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When It Is Time To Quit

Fucking Never!!! Giving up you never get anywhere. It is all a deviation. Deviation is defined as: the action of departing from an established course or accepted standard. To put in more layman’s terms, just because you have a vision of your future, does not mean the intended path is going to be the same. People have a set plan or picture in their head. Some plan it out really well if they catch what they want to accomplish early in life. They go to school, college, graduate top of their class, and get to be a doctor, lawyer, magician, whatever. 

To get to where you want a million decisions are going to have to be made. I say a million because someone is always looking for a guarantee. Which is the wrong mentality in a world where nothing is ever always 100%. Remember this is a pursuit that you are willing to work on till the day you die. Of course, you can switch out every year a new one. Until you’re too old and stuck in the life you are in to want to choose anything else. Giving up is only easy when you have not put enough of yourself into the game you’re in. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Relationship advice is all how it is sold

Is it weird to want to research how you and your wife or girlfriend should be in a relationship. How many people do you know that are in a relationship, and are in that relationship based off the previous relationships that didn’t work out? I can only look at the advice that is out there, and hope for a better outcome. Difference is that it does take a significant amount of work. On both parts you have to give respect to the other person that if you are both in this together then you both are here for something. You are not just here because you are told that’s just what you have to do in a society. Maybe if you were told that for the betterment of your children to grow up in a 2-parent household was better for them. Or the amount of time that is put into forming a deeper connection with someone will always benefit the family as a whole. A family that is built on trust and love can have an almost bulletproof path through life and can be resilient to so many harsh realities if a person knows that his family is strong enough to carry some of the mental burden. Dwell is defined as: live in or at a specified place. If you choose to stay in unhappiness for too long, it will be your default. Move on people, if happiness seems too far away, then learn to be content. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Regret Is Defined By Your Choices

Starting from the bottom sucks. The thing people never tell you is that you’re only at the bottom as long as you want to be. You start making moves. Visualizing yourself growing and getting away from who you used to be. It is ok to not be satisfied with who you are. Hell let’s be real, who you are now, you’re not happy with, that’s why people change. It is ridiculous for you to not like who you are, where you are in life and not change things for the better. 

After a while you’ll just get older and more bitter about things you can’t control, like the past. What’s done is done. Stop sitting around and thinking about what could have always been. That is a spirit dying. Also you’re only going to waste your life regretting it. Regret is defined as: feel sad, repentant, or disappointed over (something that has happened or been done, especially a loss or missed opportunity).

You can still do nothing and regret that. Problem is you’ll blame everyone else but yourself for your lack of ambition, motivation, or whatever else is being sold to you. Better to regret decisions you made rather than regret not making one. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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Them Finacial Gains

Learning to save is like going to the gym. Most people will not have 10k they can set aside for a rainy day. Most people do have 50 dollars that they can set aside though. Just as most people can’t pick up the 50lb dumbbells yet. They can do the 10 or 20’s and work their way up. So just as all your muscles want to be worked. Do not do something that is not going to make you want to not go to the gym the next day or even next week. Slowly but surely just move closer and closer towards your end goals. I will encourage those who really are struggling, start with a dollar a day. You can do it on your phone. Just send it to your savings. By the time you have reached a month your workouts will be easier and easier, and you will want to challenge yourself. 2 dollars. Then 3, by the time you have been saving for 6 months you may be sick of how much time you have wasted not doing this before and then be doing 100 dollars a month. Some it may not be a lot. To some it may open up the floodgates to a whole new way of life. Financially you will be healthier and stronger than you thought you could. Bangov Actual, out. 

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Comfort Does Not Get You Off Your Ass.

You have been through this before. Not knowing when the next dollar will come through. You only think that you were out of the deep end because you could pay your bills for a few months, and you considered that breathing room. Problem is you are thinking even right now about digging into your savings and not even for a business plan or model. You really only are thinking that if i get through this next month that everything will be fine for the following. You know it won’t. You don’t need those things you want. You really don’t even need to buy food, but you’re just tired of cooking the same thing over and over again.

