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We can only hope for the best of people. Yet we make laws out the ass telling us what to do based on the interpretations of others and how they see the world fit to be run. If only we had laws against drunk driving…oh wait, what about just speeding?…oh wait…OK but if only we had laws that would prevent us from being victims of theft, murder or even property rights violations…oh wait… false senses of security are all around you and have created this bubble of a safe space you call your world, or oyster, which simply put is: you are in a position to take the opportunities that life has to offer. Well no fucking shit, and I don’t care if you come from a poor background. The oppression’s you may be facing are just as easily harmful to your way of life as those who give into false senses of security. It’s all an illusion that this is what your life will be 100% or should be all the time. When you least expect it everything you’ve come to expect from society is shattered, and maybe now you begin to see the fabrication that has been your blindside. Transitional spaces are the most dangerous positions you put yourself in. From going to your car to work, and then back again. That is when criminals will attack. Your focus is you getting to your car or even getting to where the vehicle will take you. It is not in the safety of you getting to your vehicle. In transition, be aware of the things going on around you. You may miss something very important, something that could save your life. In my opinion looking both ways is not just about when crossing the street.

Be wary of those who act irrationally when their way of life is challenged. We’ve all seen the “triggered” or the “offended” bunch. Understand that reactions like this are not specific to any political group. It is solely based on the individual and how they react to each situation, or phrasing of a question or comment. Republicans, democrats are all in fear of intrusions into their way of life. Think of school children, and when standards of a classroom, or rules are enforced, or at least teachers try to, rebellion is inevitable.

Rebellious acts of paper airplanes, spit wads, and even the occasional outburst of anger in a classroom when a child deems a teacher is too weak and full of shit talking about how they may need this in the future. Well not much has changed since grade school. We all stare at our bosses, sizing them up and seeing if they are fit to lead. Instead of spit wads and paper airplanes, it’s a relaxed dress code and 15 smoke breaks a day. Rebellion is defined as: an act of violent or open resistance to an established government or ruler. OR : the action or process of resisting authority, control, or convention. Doesn’t have to be of government authority, but it is very simple that when someone’s way of life is inconvenienced by another or even imposed on, don’t care which side you’re on. I’ve seen both sides become erratic, violent, and emotionally “triggered.” I can only hope to surround myself with people who against even extreme stresses are able and willing to have a conversation in order to break through emotional barriers and speak as if they wanted a solution, not just wanted their way. As I have said in my previous blogs, when 2 opposing forces have their ways of life, and can no longer come to an understanding or resolution, then the only other alternative is war.

To avoid this you must verbalize what you want, whether it be against an opposing force, or even with your significant other. If the other is not OK with your way of life and is not willing to allow it to continue, then war is inevitable. War is defined as: a state of armed conflict between different nations or states or different groups within a nation or state. OR a state of competition, conflict, or hostility between different people or groups. The definition less heard about war is: a sustained effort to deal with or end a particular unpleasant or undesirable situation or condition. As individuals I can only hope that we all can sustain the fight within ourselves, to better ourselves, treat others with respect, and fight our own “triggers” with a simple conversation. Bangov Actual, out.

Think of working your 9 to 5. Now think of asking for a raise. Think of asking for that job that is one step above. If you’re afraid, just know you’re lying to yourself. You’re actually excited. Fear is defined as: an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or threat. Of course I’m hoping nobody puts themselves at unnecessary risk, but I am saying to be able to distinguish different circumstances where fear and excitement can be misinterpreted. Excitement is defined as: something that arouses enthusiasm and eagerness; an exciting incident. With each incident occurring, or with each thought of how you intend to encourage growth or better your life you will run into these 2 emotions. As I like to play a red light, green light game. Red light if I’m doing something of unnecessary risk, like walking down a dark alley at night. If I am thinking of a career change and am worried of judgement or embarrassment for failing. That’s my green light, you will always have a negative side to anything you are excited to start. The journey of self improvement can only be forged by taking these necessary risks. What I find poetic. A Lilly among the thorns, dove among the Crows, is that risk is defined as: The possibility of suffering harm or loss; danger, BUT a synonym of risk is prospect. Prospect is defined as: the possibility or likelihood of some future event occurring. That being said, I tend to look at fear, risk, excitement as just emotions leading up to what will make you genuinely happy. Life is very dull without emotion. Without emotion it feels like an assembly line till the end of days. No escape, nothing to look forward to. So learn that your emotions, especially fear and excitement, are there to protect you from the laziness you may feel and give into while you watch the years of your life pass you by. Bangov Actual, out.

