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Duty Sucks

I’m convinced that boys need a male role model, but probably not in the way that you think. For all my military folk, think of it as not being relieved from duty for your entire career in the military. You are stuck on post for 18-20 years. Now think of that in regards to a child where you are the protector of mom, and no man ever comes to relieve you of your duties. You’re on a constant watch. Which may sound more familiar to moms is that when dad is not home, boys are more rowdy, more in the mindset of conditioning in order to prepare for when they must be physical in a defensive altercation. Until dad comes home it’s fight, play, run jump, trampoline or play with swords and guns. Now to think of what men do when they see a boy, they may even do the same in order to test his strength and worthiness to protect the castle. You can learn a lot from a 6 year old when you pay attention. I encourage any man entering a household with growing boys to be cautious. You may just be entering a nerf war, the floor is lava, or may have to fight to the death so that the princess can be rescued from the top of the castle. Be aware the princess can be a hamster or a 2 year old pup with a ribbon tied around the neck. I don’t want to say more than ever that we need little boys to have strong male role models in the household because it has always been a necessity for future generations to have a role model to emulate. Now to think of this in a business sense, always remember problems are never big or small. Just as our successes can be perceived as big or small, it was the intended goal that made us fall short. For example for those who want to be billionaires, and make only millions. Money should never be the goal, not that I will ever say you cannot wish for that but things in life that are to be wished for IN MY OPINION are those of importance like preparing our youth for the inevitable battles they may face in order to preserve their way of life. These skills of dealing with another male, whether they know them or not, will be life lessons they will carry with them till they know what it is to be in charge of their own lives. They will know the strength, courage, and more importantly the sacrifice necessary in order to sustain and provide for a family of their own. Just as my father had taught me not with words, but with actions. As long as you are present in their lives then the impact is just as important if they were not there for you. You learn from each other. A man learns how to teach the son, the son learns through rebellious acts how to do exactly as the father did to his father in order to prove he is worthy of his own way of life away from the protection from the man that has shown him one of the great joys of life of being a role model/teacher to another. Role model is defined as: a person looked to by others as an example to be imitated. To my younger readers, we cannot always choose our fathers. I have met plenty of children to where fathers are nowhere to be found, I have also met fathers that I wish never reproduced. Be mindful of who you imitate in this world. Those who think you don’t have a choice, just remember that you can always see the man you don’t wish to become. Then spend the rest of your life saying you will be better. Commit to it, and make it part of your life’s pursuit. Bangov Actual, out.

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The Transition

Confidence, ladies, a woman with Confidence has a man by something even more precious to him than his balls. Confidence is defined as: feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities. Or the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust. My question to you is why would you trust someone even more than yourself? Well by definition is someone who has a particular ability such as greater size, strength, or ability to defend. Then ladies, historically men have been viewed as the protectors of the castle, man of the house, Papa bear, take your pick. This is only one example of course. For men or women who have a particular skill set that you don’t have, you are forced to have confidence in those you hire to fix problems, that in which you do not possess the skill to do so. Could be a plumber, electrician, cosmetologist, whatever that you have not put effort into in order to become proficient in. Ladies It has recently been brought to my attention that some women lose confidence in themselves as they age. Which to me seems like a step backward. What is it that makes a woman, particularly one that has had children, become a success in her field of study or career, or even been able to keep her sanity through harsh times of family turmoil or trauma. Can we all agree that families go through harsh times. So no need for specifics, but when a woman says to me with age, confidence begins to dwindle. What does it mean when a child is in the developing stages of confidence, generally preschool where children are exposed to who can run faster, jump higher or even read at a higher level. What I have also learned is that throughout age, generally the older you get, the less confidence you have. Generally 50’s and 60’s shows a lack of self esteem. So IN MY OPINION, What I advise for both men and women is for you to look at the evidence throughout your life and see yourself for what you are and what you have done, rather than pick an afternoon to tell yourself that you are worthless than what the evidence shows. If by your 50’s and 60’s you have accomplished little to nothing, which is highly doubtful to a large majority of the population to never have had at least one accomplishment, then so be it you’re a loser. Those of you who know and are still trying to lie to yourself and say that you haven’t accomplished anything then you know deep down that is not true. Again the evidence may not lay all your doubts to rest, but at least you will know deep down that they are only doubts. Doubts will be with you till the end of time. The only way to subside them for the duration of your life is to develop a pursuit. That pursuit keeps people sharp as well as distracted by what they are incapable of doing. They only focus on the positive because they enjoy what they are doing. Self-esteem is defined as: confidence in one’s own worth or abilities; self-respect. So to circle back to confidence being about appreciation of abilities or qualities, I vote that we all transition to self respect, which is defined as: pride and confidence in oneself; a feeling that one is behaving with honor and dignity. This being a more concrete approach to one’s self development, I am in favor of us moving from what we try and teach our children, which is self-esteem, and transition as adults, to self-respect and let confidence be the byproduct of that. Above all, change how you define yourself and you will be ever evolving in this world of motion. Bangov Actual, out.

