Tag: self help skills

I am a true believer that everyone has a talent. Your talent is your world. It is what people will see you as. Whether it is lying, rolling a joint, salsa dancing, or making up stories to the cops to get out of a ticket. Focusing on one talent in order to capitalize on it is what I would suggest for you. Take hold of something and know it is what you were meant to do. Only have this life to live so make it fun, or make it something you can make fun out of. By competition, or to change the industry. Create a world for yourself that is all your own. We are all looking for new inspiration. Some of us need to realize that others may be looking to you for the inspiration. Don’t think about what is on your mind, you’ll just go crazy because something is not coming to you. Open your eyes, use the world around you in order to give you a high def picture of what you want. Write it down, draw it, I suck at drawing so that is not an option. The extremes you go to may just get you out of your own head and help you create yourself anew. Bangov Actual out…

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You’re going to hit a wall. It will get ugly and this is going to be one of those lonely times I warned you about because it is going to be up to you to pull through. You have to search for the solution all on your own. Nobody will be able to help you in a way that you think. Ask for different perspectives, but know it will only come from you and how you proceed. Continue on with your vision or close up shop forever. What I am here to tell you about that dark time is that you do have a little time. Maybe a day, maybe a week, but stop thinking that everything has to be done, or solved in an instant. As well that kind of struggle ruins creativity, so be loose, take a deep breath and keep in mind things do have a way of coming together even though deadlines may seem tight or all odds are against. I can’t do this, I am not the right person for this. Maybe I should stop now, will always be in your head and you can’t listen to the voice when you want to quit. Train yourself to win…Bangov Actual out.

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The day to day will tend to make you feel numb. It will be hard, it will not feel like the “dream” you have established in your head. That is because you haven’t put in the ground work yet. You have to build the bridge in order to get to the other side. You want to establish your foundation first before you set foot in a house with a roof. That shit will fall on top of you so take your time building. Oiling your machines, ordering materials, writing down your thoughts. Do it right, and build it to last. That is your empire and you want it to last a few lifetimes so use the day to day in order to define yourself and what you’re doing. As well remember only you can make this time a negative. So be positive in your experience, be purposeful in what you are trying to create for yourself. Don’t care if it is a lemonade stand and you’re building it with your kids. Teach them how to scale, and grow a business. Take this time to grow with what you have created. For you top think bigger you must be able to put forth the effort in creating skyscrapers in your mind. You are the architect of your own world that you want to build so create, create, create. Dig, Dig, Dig, deep inside and do not be afraid to be vulnerable about what is going on inside. Put it out there for the world to see, Bangov Actual, out

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Alcohol will not save you this time. You will have to work. Have a drink to celebrate, no to overcome. When it kicks in that you are feeling alone and that all you want is someone to save you from continuously going on this road when no light is at the end of the tunnel. That is what it means to believe in yourself. Eyes play tricks on us all the time, so sometimes you’ll just have to shut your eyes and walk. Bangov Actual, out.

