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Keep It Business

Choosing to be someone of a stressful presence is all on you. Cuss and scream all you want. You may even have people do what you wish out of fear. My question is, how does it work for something built to be long lasting? The foundation of those who want to work. Those who like coming to work. Also not saying you can’t push people to get the best out of them, but the relationships between employee and employer are that of an understanding through conversation or written word. Can’t tell you how many people have given me the decency speech. That they know the measure of a decent human being and what they should be getting from the employer. No conversation to be had, nothing in writing, no communication, just entitlement through frustration of the quality of the work environment. Water cooler is not cold enough (I Shit You Not) unfair pay, job security, no opportunity for advancement, incompetent managers. I love that one because I’ve never seen that person step up to try and be in a position of authority, they just like to bitch, moan and complain. ” Shut up Helen!” I can’t tell people how to run their businesses, or even treat their employees, but showing them they are the reason for your success, may just make them realize you rely on them, not the other way around. So what from an employer’s perspective do we need to understand. Don’t really care from an employee perspective because as an employee you have the freedom to move around and leave the job as you please. Also try playing the what if game with me as well. Saying I rely on this job to feed my family, THAT IS YOUR ISSUE,  this is Bangov, we don’t cater to those who’s only excuse is that they don’t have another stream of income. That is your choice to live that reality. You have options, you just are not looking for them and those who don’t do what it takes to make things work will suffer the most. No fault of anyone else, even though they may blame others. Your employer has taken out the loan, or risk in order to follow his pursuit. In that pursuit you have been given a job, you’re trusted with doing a job for an amount of pay. Ask all the questions you would like during the interview, opportunity for growth, turnover rate for the position, why did the last person leave, special skills that help aid in success. Ask them and then you will know if you’re cut out for the position. Most go after a 15% raise and they may suck at the job, no leadership or skills pertaining to the required field. You’re fat and lazy but you’re thinking more money will motivate you 6 months from now, IT WILL NOT. For employers, do what you can to make your employees comfortable, WITHOUT losing profits, you don’t need a safe space room, but maybe just things that keep them working longer. If they want to listen to music, let them. As long as it is not a distraction to the rest, your obligations are your own and employees who don’t feel a constant pressure of wrongdoing tend to stick around longer. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Why Do We Allow This?

Men who change their genders in order to compete with women. I’ve seen this movie before, I just didn’t think a man would get satisfaction out of competing against women in physical endurance. So what do we learn from this? Women are obviously upset, it’s an all girls club that some dude decided he couldn’t measure up to the all boys club. So he switched sides and now is dominating the competition. Everyone wants to be a winner, they just want to be some form of it. Are we supposed to say congratulations? Give this guy a high five for a job well done? I guess giving in to this person’s delusion is the way that people choose to go to avoid ridicule or to avoid being called a name that isn’t really what it means by people who don’t know what it means. Reporters ask how he feels when he is destroying his competition. Can we assume he felt like he was going to win? So what does it mean to know you’re going to win? Even if under unfair circumstances? Like you know you can lift more, or swim faster than anyone on the line, so is this just people catering to those who need this win in their life to feel some sort of relevance. We have all seen those movies where an athlete has been working since grade school on his swing, jump shot or foot positioning. Years of dedication shattered in the blink of an eye to a broken leg, neck or death of a family member that the very fabric of life could return things to what they once were. Not sure if that is what happened to those that were compelled to join the women’s league in order to fill the void that they made it. Even if they have to lie to themselves and everyone else they will stir up their own reality and tell everyone else they are crazy. I guess it’s “brave?” I’ve had some time to think of solutions. Only thing I can think of is having “bouncers.” Just calling them that for this blog sake. We can change it up, but to think if these guys can’t compete at the guys league then why don’t we just have more guys compete to beat them out. Then as the men beat out all those who are posers then they just lose to the women until women are all that is left. Full proof system or not, I haven’t heard back from the Olympics association, but I’m expecting a call back anytime now. I’m not a fan of doing whatever it takes to win if it means that you’re not really winning. Seems like just a waste of time on a pursuit you were never meant to achieve. Bangov Actual, out.