This is a mentality that I know all too well. I think most of you reading will say yes, I’ve been there. Or I am there right now. It is ok, just remember to take a step back. Remember what you have, maybe be grateful for what you have for a few moments. Always when you’re facing a problem, you can become clouded by the things you already have. Be inside your house or even just your room for a second. Now put your face right up to something you own. Pretty boring and depressing when you think of how hard you work every day, and you realize that you only have this one thing. 

When you stand back and look at the room as a whole, you may think you have a lot. You have worked so hard for years and now when you see how much you have you just might not buy that other thing that you think you needed. Need, need, need. You keep saying this to yourself as if you needed the last 10 things you bought when you really only needed 1 or 2. The same goes for money. Your inability to adapt to the absence of things you have makes you think that you need more than what you own. You fill your home with more and more things in the thought that it may make you happy. You are able to purchase something. When it comes to times when you can’t even afford gas for your car, or put food on your table, have to have friends pay for drinks. The moment you cannot freely make that decision, you will regret the last few things you bought. In a mad dash you will try and return what you bought, or even sell things you have had had for years.

My issue with me spending money on things that don’t seem worth it to me, is that I am not learning to adapt to what I want. I’ve said it before. Spending money is easy. Even easier, money that you don’t have, or is not yours. Just think of how many Americans are in credit card debt and think how many of those will spend the next 5 years paying it off. Not all debt is bad of course. 

To look at it in another light, when you spend so much money on things to decorate your home and nothing on your dreams. At Least your house looks nice right? Up to you. What are you going to do with the next lump of money that comes to you? A raise at your job, bonus pay, 100 dollars from your grandma. Will it be spent, or invested? Investment is defined as: the action or process of investing money for profit or material result, OR a thing that is worth buying because it may be profitable or useful in the future OR, an act of devoting time, effort, or energy to a particular undertaking with the expectation of a worthwhile result. If you did not realize, THAT IS YOUR DREAMS. Do yourself a favor when you get home. Just walk in, close the door behind you. Think about what you have. Was any of this a need? Probably not, but I like how I live. It is “comfortable” ……that is the problem. Bangov Actual, out.

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Whining Is Why You Are Still Here

Overworked and underpaid is a poor mentality. Don’t tell me you’re underpaid when you have nothing to do with creating the income that is set for you. You’re doing your job and you are getting paid to do your job. You agreed upon the terms when you applied so don’t cry about your inability to establish your worth. Wipe your tears, and smile.Of course people will disagree with this because they think they work “hard”… so what, so do the people standing next to you. Also if you are convinced that you work harder than the rest then, then step up to the plate, be a man about it. Yes ladies this means you too. Put all of your efforts into moving forward with the company and do not think to yourself that you deserve anything more than what you have unless you are willing to ask for it to your boss’s face. If you can’t do that, then you deserve to be exactly where you are.

 

 

 

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Help Yourself First

Ego is defined as: a person’s sense of self-esteem or self-importance. What is upsetting is there are some who think that it is to be sold to others. Nobody cares about what you think of yourself unless they make money off of you or are your family. Why is it that we encounter others who want validation from those who have nothing to do with the process of what they are trying to achieve. If you’re on a football team a quarterback is not going to throw the ball to himself. A quarterback is reliant on those he has on his team. He is reliant on those he trusts to do their job in order to accomplish a certain goal. More yardage, block the defense, or score the touchdown. He does not rely on the fans. Same goes with the military. You rely on those with specific sets of skills in order as a whole to move forward. It is very apparent that a person is willing to help others in a time of need. Far more than not do we tell people to help themselves. Don’t think that just because you’re helping others, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t help yourself. If you never help yourself then inevitably you become the one begging others for help. This is not to say that walking over people will get you very far. Only so far you can go till someone starts to talk about how they were treated. Your ego will get you as far as the people you walk over to get to the next step. If you don’t have good people skills, or are not interested in getting to know others, then your potential for greatness is like a small window cracked open when it could be French doors open on a sunny day. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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