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Don’t bitch at me, It’s your problem

Looks can be deceiving….no shit, right? Well, that’s because you tend to look at everything through our own eyes and continue to skew your own reality towards a perverse reality. It’s ok though, you’re not the only one. When things get hard, or time seems like it is standing still then we have more and more things to pile onto life.

What is seen through the eyes should not always be trusted. Close your eyes and start seeing things from the mind’s eye. Too many distractions when you open your eyes you let in all the distractions as well. I’m reminded of times when I have been frustrated with someone or something and not known of any of the factors that have come into play. When my children frustrate me of course it is always hard at the moment to get them to calm down and think rationally. Rational is defined as: agreeable to reason. That is very hard when they get to the kicking, screaming, door slamming phase.

You must bring them down from the storm that is brewing inside their head, and then bring rationality into the mix. Same happens when everything looks to be deceiving. You’re in the storm. You’re only seeing what you have to fight, you’re punching, kicking, and screaming in your head. So don’t think just because something has happened to you, that it must be everyone else’s reality. The world doesn’t revolve around your problems. So be a solution. Don’t pester those who don’t know what you have been through, maybe they have been through more than you. Also, maybe they have a better attitude than you. Bangov Actual, out.

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BanGov Is For Tier 1

I want Bangov social to be a platform for operators. From tier 1 all the way down to a mall cop. I do believe that we as a society can come together and solve our own problems of being open to merciless attacks. Doesn’t take governed funding. Just takes a community willing to better itself. Why don’t people make connections to anything anymore? Relationships? Ladies if a guy tells you he just wants to fuck and you’re so hopeful for a relationship that you ignore the intended situation he is trying to communicate to you then it is your fault. Gentleman if she has signs of naming your children on the 1st or second date RUN! Of course, if this is the intended goal then proceed. Hoping that everyone is able to read between the lines of communication, but with 60% of communication being nonverbal miscommunication should be assumed on a daily basis. Tier 1 operators IN MY OPINION, correct me if I’m wrong. Communication is perfected to such a degree that words are very minimal in what is intended on a set mission. Bin laden raid, everyone knew what they were supposed to do. Hours and hours practicing and getting communication wrong for the time when action was to take place for the real scenario. Everything was to go as smoothly as humanly possible. Of course, a helicopter is going to crash sometimes, or maybe a door will be shot through because you’re getting closer to the intended goal. So don’t sweat the small stuff. Just remember your mission. Between family, friends, or seeking new relationships. Your intent will always help draw you towards the finish line. That packed with risk and incentives, you’re a freight train with no intent on stopping. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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What Are You Really Hungry For?

Appetite is defined as: a natural desire to satisfy a bodily need, especially for food. Think of when you’re hungry. I’m a switch when I get hungry. I get vicious. Give me a snickers. I’m cute and cuddly like a teddy bear. Same goes for sex, when I want it, it’s a want that has turned into a need. Hair pulling, shirt tearing, howling at the moon type need that can only be satisfied while I’m biting down on lips and pressing against hips. Have you ever been to a place in life where you think you’re hungry and then tell yourself to not eat. No I am not talking about an eating disorder. I am talking about the point when you stop listening to the inner you that has failed you. The you that wants to succeed sometimes is lost in the dimmer switch of your reality taking over. This is when you need to do something in order to remind yourself that you are still on this path and that you need to keep going. It is OK to lose your way for a while. Find your way back ;and fight like hell to keep yourself on a level above those around you. People around you are just existing. Don’t be like those people. Be the person that inspires people to be hungry for a better life. You may realize that what you have desired all along is a purpose to keep going. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Take The Wheel

I keep telling people, this is not meant to be easy. It is meant to get you to get out of your own way when going for what you want. Letting everything slip away. Money becomes a river that never stops, but can be disrupted. Times can be tight, moods shift, harder to get up in the morning. Don’t tell yourself that it should be any certain way because you’re always trying to get to a place you’ve never been. It’s hard going at it alone. Ups and downs, side to side, and maybe you need a day to think about your next move. I just remind myself that this is a life pursuit. Not a weekend bender. You may be in a rush, but the world only moves so fast. So just enjoy the ride. The 20 years you may need in order to make a name brand for yourself, or could be 3-5 to flip a business for profit. Most people think life has a plan, gods will, whatever your preference. Doesn’t mean you’re free from making decisions on your own. Take the initiative, does not mean you have to be correct in all that happens to you. Bangov Actual, out.

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Fairy-tales Are Dangerous

I am definitely feeling the supply chain shortage. For jobs that should of been done in a month, take 2 or 3 months. For jobs that seem to be easy, it seems like we don’t have any willingness to do any work for an hourly wage. People are under the impression that money from the government will be enough for their lifestyle. What they tend to forget is that what happens when they want a raise? Money will surely not be enough to them anymore. So when they think voting for someone will get them more money, well then cost goes up when taxes are raised so your dollar amount may get bigger, but then you end up paying more in taxes to cover what the government is pushing out. Baffles me when people say that the government will pay for it. No, you are paying for it. Government doesn’t have money without you. No fault of the government either when screaming idiots just constantly cry about free things when poor people are behind the push. When it comes to giving free things away, it will never be enough. Greed is defined as: intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth, power, or food. Has nothing to do with your financial status, you can be poor and greedy. Just depends on if you’re willing to put the work in to get it. Don’t let a lifestyle you dream of let you lose sight of how much work it takes ro get there. Fairytales are dangerous when it means you have no responsibilities. Bangov Actual, out.

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Anger Does Not Aim When Firing.

How do we navigate through anger? I’m under the impression it is not always that we are angry, but other times we like to be angry. We like the feeling sometimes that let’s us scream, punch holes into walls, or even the occasional beating of the couch cushion. Long drives, runs, swims, anything to get us from the beginning to the end of the anger cycle we may be feeling. What we must remember is to communicate while we are angry. To loved ones say that you are angry and that you either need to be alone right now, or that you need to talk right now. Does not mean you babble on about how you hate anything about them. Leave mothers and fathers out of this, do not bring up anything to further agitate each other. Just talk about what is needed to bide time in order to get over the hill of you wanting to say anything to someone as having the intent to hurt them. Maybe go fight the tree outside, hug a pillow really hard, but just remember the chemical reaction you’re going through is not because of what is in front of you, so really try and find out why you are angry before you get angry at someone where there is no intent. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Incentives..they just work. Think of how you used to procrastinate in school. Assuming you did and we’re not a straight A student. A lot of us remember procrastination. Procrastinate is defined as: delay or postpone action; put off doing something. The incentive to work has nothing to do with the definition of procrastinate. It was only the night before you made the decision, or something motivated you to study for 3 hours and possibly get a passing grade. So what was it that incentivized you? You had put yourself in that position to either pass or fail. Well then what if you were to position yourself that way with other things. Not saying to procrastinate, but maybe apply for that job that might bring you to the next level. Applying and people asking when you’re available might start a fire. These things always seem small, like taking money from a bank in order to start your own business. Or just applying for that dream job that you’ve wanted for a long time. Incentive is defined as: a thing that motivates or encourages one to do something. Just keep in mind to create your own incentives through life. Start small, not saying you have to go bungee jumping day 1. Or skydiving next week. Just do it at a gradual pace and in time you’ll start to develop your own pace. Do things that even scare you sometime and you’ll get more acquainted with how you as a person reacts. Learn to control that beast and you’ll become one yourself. Bangov Actual, out.