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Why Do We Allow This?

Men who change their genders in order to compete with women. I’ve seen this movie before, I just didn’t think a man would get satisfaction out of competing against women in physical endurance. So what do we learn from this? Women are obviously upset, it’s an all girls club that some dude decided he couldn’t measure up to the all boys club. So he switched sides and now is dominating the competition. Everyone wants to be a winner, they just want to be some form of it. Are we supposed to say congratulations? Give this guy a high five for a job well done? I guess giving in to this person’s delusion is the way that people choose to go to avoid ridicule or to avoid being called a name that isn’t really what it means by people who don’t know what it means. Reporters ask how he feels when he is destroying his competition. Can we assume he felt like he was going to win? So what does it mean to know you’re going to win? Even if under unfair circumstances? Like you know you can lift more, or swim faster than anyone on the line, so is this just people catering to those who need this win in their life to feel some sort of relevance. We have all seen those movies where an athlete has been working since grade school on his swing, jump shot or foot positioning. Years of dedication shattered in the blink of an eye to a broken leg, neck or death of a family member that the very fabric of life could return things to what they once were. Not sure if that is what happened to those that were compelled to join the women’s league in order to fill the void that they made it. Even if they have to lie to themselves and everyone else they will stir up their own reality and tell everyone else they are crazy. I guess it’s “brave?” I’ve had some time to think of solutions. Only thing I can think of is having “bouncers.” Just calling them that for this blog sake. We can change it up, but to think if these guys can’t compete at the guys league then why don’t we just have more guys compete to beat them out. Then as the men beat out all those who are posers then they just lose to the women until women are all that is left. Full proof system or not, I haven’t heard back from the Olympics association, but I’m expecting a call back anytime now. I’m not a fan of doing whatever it takes to win if it means that you’re not really winning. Seems like just a waste of time on a pursuit you were never meant to achieve. Bangov Actual, out.

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Ahhhh fuck em

You ask someone their opinion about something, they say it sucked. Probably don’t ask that person about it. Ask someone with a more positive outlook on how they have had a good experience with what you may want to pursue. Can’t tell you how many people have told me that I should be investing in something that has no knowledge on the subject whatsoever. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Entitled is defined as: believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment. Not sure who is giving out these entitlements but just as a flooded market, quality tends to suffer. Too many opinions on what someone else thinks about something can just be a way to talk yourself out of something you might really enjoy doing. Some things in life you can’t ask anyone’s opinion on, you just have to go do it for yourself. You may enjoy it, you may hate it. At least you have your own experience to go off of so nobody can tell you what you already know. For others to feel entitled is the “belief” that their opinion matters. They may have been told about something to invest in. They may have heard a friend talk about it. They may have even watched the news and heard it, now they become experts in the field of something they have never done. With a sense of entitlement, it never really stops at just your opinion. Entitlement feeds into other aspects of people. Arrogance, low self esteem, lack of ambition. People can talk for days about how they feel about a situation, but when the bullshit runs out, you’ll be able to see people for how full of shit they really are when they are not where you want to be. Everyone is entitled, so be careful. Bangov Actual, out.

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Bangov Is

Bangov is the long term investment that we all crave. It is what keeps you up at night, and keeps you in a staring contest with the wall and asking where do I go next. Bangov is my bangov, obviously.  It was created will the soul purpose of inspiring others to find their individual pursuit, life’s ambition. Could be multiple ambitions at once, no rules on how many you can have. The goal is to be in search of something that you push away other things in order to make what you have dreamt a reality. Can be a fancy car, big house, or a beat up truck out in the woods with a house and shit ton of land. Whatever your vision is for your life, grab every detail you can and do whatever is necessary to bring it to fruition. Fruition is defined as: the point at which a plan or project is realized. So when that plan or project has come into focus, you a lot a majority of your time putting things into motion. I can’t tell you what that is, I wish I was able to know what everyone’s life pursuit is, but this is based on the pursuit of the individual. You will tend to feel your regular activities slip away,you may not go out drinking anymore. Sex may seem dismal….ok sex is still great, I can’t lie about that, its sex. Partying will seem like a waste of time, a time killer for those who are still searching for what they wish to do. I will continue to write these blogs until my focus is elsewhere. I hope to write them for a long time to hear others’ success stories. Just takes time, and if you’re not wanting to do it for the rest of your life then you haven’t dreamt big enough. Plan out your life according to your dreams. Bangov Actual, out.

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Close Your Eyes And Go

When you don’t know which way to go. Left or right. You’re at a fork in the road and everything is telling you which way to go. Also for you political nerds I don’t mean leftist so shut it. Just you, as a person, left could be a new job, right could be a business you’re scared to start. When you are there and you are done weighing the options. You’ve assessed every little detail. Everyone in your family is ok with it. The world is saying they won’t hate you whatever you choose, which is just insane to me when people make life decisions they care about what other people think outside of their own family. They need the world’s approval for some reason, just so they don’t have a hint of feeling like they are a bad person, or are being selfish. Selfish is defined as: lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure. Now OF COURSE some of you Karen’s of the world will tell me, you should never be selfish EVER. That’s why you’re Karen though. You bitch about anything you think you can control just to get a sense of control in your own life. You have no consideration for anyone but how you feel about every situation. Go back and read my life is one big contradiction blog and shut your face. To be selfish for your own gain if worded that way can seem mean or cruel. If you do it for your own families well being then it is the greatest feeling in the world to tell a Karen to go fuck herself because you’re not trying to get her approval in life. Just send her off in a sea of loneliness so she and her thoughts can scream themselves allllll the way into a padded room with white walls. So do you go left? Or do you go right? Does it really matter? Also why is it that people think they only have one choice in life. That blows my mind to think I have to do this, or I only am able to do this. Some people are very good at one thing and that is all they have ever tried to perfect. They are so good at 1 thing they think the amount of time and effort needs to be doubled in order to do amazing work somewhere else. If they are 25 then they think they will be fifty if they go left or right. You’re more capable of diverse skills than you think. Just go left or right. Beats staying in the fork. Bangov Actual, out.