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Ahhhh fuck em

You ask someone their opinion about something, they say it sucked. Probably don’t ask that person about it. Ask someone with a more positive outlook on how they have had a good experience with what you may want to pursue. Can’t tell you how many people have told me that I should be investing in something that has no knowledge on the subject whatsoever. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Entitled is defined as: believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment. Not sure who is giving out these entitlements but just as a flooded market, quality tends to suffer. Too many opinions on what someone else thinks about something can just be a way to talk yourself out of something you might really enjoy doing. Some things in life you can’t ask anyone’s opinion on, you just have to go do it for yourself. You may enjoy it, you may hate it. At least you have your own experience to go off of so nobody can tell you what you already know. For others to feel entitled is the “belief” that their opinion matters. They may have been told about something to invest in. They may have heard a friend talk about it. They may have even watched the news and heard it, now they become experts in the field of something they have never done. With a sense of entitlement, it never really stops at just your opinion. Entitlement feeds into other aspects of people. Arrogance, low self esteem, lack of ambition. People can talk for days about how they feel about a situation, but when the bullshit runs out, you’ll be able to see people for how full of shit they really are when they are not where you want to be. Everyone is entitled, so be careful. Bangov Actual, out.

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Dick Privileges

OK gents, let’s just say you have a number. That number is how many mistakes you could make with your dick. When you reach that number, you have it revoked. If you’re religious let’s just say the almighty comes down and says, ” Jim, your dick privileges have been revoked. You’re no longer fit, and I see a great future for you if I am to take this dick away from you.” You ask, ” but God, what am I if I don’t have my dick?” He says, “exactly”, and then he poofs away, or whatever you think he does, beam of light, take your pick. For you non religious folk. Let’s say Robert De Niro, the almighty himself, comes to your doorstep and says, “Jim, your dick privileges have been revoked.” You say, “but why Robert, what am I without my dick? He says, “exactly.” How many occurrences to where your dick gets you in trouble that you have your privileges revoked. Of all the ways you can fuck up your life gentlemen, the dick seems to be overlooked, sex in general just seems to be an urge that most just gloss over because of the privacy of others. For good reason, but just opening up a conversation to yourself would you believe 5, 10 or even 20 mistakes throughout your life is a good enough measure? From a very young age we are taught the consequences of sex. Of course because of our age going through school. They tell us abstinence, hahaha fucking morons. Abstinence is defined as: The act or practice of refraining from indulging an appetite or desire, especially for alcoholic drink or sexual intercourse. So hey kids, all those bodily urges that make your skin feel like it’s on fire, jerk off 9 times a day, and give you a 5th gear in your hormones, ya just ignore that until you’re no longer the states problem, then try your luck in college as a Virgin. I think of it as, well I don’t want to have every guy someone who is inexperienced in sex, women would just be furious if they are having to deal with a guy who can’t lay some pipe. So I’d say over 30, and ladies whether it is with 30 different women, I won’t be able to make that decision, but for a guy who may have his dick revoked, you just never know, they may stop at 29 and think, OK, 30 will be the one. Not like a majority of people know how to pick winners anyway so what does it matter? I’m sure a mountain of hopeless romantics are just biting their lips thinking that they know what it means to love. So I guess I’ll let them have it. Besides when they realize the mistake they have made picking one they fell for after a day, I won’t have to say a thing. They’ll just refer to my blog. The reason I am bringing this up is sexual frustration between men and women. Men and women have a long standing void of quality of sex. What is rarely discussed are the needs of others long term. Where is the relationship seen to go after a year or 2? We are mainly under the assumption that you grow up and old together. So gentlemen think of it this way. What if you were only with your significant other for a specific amount of time? What if with that man or woman you only had 2 years? What if 4 years? Would how many years you’re with them be a reason for the quality of intimacy. Would it be better or worse? What if you only had one week? Studies have shown that the national average for first marriages is around 7-8 years. When you think of it that way, does that seem like a long time? I have friends that have been dating the same person for between 4 and 10 years. Not even married yet. So begs the question, should marriage be a contract that only lasts a number of years? Or does till death do us part seem reasonable still? As well, the biggest reason for divorce was not cheating, or death. LACK OF COMMITMENT. When I hear that, I think of why everything else fails. Whether you find someone or something to commit to, make sure you’re in it for the long haul, or have a conversation beforehand of the expectations throughout the time you’re together. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Bangov Is