Choosing to be someone of a stressful presence is all on you. Cuss and scream all you want. You may even have people do what you wish out of fear. My question is, how does it work for something built to be long lasting? The foundation of those who want to work. Those who like coming to work. Also not saying you can’t push people to get the best out of them, but the relationships between employee and employer are that of an understanding through conversation or written word. Can’t tell you how many people have given me the decency speech. That they know the measure of a decent human being and what they should be getting from the employer. No conversation to be had, nothing in writing, no communication, just entitlement through frustration of the quality of the work environment. Water cooler is not cold enough (I Shit You Not) unfair pay, job security, no opportunity for advancement, incompetent managers. I love that one because I’ve never seen that person step up to try and be in a position of authority, they just like to bitch, moan and complain. ” Shut up Helen!” I can’t tell people how to run their businesses, or even treat their employees, but showing them they are the reason for your success, may just make them realize you rely on them, not the other way around. So what from an employer’s perspective do we need to understand. Don’t really care from an employee perspective because as an employee you have the freedom to move around and leave the job as you please. Also try playing the what if game with me as well. Saying I rely on this job to feed my family, THAT IS YOUR ISSUE,  this is Bangov, we don’t cater to those who’s only excuse is that they don’t have another stream of income. That is your choice to live that reality. You have options, you just are not looking for them and those who don’t do what it takes to make things work will suffer the most. No fault of anyone else, even though they may blame others. Your employer has taken out the loan, or risk in order to follow his pursuit. In that pursuit you have been given a job, you’re trusted with doing a job for an amount of pay. Ask all the questions you would like during the interview, opportunity for growth, turnover rate for the position, why did the last person leave, special skills that help aid in success. Ask them and then you will know if you’re cut out for the position. Most go after a 15% raise and they may suck at the job, no leadership or skills pertaining to the required field. You’re fat and lazy but you’re thinking more money will motivate you 6 months from now, IT WILL NOT. For employers, do what you can to make your employees comfortable, WITHOUT losing profits, you don’t need a safe space room, but maybe just things that keep them working longer. If they want to listen to music, let them. As long as it is not a distraction to the rest, your obligations are your own and employees who don’t feel a constant pressure of wrongdoing tend to stick around longer. Bangov Actual, out.

Men who change their genders in order to compete with women. I’ve seen this movie before, I just didn’t think a man would get satisfaction out of competing against women in physical endurance. So what do we learn from this? Women are obviously upset, it’s an all girls club that some dude decided he couldn’t measure up to the all boys club. So he switched sides and now is dominating the competition. Everyone wants to be a winner, they just want to be some form of it. Are we supposed to say congratulations? Give this guy a high five for a job well done? I guess giving in to this person’s delusion is the way that people choose to go to avoid ridicule or to avoid being called a name that isn’t really what it means by people who don’t know what it means. Reporters ask how he feels when he is destroying his competition. Can we assume he felt like he was going to win? So what does it mean to know you’re going to win? Even if under unfair circumstances? Like you know you can lift more, or swim faster than anyone on the line, so is this just people catering to those who need this win in their life to feel some sort of relevance. We have all seen those movies where an athlete has been working since grade school on his swing, jump shot or foot positioning. Years of dedication shattered in the blink of an eye to a broken leg, neck or death of a family member that the very fabric of life could return things to what they once were. Not sure if that is what happened to those that were compelled to join the women’s league in order to fill the void that they made it. Even if they have to lie to themselves and everyone else they will stir up their own reality and tell everyone else they are crazy. I guess it’s “brave?” I’ve had some time to think of solutions. Only thing I can think of is having “bouncers.” Just calling them that for this blog sake. We can change it up, but to think if these guys can’t compete at the guys league then why don’t we just have more guys compete to beat them out. Then as the men beat out all those who are posers then they just lose to the women until women are all that is left. Full proof system or not, I haven’t heard back from the Olympics association, but I’m expecting a call back anytime now. I’m not a fan of doing whatever it takes to win if it means that you’re not really winning. Seems like just a waste of time on a pursuit you were never meant to achieve. Bangov Actual, out.

You ask someone their opinion about something, they say it sucked. Probably don’t ask that person about it. Ask someone with a more positive outlook on how they have had a good experience with what you may want to pursue. Can’t tell you how many people have told me that I should be investing in something that has no knowledge on the subject whatsoever. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Entitled is defined as: believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment. Not sure who is giving out these entitlements but just as a flooded market, quality tends to suffer. Too many opinions on what someone else thinks about something can just be a way to talk yourself out of something you might really enjoy doing. Some things in life you can’t ask anyone’s opinion on, you just have to go do it for yourself. You may enjoy it, you may hate it. At least you have your own experience to go off of so nobody can tell you what you already know. For others to feel entitled is the “belief” that their opinion matters. They may have been told about something to invest in. They may have heard a friend talk about it. They may have even watched the news and heard it, now they become experts in the field of something they have never done. With a sense of entitlement, it never really stops at just your opinion. Entitlement feeds into other aspects of people. Arrogance, low self esteem, lack of ambition. People can talk for days about how they feel about a situation, but when the bullshit runs out, you’ll be able to see people for how full of shit they really are when they are not where you want to be. Everyone is entitled, so be careful. Bangov Actual, out.

Bangov is the long term investment that we all crave. It is what keeps you up at night, and keeps you in a staring contest with the wall and asking where do I go next. Bangov is my bangov, obviously.  It was created will the soul purpose of inspiring others to find their individual pursuit, life’s ambition. Could be multiple ambitions at once, no rules on how many you can have. The goal is to be in search of something that you push away other things in order to make what you have dreamt a reality. Can be a fancy car, big house, or a beat up truck out in the woods with a house and shit ton of land. Whatever your vision is for your life, grab every detail you can and do whatever is necessary to bring it to fruition. Fruition is defined as: the point at which a plan or project is realized. So when that plan or project has come into focus, you a lot a majority of your time putting things into motion. I can’t tell you what that is, I wish I was able to know what everyone’s life pursuit is, but this is based on the pursuit of the individual. You will tend to feel your regular activities slip away,you may not go out drinking anymore. Sex may seem dismal….ok sex is still great, I can’t lie about that, its sex. Partying will seem like a waste of time, a time killer for those who are still searching for what they wish to do. I will continue to write these blogs until my focus is elsewhere. I hope to write them for a long time to hear others’ success stories. Just takes time, and if you’re not wanting to do it for the rest of your life then you haven’t dreamt big enough. Plan out your life according to your dreams. Bangov Actual, out.

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