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Even A Vasectomy Is Only 99.9% Effective

Nothing is 100% until it is. Don’t be waiting at the finish line and turn around to see if anyone has caught up with you. Take your Victory lap the same speed to make sure nobody ever catches you. All in an instant the gold can be taken from you because you were worried about someone other than yourself. Doesn’t matter if someone has caught up with you or not. You know how much you have trained for a run and when you have come to the finish line if you have out worked everyone else. Also life does not end when you get the medal. You’re in a constant state of motion because you must be in motion to get anywhere in life. Don’t care if it is across the world or across the street. Especially when trying to communicate what you want in life, don’t half ass your efforts or else you’ll never reach even 50% of your goals. Tell yourself you’re going to clean your house today. Same logic applies for you to invest that time in yourself. You go through the motions in order to get trivial tasks done, trivial is defined as: of little value or importance. So why not make the decision to find 3 important things in life to put into the same motion. Just like going to clean your house. Start somewhere. Doesn’t matter where, just get in motion and see what gets accomplished throughout the day. Try starting with the most daunting task, laundry. Or warm yourself up, get into the rhythm and you will do it while not even realizing it is work. Nothing is 100% so Start at 10% and just make sure 100% is on your mind. It’s all in your mind, effort cannot be measured, so start somewhere and find your own rhythm. Rhythm is defined as: a strong, regular, repeated pattern of movement or sound. Start with something you know how to do, then transfer that energy to something unknown and learn as you go. Also do it everyday, don’t care what it is, results will vary so just do what you enjoy. Giving something 100% is not a day one thing. Building your empire is your life’s pursuit of self sacrifice. Bangov Actual, out.

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Make Sure You Do It Everyday

When I think of how things are “supposed to be.” Is it because they are better, or is it just because they are how they are? Tradition is so ingrained into our daily life it is hard to sometimes escape the reality that we are even in such traditions. Make your bed, eat , drink, sleep. Not saying some things don’t work well. Also some things should be the same, if it isn’t broken then don’t fix it. When it comes to your happiness, and way of life then it should be up to you on how you’re choosing to implement new traditions. If you’re not religious, then see how life would be different with changes made to your daily routines. Would you celebrate holidays? If you are religious but your family didn’t raise you that way then again, make the necessary changes in order to feel more fulfilled in what you want to accomplish. Doesn’t always have to be money driven. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually, how healthy of a lifestyle that you must want if you come from a family that is overweight. Paying attention to your surroundings is all it takes to decide what you do and do not want. If you don’t want to grow up like your parents, then do all that is necessary in order to change the path they have laid out for you. If you’re fat then look at that evidence in front of you that is leading you down the wrong way to an inevitable lifestyle. I am very tired of the traditional way and want something different for my life. I will do whatever is necessary in order for my life to mimic what is in my mind. For my dreams are the only road I wish to walk. Bangov Actual, out.

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You Are Your Only Hope

People have asked what Bangov is about, as always I tell them it is a push back on government overreach in order to stimulate economic growth through entrepreneurial means. Then they ask what is the difference between your agenda and the governments. Of course it is always labeled as the anarchist group. Nope, I have already explained that it is not about that. A better way to describe it is when they have asked what is your “agenda.” Now “agenda” is defined as: a list of items to be discussed at a formal meeting. Or the underlying intentions or motives of a particular person or group. My ” agenda” is simple. For the government to be irrelevant in people’s decision making in order to better their lives. Government holds no solution for you. It has its place in society and should be utilized as a necessity, not as a solution for complex societal problems. The biggest difference is that government has never implemented any sort of action as a solution for any problem that does not mean death or power. Nazis were a problem, send millions to fight and kill. Yet the “drug war” is to this day a laughing stock of an effort for the government to implement some sort or false sense of security that it has any control over what is going on. I could buy Marijuana from a 5th grader when I was going to school. Government does not have control over anything except you as an individual thinking that they are in your way of making a better life for yourself. Don’t worry, they will not come and get you for becoming something better than you are. Of course they want their taxes, because for some reason they can tax anything and it be “legal.” Ban government from your mind as a solution, the more you press on government to be the solution, the more you just take away choice from others. Arbitrary is defined as: based on random choice or personal whim, rather than any reason or system. Arbitrary laws are only a means that you think you get what you want, then others have to figure ways around those laws. We only restrict ourselves when looking to the government for solutions. They don’t have solutions and as I have stated before, government is defined as: the action or manner of controlling or regulating a nation, organization, or people. Or the system by which a nation, state, or community is governed. Or the group of people in office at a particular time; administration. Nowhere in the definition of government is it for the good of the people. Control is the agenda. Bangov is the pursuit of the individual. You decide to rely on the government, or yourselves. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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But Do You Really?

