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Simple Steps, Giant Leaps

There will always be moments thinking that you’re not cut out for the profession you’re in. Don’t listen to the naysayers in your mind. Pursue a clear mind and you will come out on the other side thinking that you’re more capable than once believed. It is hard, I understand that each level of pursuit you try and achieve comes with a complication, or set of its own barriers that we as individuals must burst through. A phase of doubt will cloud your mind, a reminder of limitation will keep you from that which has kept you in your corner so that you won’t see what has been with you since birth. A great positive to when you have consistent actions, could be a workout regimen, or not eating junk food, is when you fall off the wagon again you realize how fucked up you once were and how far you have come from being who you were to who you want to become. Simple steps, of course every day is hard when you’re not used to doing something, but when everyday becomes the norm then it is hard to see yourself not doing a workout, or writing blogs, or even getting up at a certain time. I’ve regularly thought about 4:30 am wake ups, but I just haven’t made the decision yet that I wanted to do that. A few extra hours in the morning though does sound awesome for getting things done. All that time to myself to gather thoughts, make a list for myself to create new possibilities. New expectations for myself. Also remember that day 1 will never feel like it is worth it. You don’t know when it will be worth till it is. Sacrifices you make for yourself always are in your best interest to make when it comes to making your life more productive. If you ever do something on a consistent basis that is in turn bad for your health then STOP FUCKING DOING IT. I will say that might be my one limit to consistency, and why I don’t do drugs. Weed sounds fun, but it’s just not a sustainable thing for me to do everyday. So choose your consistency especially based on your way of life, throw some productive ones in there and when you maybe have a hangover, or 10- 20 passed out drunk people on your floor, just tell yourself you had a good night and get back on track. Don’t beat yourself up too much and just get on with your day as you’re trying to still get things done. Work will always be there tomorrow. Bangov Actual, out.

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Infinite Solutions

Stressful is what you do not grow up with or do not know. To think of something as stressful is just a matter of perspective in what you are good at, or what you have passion for. Have talked to many people who are proficient in many things and the wealth of knowledge they have has always astounded me about how much they care about a particular subject. Or so I thought that they cared. I believe that all people who search hard enough, are born, or just come across something that they are not only good at but great at. When it gets interesting is when they find it and it consumes their everyday life. That to me is when a person is truly at peace with what they were meant to do. A certain calm comes over them and they are no longer distracted by what used to distract them, they begin to identify their surrounding friends by what takes them away from those people. No more late night partying, no more wasting time, or at least what they thought was fun they begin to see as a waste of time if they are not becoming more proficient in what they have built an addiction for.

To step back, stress is defined as: a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances. The difference of “stress” being caused by your day to day 9-5 job is that you are doing it out of a necessity of not wanting to be a bum on the street, gas money, sex, or the million of other reasons that keep people in this vicious cycle of not doing something genuinely because they feel it is what they were meant to do. When you manipulate your own emotions to think that a regular 9-5 is just a place holder and that what you are good at is what you should be doing. Your 9-5, although may have a job that a fucking monkey could do, no offense to monkey’s, we do send them to space. Even if it may be for a cruel reason, not saying I know that reason, but why the hell else would you send a monkey into space other than to save humans from blowing up when you haven’t fixed all the bugs in the system. I mean we use animals for a lot of trials. I’m getting off topic, but when you think to yourself that your job is stressful, you only do it because you know it is where you are stuck. You haven’t found your pursuit yet, but I need you to dig down deep and really take into consideration that life is not forever. Day after day, year after year. Not saying you have to figure everything out in one night. No way in hell did I do that.

Everyday is a new perspective or a new idea that brings you closer to whatever vision you have in your head and whatever keeps you up at night because you know you are not living up to your full potential. Potential is defined as: having or showing the capacity to become or develop into something in the future. Which is cute, I guess if you like to read those self help books that make me want to suck start a shotgun. Let me introduce you to the word Prospective. Prospective is defined as: expected or expecting to be something particular in the future. You have this monster brewing inside of you. What Disney movies have taught us is that monsters can be either good or bad. They can lead us to the left or right of our intentions. No matter how good your intentions are, just remember to look for the contradictions and tell yourself no matter what I have to become, and no matter the cost, in the end I will be known by many as a good person or it will all be for nothing. Don’t let your demons consume you because you want something so bad, because there’s always another way. Bangov is ever evolving, and is about not only one but infinite solutions. Bangov Actual, out.