Bangov is the long term investment that we all crave. It is what keeps you up at night, and keeps you in a staring contest with the wall and asking where do I go next. Bangov is my bangov, obviously.  It was created will the soul purpose of inspiring others to find their individual pursuit, life’s ambition. Could be multiple ambitions at once, no rules on how many you can have. The goal is to be in search of something that you push away other things in order to make what you have dreamt a reality. Can be a fancy car, big house, or a beat up truck out in the woods with a house and shit ton of land. Whatever your vision is for your life, grab every detail you can and do whatever is necessary to bring it to fruition. Fruition is defined as: the point at which a plan or project is realized. So when that plan or project has come into focus, you a lot a majority of your time putting things into motion. I can’t tell you what that is, I wish I was able to know what everyone’s life pursuit is, but this is based on the pursuit of the individual. You will tend to feel your regular activities slip away,you may not go out drinking anymore. Sex may seem dismal….ok sex is still great, I can’t lie about that, its sex. Partying will seem like a waste of time, a time killer for those who are still searching for what they wish to do. I will continue to write these blogs until my focus is elsewhere. I hope to write them for a long time to hear others’ success stories. Just takes time, and if you’re not wanting to do it for the rest of your life then you haven’t dreamt big enough. Plan out your life according to your dreams. Bangov Actual, out.

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Close Your Eyes And Go

When you don’t know which way to go. Left or right. You’re at a fork in the road and everything is telling you which way to go. Also for you political nerds I don’t mean leftist so shut it. Just you, as a person, left could be a new job, right could be a business you’re scared to start. When you are there and you are done weighing the options. You’ve assessed every little detail. Everyone in your family is ok with it. The world is saying they won’t hate you whatever you choose, which is just insane to me when people make life decisions they care about what other people think outside of their own family. They need the world’s approval for some reason, just so they don’t have a hint of feeling like they are a bad person, or are being selfish. Selfish is defined as: lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure. Now OF COURSE some of you Karen’s of the world will tell me, you should never be selfish EVER. That’s why you’re Karen though. You bitch about anything you think you can control just to get a sense of control in your own life. You have no consideration for anyone but how you feel about every situation. Go back and read my life is one big contradiction blog and shut your face. To be selfish for your own gain if worded that way can seem mean or cruel. If you do it for your own families well being then it is the greatest feeling in the world to tell a Karen to go fuck herself because you’re not trying to get her approval in life. Just send her off in a sea of loneliness so she and her thoughts can scream themselves allllll the way into a padded room with white walls. So do you go left? Or do you go right? Does it really matter? Also why is it that people think they only have one choice in life. That blows my mind to think I have to do this, or I only am able to do this. Some people are very good at one thing and that is all they have ever tried to perfect. They are so good at 1 thing they think the amount of time and effort needs to be doubled in order to do amazing work somewhere else. If they are 25 then they think they will be fifty if they go left or right. You’re more capable of diverse skills than you think. Just go left or right. Beats staying in the fork. Bangov Actual, out.

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Beneath The Surface

Just sometimes can get super busy. No rhyme or reason, you just have to be able to jump in the deep end and learn to swim. What is nice about it is when you’re able to face your problems head on, it is as if they are just needing to be acknowledged. Don’t panic, don’t cry. Don’t whine, don’t gripe, don’t you shed a FUCKING TEAR. JUST UNDERSTAND, that everything is as it is needing to be when you are trying to make waves in your life. Just take a deep breath and be underwater for a few seconds. You’ll notice a certain peace that comes from being underneath the surface. You’re not drowning, you’re just taking some time to realize the different angles you may be able to conquer them all at once. Problems will come from all angles but if you remain vigilant you can be ready for what occurs and know how to react. Problem is defined as: a matter or situation regarded as unwelcome or harmful and needing to be dealt with and overcome. That is all it is. When it comes time for solutions then action needs to be taken. Solution is defined as: a means of solving a problem or dealing with a difficult situation. Action is defined as: the fact or process of doing something, typically to achieve an aim. Action may not bring you out of a storm, but it will statistically increase your odds of survival. Go through the motions of solving problems step by step in order for you to get a better grasp of the situation itself. Then when questioned, even if a solution has not been met yet, you will be able to say you have done all you can think of. Then when a person of similar experience is asked, they can provide some level of clarity that you’re going in the right direction. I KNOW, I GET IT, life has many things come at you all at once sometimes. It is always about the action you have put forward that will determine another outcome. It is very stressful to not have all the answers all at once and a fixed solution for a multitude of problems just does not exist. So keep up with your actions so that problems will tend to be less and less suffocating. You know what you have to do. So just do. Bangov Actual, out.

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