So apparently to masturbate is something to fear now. Holding your own dick in your hand is simply going to ruin your relationships, marriage is going to end, and your life will just go downhill as you continue to jerk it. In my eyes men or women tend to jerk off as a release they may want to have to themselves, or that they may not be getting from their partner. Ok, so why are you not getting it from your partner? Do you have some notion of fear that you may cheat on him or her if you don’t get that release. Don’t demonize a sexual release or a time when you are to be sexually vulnerable with yourself.
Of course, too much dopamine, as it is advertised. Just as with sugar or sweets, music, or even television. These things can be damaging to your health if not controlled or used in moderation. Enjoy that brownie, I fucking love brownies, but I don’t have one every night out of fear one day my lady may look at me and not want to sleep with me. Then I will have to jerk off out of necessity of not being able to have sex with a person that finds me attractive. Don’t treat masturbation as the enemy. The enemy is how you’re able to control yourself and when you feel you need the release. If you have to do it 10 times a day and are missing work, or even time with your family because of it, seek help and hopefully you haven’t gone blind. You may have a problem then. If you do it every morning before work, because you work late and you don’t want to wake up your lady, HERO.
Ladies understand if your man likes doing it, LET THEM. I hear women ask all the time, “why doesn’t he just have sex with me?” It is because we don’t always want what comes after, and as a courtesy to your feelings maybe we are not wanting to be in the cuddling mood, or just simply don’t have time. It DOES NOT mean that we don’t want to do it with you later. Rest assured if you are having issues, or haven’t been sexually active for a few weeks, he may just be needing to pleasure himself in order to not make the stupid mistake of finding someone else to do it with.
BDSM, Bondage, orgies, and whatever kind of sexual fetishes you can think of are out there. These are things that are becoming more and more common for couples to engage in what was once known as sinful, or just considered taboo. We keep trying to put a lid on these kinds of things when people can’t seem to understand that maybe some couples are kinkier than others or want to have more adventurous sexual experiences than others. Masturbation IN MY OPINION, may just be someone realizing that they have more to experience about sex based on the porn that they are looking up. As a partner, maybe discuss, and always keep discussion open about what each other wants in or out of the bedroom. You’re both together out of love, so be there for each other and make it a positive experience for both.