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Ganja

Today, 4-20-2022 is the official renewal date for Bangov. Which their is something poetic about that. When we think of 4/20 we thing of our great mother of ganja. Pot Grass, Dope, Reefer, Hash, Herb, Chronic. Weed the miracle drug that has brought drug companies to their knees. In realizing what this miracle plant has done for anyone from panic, anxiety, to muscle spasms, and multiple sclerosis. For all the good that has come from this miracle plant, still people will judge its effects as a reason for people to not indulge. To me it is interesting that we never stop as a society to think of what we regularly put in our bodies as a means of coping with day to day. Cigarettes for one, not that I am you shouldn’t smoke, do what you will with your bodies. I won’t lose a moment of sleep for what people choose to do with their bodies. cancer, heart disease, stroke, lung diseases, diabetes, and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), which includes emphysema and chronic bronchitis. These all come from cigarettes alone. I have occasionally enjoyed the effects of nicotine as a way of smoking cigarettes, vape, or even the occasional cigar after a week of Elk hunting. I’m no stranger to it, and I won’t lie in order to demonize something that is a choice to me and others. To look at the effects of things that we put in your bodies is only as important as what we choose. You can have all the knowledge in the world of what to put, and what not to put in your body. It all comes down to what you choose and why you want something. I’m a huge fan of chips, maybe not the healthiest thing on the planet, but with a sandwich, damn it I want my sea salt and vinegar chips. WATER, we are all told to drink more and more water. Then again how much is too much water. Whenever you hear ANYONE say anything about health, understand they have a perception of what health is. You choose yours based on what health goals you have. Pick anyone on YouTube, there are only about a billion(exaggeration) influences that pride themselves on knowing how to eat, sleep and workout for you to be the best version of yourself. Of course they only have one perspective on what it means to be healthy. So have fun in deciding on who you wish to follow to help you. Maybe you want a buff guy/girl to follow. Maybe you want a skinny guy/girl, or maybe a chiseled sexy VEGAN. Whatever the case everything in moderation because even water has the capacity to make you I’ll. Effects of too much water are as follows: Confusion, nausea, and vomiting are symptoms. Severe cases can cause seizures, coma, and death. So why not just stick to everything being in moderation. We’re all going to die, hate to burst your bubbles about living forever, but maybe reminding you of death will keep you on the treadmill for a couple more minutes, or maybe you won’t have that other piece of chocolate cake. These are things I yell at myself in order to keep my fat ass in check because man do I love sweets. Bangov Actual, out.

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Duty Sucks

I’m convinced that boys need a male role model, but probably not in the way that you think. For all my military folk, think of it as not being relieved from duty for your entire career in the military. You are stuck on post for 18-20 years. Now think of that in regards to a child where you are the protector of mom, and no man ever comes to relieve you of your duties. You’re on a constant watch. Which may sound more familiar to moms is that when dad is not home, boys are more rowdy, more in the mindset of conditioning in order to prepare for when they must be physical in a defensive altercation. Until dad comes home it’s fight, play, run jump, trampoline or play with swords and guns. Now to think of what men do when they see a boy, they may even do the same in order to test his strength and worthiness to protect the castle. You can learn a lot from a 6 year old when you pay attention. I encourage any man entering a household with growing boys to be cautious. You may just be entering a nerf war, the floor is lava, or may have to fight to the death so that the princess can be rescued from the top of the castle. Be aware the princess can be a hamster or a 2 year old pup with a ribbon tied around the neck. I don’t want to say more than ever that we need little boys to have strong male role models in the household because it has always been a necessity for future generations to have a role model to emulate. Now to think of this in a business sense, always remember problems are never big or small. Just as our successes can be perceived as big or small, it was the intended goal that made us fall short. For example for those who want to be billionaires, and make only millions. Money should never be the goal, not that I will ever say you cannot wish for that but things in life that are to be wished for IN MY OPINION are those of importance like preparing our youth for the inevitable battles they may face in order to preserve their way of life. These skills of dealing with another male, whether they know them or not, will be life lessons they will carry with them till they know what it is to be in charge of their own lives. They will know the strength, courage, and more importantly the sacrifice necessary in order to sustain and provide for a family of their own. Just as my father had taught me not with words, but with actions. As long as you are present in their lives then the impact is just as important if they were not there for you. You learn from each other. A man learns how to teach the son, the son learns through rebellious acts how to do exactly as the father did to his father in order to prove he is worthy of his own way of life away from the protection from the man that has shown him one of the great joys of life of being a role model/teacher to another. Role model is defined as: a person looked to by others as an example to be imitated. To my younger readers, we cannot always choose our fathers. I have met plenty of children to where fathers are nowhere to be found, I have also met fathers that I wish never reproduced. Be mindful of who you imitate in this world. Those who think you don’t have a choice, just remember that you can always see the man you don’t wish to become. Then spend the rest of your life saying you will be better. Commit to it, and make it part of your life’s pursuit. Bangov Actual, out.