Money is an endless pursuit. Not that I need it all the time. Sometimes I just want to sit with my dog and have a beer on the porch. I mean, I did have to buy my dog, beer, and porch that I newly refinished. See what I am getting at here? I am here to tell you it is OK that you want certain things. You want expensive things. You want cheap things, in the grand scheme of things wanting at all can be a very invigorating feeling. Be aware that you want something. I mean I really want a Gunwerks HAMR 2.0 chambered in 375 Cheytac. All for the low price of $14,000. I have expensive taste yes, but the difference is I don’t ask daddy or a sugar momma to buy it for me. I will continually seek a way in order to pay for this gun and all the ammunition I want through products or services I may provide for someone else in return for any form of currency. Unless greed is used to hurt others, I encourage everyone to have a higher standard of life. Have a higher standard in all aspects of your life. This may not be your ambition. Think of a vehicle, home, watch, shoes or trip you want and fight like hell to get it. The object itself may not be important but the will and determination that you build in my opinion is worth more than what you will pay for a ROLEX or BENTLY you want. Blows my mind that people who have the means to buy expensive things still care about how they are going to be judged by their surroundings. IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THEY THINK! Don’t let other define how you spend your money. I want everyone READING THIS to try this social experiment. When you say you want something, when you say you’re going to make a purchase, listen to what they say. Body position, how they look at you. Just tell them you want the most expensive thing. Tell them money is not the issue. Small things, not like a castle, just for the experiment. If you want the castle then go for it, but just for this realize what everyone around you is doing. They will do the same thing, look at you funny, will feel like judgement, tell you don’t do it, tell you it is too much. I am telling you buy the most expensive thing that you are willing to work for. You want that $300 dollar watch, fuck ya go get it. I am on your side with the things you want because I know that when you make the purchase you will not starve because you just showed me that you are not afraid of wealth. You are willing to work and willing to overcome whatever obstacle necessary. Bangov Actual Out!

Gentleman I am under the impression that their is an epidemic of bad sex going on. Only by what women have told me I cannot speak for every man, but this being said what I have been hearing is mainly the one pump chumps, and the quickie crew are all it has amounted to. This is not me writing this one this is woman telling me what is going on. We will get to romance in a bit. Let’s just go into the new year with a state of mind that we will do better. This is not a feminist rant either so don’t even try that shit with me. Starting to explore a sexual nuance is no easy task. Just as everything else, it will take a little time, little effort on our parts, but we can do better. This may be due to the Covid-19(oh no I have to get to know my partner) type people but sex toy sales are on the rise. Whether those toys are only for one party or used in a partnership that is anyone’s guess, but the effort that you put into this part of your life does matter in how you attack anything else. Sexual frustration can very much be a part of stress that hinders your creativity. Women telling me they have never had an orgasm in 5 years of marriage…ya…missionary only couples, or just no effort or emotion into it anymore. These kinds of things can be a strain on anyone, especially those trying to be innovative or encouraging in entrepreneurial pursuits. So for the love of whatever God you pray to, communicate with your partner on what it is that they desire and both of you I am sure can come to some kind of conclusion on what needs to happen in the bedroom. Bangov is the pursuit of the individual and I want for all of you to get the most out of all aspects of life.

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So let us say we are 2 different people. How we perceive others and how we would like to be perceived. I am perfectly fine staying in on a Sunday watching TV, eating a few bowls of cereal, while mindlessly scrolling through Instagram for a laugh or 2. I don’t because I have to run every morning with my dog because she is a spaz ball of energy. After the exertion I feel the need to be productive. So I am essentially 2 people. Before the run I am a piece of shit on the couch. Then after the run I am bed made, clean clothes, ready for business type and on the computer or running errands. I think it is important for us to be able to distinguish ourselves and really set a parameter for what gets us going in the morning. For some it is coffee. I have met women who you have to hand a cup of coffee to with a 10 foot pole so you wouldn’t have your arm ripped off if you woke her up too early and she didn’t have coffee in sight. Or just the silent zombie meandering from one room to the other until the first cup has been processed in the stomach. So what is your switch? Is it exercise?  Is it coffee, shower, sex, slap your partners ass in the morning, yoga, jerk off, or the classic scream in a pillow? Whatever gets you to start your day, or if you don’t have one then find something that really gets you ready to take on every morning. These kinds of things are just as important as knowing things about yourself. Favorite food, color, shape, sex position, but that is another blog as well. Just know to have a morning of your own is very powerful in a sense that it defines you as an individual and how others perceive you. So choose how you want to be perceived from the moment you wake up to the second you go to bed, and if you snore, hog the blankets, or drool, well some things are just not in our control. Knowing these things aids in being confident in who you are around other people. You know who you are when you wake up and when you go to bed, so don’t let anyone else have control over telling you. Bangov Actual, out.

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