursuit. They think, “well I’m rich, nothing else to live for.” Those who have had it from rough parents just want to work themselves to the bone. Respectful, but have forgotten how to dream. They are beaten into a compliance that they got from their parents. When I say money will never be enough, I mean give me a billion dollars tomorrow, I will learn to make 2 billion with it. Lifelong pursuits give your life meaning and everything else around it will become your identity. Close your eyes and shut everything out. Then open them and set your feet on that drag strip and go 100 miles an hour chasing something that nobody can give you. Not your parents and absolutely not your teachers. Not saying they can’t help you along the way, but teachers must be utilized, not relied on. Focus on the pursuit, and dream big because literally it will be your life’s work. UNLESS MULTIPLE PURSUITS IS YOUR GAME. I can respect that, I am too scatterbrained to just do one thing. Find one and if others catch your eye then, just more fun and learning experiences. Do what you love. Bangov Actual, out.

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Fat Kids Who Are Angry…Admit it, You Laughed

Everything is about salesmanship. Look at the entirety of your day and all day. From billboards to television sets. People are on their phones all day. Spam calls all day long. Yes you’re not the only one, we all get them and yes I cuss them out too. If that seems rude, then so be it. “They have a job to do.” Don’t care, waste my time, I get mean. As well knowing I am not interested and then call back with a different number, fuck off, go die. We are constantly reminded of things that are available to us just in case we are in the mood to purchase. Through emotional appeal, sexual desire, constantly we are analyzed as a flock of sheep, how is the weakest of the bunch brought down. Or for the high rollers, how is it we are cornered into believing what is being presented is needed. Set up a booth with brownies and gun stuff, you will see me crying in front for spending money I do not have while my ass continues to get fatter. What is crazy is we have seen all of these things before. We have seen a thousand commercials for different things we like. How many state farm, liberty mutual, snickers, Gatorade, iPhone, and herbal essence commercial does it take before the subliminal messages take affect and you’re thinking, I’m hungry, I’m thirsty, I need a new phone, I stink or am I covered for any accident? Warren Buffet said, “ If you can’t control your emotions, you can’t control your money.” So what about control does it mean, to you to not spend money? Does it mean being a dictator about your money? When your kid asks for a toy, do you say no, or do you give into those little eyes and think, daww I can never say no to you. Or are you like ya, fuck that, you’ll get tired of it in a week. Being honest about your purchases all will depend on the individual. If you see value in what you purchase then you will instantly buy it. Haha I have heard people tell me video games is a cheap hobby to save money. It is 300-500 dollars worth of shit that hinders communication skills and is a world of meaningless pursuits. I beat the game, GREAT, and haven’t been on a date in 6 months. You may have money saved, but nothing to invest in. Also that job you have been dreaming about from NASA that you have never applied for, good luck with that. Ya, i know all you keyboard whores are just getting amped up, but I’m not finished. I love it when I see a married man, who has no handy man skills is bested by the bartender fucking his wife. Has only happened a few times in my experience. Of course I am not saying video games are bad. I have seen PLENTY of hotties with naughty bodies on the gamer feeds. Your emotions do not just come from what money you are saving. It also has to do with not having a physical attraction to those benjamins you may have in your pocket. Keep as many as you can, but just know they are losing worth as long as they are in your possession. People are usually unaware of how money moves or even the speed of it moving around them. In 24 hours, a dollar you may have invested can be anywhere from a penny to 1000 dollars by the time you wake up. Unless you’re in the financial world. Stocks crypto currency, accounting, you may have an idea of how money is to be thought of as multiplication instead of addition in order for the world around you to seem less crazy than it is. I know it can get hectic once in a while, but understand that everyone in this life is just trying to get a piece of the pie. Not everyone is gonna be Jeff Bezos, or Elon Musk, but those who want it can be anything they want to be, or even just the best version of themselves. Know that money may seem as if it is being lost when you’re not getting instant gratification. When you go to eat, and spend 20 dollars on a sandwich, as well I like to eat so 20 is an average for me when going out. I got 2 meals. Your gratification from food, or chocolate, or a movie you spend is not the same when you will invest in a business, or something you may not get back for years until it is up and running and others see the value in it. So spending money when you don’t get anything in return right away, you will start to feel like a fat kid who hasn’t got his cake. Blood will boil, vein popping out of the forehead. I am here to tell you it is O…K. continue to work towards your goal. Money is inevitable if you have not read that blog already. Work, work, work. Don’t let the pressure get to you, and get that fucking pie. Bangov Actual, out.

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