When to say “I love you.” This is a tricky one for most, and also for most we go off a feeling, a vibe that it has been a while. What is worse is some will even go off the pressure that they have been dating for 6 months and they think they have to say it or the relationship is over. Don’t be that person. Think to yourself, why? Why would I say I love this person? Have you asked yourself enough questions about it? Or are you just saying it to say, “eh fuck it?” According to a 6000 person study done by okcupid, 62% of people think “I love you” should be when it is felt, 22% after several months and 3% are on the after a year train. Generally most of over 30 it is 6-9 months and under 25 it is like 20 min, or as soon as she touches your wee wee or hoo ha. So everyone has their timeline or specific moment of realization. So what do we do? Do we look at love as a series of longevity. If you both stick around for a year then you get to say it to each other. Or is it 6 months that when we see that person do something nice for you in the kitchen and then it just comes out? As always I like to let others decide their intended path of discovery for nobody should be in control of your experiences and/or intended choices you make except you. “I love you” is very powerful, and can be used for great intentions, or very bad ones just like all other forms of communication. When you say hello, even that can be in either an aggressive or friendly manner. So don’t think “I love you” is any different from being able to communicate how you feel about someone. IN MY OPINION, do not focus so much on the words as they are words that can be thrown out just like saying hello. It is the specific intent behind them that needs more focus. Try not saying it. Try being the person who does whatever is possible in order to show that special someone that you are devoted to them. Countless efforts on your part through the time you spend together. Whether it be 6 months or 6 years, the time and effort you put into it, you will have “I love you” bursting out of your chest and you will want to sing it from the hills of Narnia. So just be patient and focus on the work that goes into saying “I love you.” When it comes time -to say it, it will not only feel right, but evidence will make it undeniable. Undeniable is defined as: unable to be denied or disputed. Bangov Actual, out.

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Dream Between The Lines

It is said that battles can be won from different angles. I have mentioned this before in previous blogs. Obscurity is defined as: the state of being unknown, inconspicuous, or unimportant. Or the quality of being difficult to understand. As individuals we need to come to terms with what we can and cannot control. Think of anyone who has created a business from nothing. They did not know what the outcome was going to be. They did not know how they even got to where they are now. They know what steps they took, but in the end they just trusted that EVERYTHING WOULD WORK OUT FOR THE BEST. These are people who above anything else that may have gotten in their way, they just made sure to not quit. They had a vision in their head and it became their identity. Ignored all who said no, and money became no object for them to be successful. Everyone I have come into contact with that is afraid of starting a business will always bitch about the upfront cost. Most people are only interested in a zero upfront cost. Which of course I wish I could have started Bangov with zero money down, BUT I just wasn’t aware of the resources that may have helped me. I just had capital at the time that I had worked for doing all the jobs that were about ripped jeans, dirt in my face and constant soreness. I will admit every once in a while I miss it. I miss the beating sun, soreness everyday. At work all day, and the people I worked with in a blue collar setting are definitely my favorite type of people and environment to be in. To be honest, to be with any group of people that can tell a joke is fun. While in your world now, you’re eager to start something that you didn’t know may have been hovering above your head the whole time. This is why I tell people to be in constant motion. Not saying you have to be going 100 mph the whole time because then you may miss something for you to invest your time in. Invest is defined as: expend money with the expectation of achieving a profit or material result by putting it into financial plans, shares, or property, or by using it to develop a commercial venture. Or devote (one’s time, effort, or energy) to a particular undertaking with the expectation of a worthwhile result. The importance of what you spend your time on has to do with doing things that are of interest to you and surrounding yourself with people who know more than you about it. This is for all you artistic people out there whose motivation is not of money, but of pure intentions to create something that makes people think, or feel different. How the beholder chooses to interpret whatever art you have created will be how they interpret you as the artist. Don’t be worried about sending the right message. Everything is up to others interpretation. That you cannot control, but you can trust to make their own decisions and you must do the same. Don’t try and understand everything about what you’re trying to create. You’re just throwing paint on a canvas until you see something you want to create. You may mess up, just get another canvas and trust in your ability to read between the lines that you created. Things being difficult to understand is half the fun. So go and create some confusion for yourself and the end result may be something that you didn’t even know you had. Bangov Actual, out.

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