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Beneath The Surface

Just sometimes can get super busy. No rhyme or reason, you just have to be able to jump in the deep end and learn to swim. What is nice about it is when you’re able to face your problems head on, it is as if they are just needing to be acknowledged. Don’t panic, don’t cry. Don’t whine, don’t gripe, don’t you shed a FUCKING TEAR. JUST UNDERSTAND, that everything is as it is needing to be when you are trying to make waves in your life. Just take a deep breath and be underwater for a few seconds. You’ll notice a certain peace that comes from being underneath the surface. You’re not drowning, you’re just taking some time to realize the different angles you may be able to conquer them all at once. Problems will come from all angles but if you remain vigilant you can be ready for what occurs and know how to react. Problem is defined as: a matter or situation regarded as unwelcome or harmful and needing to be dealt with and overcome. That is all it is. When it comes time for solutions then action needs to be taken. Solution is defined as: a means of solving a problem or dealing with a difficult situation. Action is defined as: the fact or process of doing something, typically to achieve an aim. Action may not bring you out of a storm, but it will statistically increase your odds of survival. Go through the motions of solving problems step by step in order for you to get a better grasp of the situation itself. Then when questioned, even if a solution has not been met yet, you will be able to say you have done all you can think of. Then when a person of similar experience is asked, they can provide some level of clarity that you’re going in the right direction. I KNOW, I GET IT, life has many things come at you all at once sometimes. It is always about the action you have put forward that will determine another outcome. It is very stressful to not have all the answers all at once and a fixed solution for a multitude of problems just does not exist. So keep up with your actions so that problems will tend to be less and less suffocating. You know what you have to do. So just do. Bangov Actual, out.

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Newtons 3rd Law

I’m reminded that for some people, there is not much growing up after a certain age. Having a 6 year old tell you that kids are being mean to you, and that they tell him they are smarter than him. Crazy to think even as adults we do that now in our own indirect ways. People always forget in the battle of right and wrong, that perspective is not going to change a person’s experiences, way of life or how they were brought up. It is a complete psychological experience that you have to put them through in order to change their mind. If culturally, or religiously they are bound by what they have been taught or believe then don’t waste your time trying to convince them that no God exists, or that their culture got it wrong. This comes from a feeling of deep hate and is likely to just make you an enemy. To communicate with someone of a different perspective, what’s most important is the willingness to communicate. A genuine approach that you wish to communicate with someone regardless of each other’s differences. If someone notices that it is not your way of life that offends them, but with conversation can come a compromise. You will be seen as either a friend, or even someone that would just be waved to passing by on the street. In my opinion that is much better than the enemy. To demonize is defined as: portray as wicked and threatening. I have mentioned demonizing an individual, or groups of people a lot in past blogs. To demonize is so quick of a reaction for some it is almost an indefinite response within a few seconds that no hope of a friendship, or even just to be cordial with one another exists. Cordial is defined as: warm and friendly. We do this based on first impressions. Be aware that impressions are defined as: an idea, feeling, or opinion about something or someone, especially one formed without conscious thought or on the basis of little evidence. Still remind yourself of the little evidence you may have on this person. If it is someone you’re a coworker, and choose to not associate with, eh fuck em. If it is someone your child is bringing to meet you. Maybe impressions will have to be built over time. An understanding that this individual may be weird or just have a lot of energy. Nonetheless the importance of that person to someone else makes you see past a lot of flaws and be more accepting. Just remember people have their layers, these layers are reasons for doing certain things, whether they are about telling you they are smarter than you, or may be mean to you. The only thing that matters is how you react to them, and showing how little that bothers you. Bangov Actual, out.

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What Pulls You Away

Everyday distractions come in to the game of life. Distract you from your hopes of finding that one thing you long for in order to push everything else aside. Distraction is defined as: a thing that prevents someone from giving full attention to something else. It is that simple people. I cannot put it into any simpler terms than that. How much, time, money, and effort I wasted on things that should not matter in life. My guess is a lot. My guess is right now people reading this people already know what that thing is. They already know what is taking their time and and attention from what they should be focusing on. I have the same problem. It’s a battle within yourself to fight the laziness that occurs when you are trying to do something that is toward your pursuit. My question you is, is it something that you enjoy and something that comes natural? Interesting enough I started writing blogs not even knowing that I was writing them. It was a list of thoughts I had written down over the course of years that I wanted to come back to. I wanted to dig a little deeper into this sort of expansion. I like to have good conversations. I do enjoy when someone sends me emails telling me of whatever the hell they have going on. Or in person which has been most of how I have been able to expand my blogs. Constant communication with others struggling to find what they wish to pursue. Cannot tell you how many people have told me they don’t enjoy what they are doing. I ask what else do you do? What are hobbies or things that you don’t really think about doing? They say they write, or draw, or the job they are already doing a 9-5 is what they are passionate about, they just want to bring it to the best level. I suggest a youtube channel, or even freelance work. Not a brick and mortar, but starting their own advertising for their skills. These distractions may be pulling you towards something that already was supposed to be your pursuit in the beginning. Don’t ignore what comes naturally productive. Bangov Actual, out.

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