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The Transition

Confidence, ladies, a woman with Confidence has a man by something even more precious to him than his balls. Confidence is defined as: feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities. Or the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust. My question to you is why would you trust someone even more than yourself? Well by definition is someone who has a particular ability such as greater size, strength, or ability to defend. Then ladies, historically men have been viewed as the protectors of the castle, man of the house, Papa bear, take your pick. This is only one example of course. For men or women who have a particular skill set that you don’t have, you are forced to have confidence in those you hire to fix problems, that in which you do not possess the skill to do so. Could be a plumber, electrician, cosmetologist, whatever that you have not put effort into in order to become proficient in. Ladies It has recently been brought to my attention that some women lose confidence in themselves as they age. Which to me seems like a step backward. What is it that makes a woman, particularly one that has had children, become a success in her field of study or career, or even been able to keep her sanity through harsh times of family turmoil or trauma. Can we all agree that families go through harsh times. So no need for specifics, but when a woman says to me with age, confidence begins to dwindle. What does it mean when a child is in the developing stages of confidence, generally preschool where children are exposed to who can run faster, jump higher or even read at a higher level. What I have also learned is that throughout age, generally the older you get, the less confidence you have. Generally 50’s and 60’s shows a lack of self esteem. So IN MY OPINION, What I advise for both men and women is for you to look at the evidence throughout your life and see yourself for what you are and what you have done, rather than pick an afternoon to tell yourself that you are worthless than what the evidence shows. If by your 50’s and 60’s you have accomplished little to nothing, which is highly doubtful to a large majority of the population to never have had at least one accomplishment, then so be it you’re a loser. Those of you who know and are still trying to lie to yourself and say that you haven’t accomplished anything then you know deep down that is not true. Again the evidence may not lay all your doubts to rest, but at least you will know deep down that they are only doubts. Doubts will be with you till the end of time. The only way to subside them for the duration of your life is to develop a pursuit. That pursuit keeps people sharp as well as distracted by what they are incapable of doing. They only focus on the positive because they enjoy what they are doing. Self-esteem is defined as: confidence in one’s own worth or abilities; self-respect. So to circle back to confidence being about appreciation of abilities or qualities, I vote that we all transition to self respect, which is defined as: pride and confidence in oneself; a feeling that one is behaving with honor and dignity. This being a more concrete approach to one’s self development, I am in favor of us moving from what we try and teach our children, which is self-esteem, and transition as adults, to self-respect and let confidence be the byproduct of that. Above all, change how you define yourself and you will be ever evolving in this world of motion. Bangov Actual, out.

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Even A Vasectomy Is Only 99.9% Effective

Nothing is 100% until it is. Don’t be waiting at the finish line and turn around to see if anyone has caught up with you. Take your Victory lap the same speed to make sure nobody ever catches you. All in an instant the gold can be taken from you because you were worried about someone other than yourself. Doesn’t matter if someone has caught up with you or not. You know how much you have trained for a run and when you have come to the finish line if you have out worked everyone else. Also life does not end when you get the medal. You’re in a constant state of motion because you must be in motion to get anywhere in life. Don’t care if it is across the world or across the street. Especially when trying to communicate what you want in life, don’t half ass your efforts or else you’ll never reach even 50% of your goals. Tell yourself you’re going to clean your house today. Same logic applies for you to invest that time in yourself. You go through the motions in order to get trivial tasks done, trivial is defined as: of little value or importance. So why not make the decision to find 3 important things in life to put into the same motion. Just like going to clean your house. Start somewhere. Doesn’t matter where, just get in motion and see what gets accomplished throughout the day. Try starting with the most daunting task, laundry. Or warm yourself up, get into the rhythm and you will do it while not even realizing it is work. Nothing is 100% so Start at 10% and just make sure 100% is on your mind. It’s all in your mind, effort cannot be measured, so start somewhere and find your own rhythm. Rhythm is defined as: a strong, regular, repeated pattern of movement or sound. Start with something you know how to do, then transfer that energy to something unknown and learn as you go. Also do it everyday, don’t care what it is, results will vary so just do what you enjoy. Giving something 100% is not a day one thing. Building your empire is your life’s pursuit of self sacrifice. Bangov Actual, out.

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Make Sure You Do It Everyday

When I think of how things are “supposed to be.” Is it because they are better, or is it just because they are how they are? Tradition is so ingrained into our daily life it is hard to sometimes escape the reality that we are even in such traditions. Make your bed, eat , drink, sleep. Not saying some things don’t work well. Also some things should be the same, if it isn’t broken then don’t fix it. When it comes to your happiness, and way of life then it should be up to you on how you’re choosing to implement new traditions. If you’re not religious, then see how life would be different with changes made to your daily routines. Would you celebrate holidays? If you are religious but your family didn’t raise you that way then again, make the necessary changes in order to feel more fulfilled in what you want to accomplish. Doesn’t always have to be money driven. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually, how healthy of a lifestyle that you must want if you come from a family that is overweight. Paying attention to your surroundings is all it takes to decide what you do and do not want. If you don’t want to grow up like your parents, then do all that is necessary in order to change the path they have laid out for you. If you’re fat then look at that evidence in front of you that is leading you down the wrong way to an inevitable lifestyle. I am very tired of the traditional way and want something different for my life. I will do whatever is necessary in order for my life to mimic what is in my mind. For my dreams are the only road I wish to walk. Bangov Actual, out.

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