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Become Inevitable

Comes a time when your comfort zone will have to be stepped out of. Even if it was not the intended plan. Having self confidence is extremely important in this fact that when you get the thought of “maybe this is not for me, maybe I am not good enough, maybe I should stay at my job where I am safe?” Understand the easiest time to quit in a marathon is within the first five minutes. That is when all that quit talk starts in your mind. Starts to build until about the first sweat. Then after that you’re in fuck it mode, LET’S GO!!! Now you’re in it, now you’ve pushed back against all that is saying no in you and say yes. Say yes because every part of you that wants to quit and go back to your safe space will say no. You’re the only one you should be concerned about because how you treat yourself reflects on how you treat others. Teach others by teaching yourself, not to quit, to say yes I am doing this. Don’t always worry about the coming in first part. Just do things in order to get the experience. Failing is such a trigger word for people so I’m going to bring it back. Fail in a way that puts you closer to your goals. Fail in a way that you know this is or is not the path you intend to make your life’s pursuit. When you find it, and you know it is what you were meant to do then failing becomes inevitable while you change the game itself. Then you have manifested a world all your own. Very important to fail because most are not even trying. Just spectators in life, just waiting for life to come to them. That is not a BanGov mentality. Wake up and go through the motions, and stop thinking your body is going to break. All I can say is I want to work til I die. Whatever that means, death is the only way out of life, so while I am here, I will be inevitable.

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Is she too “Expensive.” Or are you just too broke?

Now Ladies I will get to you in a min, but Gentleman, just as I am driving through the city I see waiting across the stop light, a fucking bombshell of a woman. I mean 5’9″ Forever 21 faux suede knee boots, ladies only $31.49 at the time of this post, check them out now!. Woven poncho with nicely done hair, fresh set of nails, and my goodness a caramel latte tan face. Needless to say this woman looked, MUH DAYUMM! Good. That being said it gets a man thinking that is his perception of her that he doesn’t approach? Maybe she looks too good that it fends off fuck boys with loud cars with no negotiable social skills in order to approach a woman of this caliber?? I have heard men say they don’t want a woman that they think is too expensive. Which OK Gents I don’t want a woman spending all my money either….BUT, did any of those men ever think to ask if a woman has money of her own? I BET YOU NOT!!! Now I am not saying gold digging whores is not a thing. So are men looking for sugar mommas. Hell I would take one in a heart beat, Info@ban-gov.com, hahahaha. Ok but ladies I want to know what happens when you see a man of a certain caliber. Well dressed, strong jawline, well groomed and you know that motha, fucka, packin, and could do some damage in the sheets. Ladies is too much for you really too much? You see a Rolex on his hand are you like oh shit, and does it scare you or does it entice you to move forward? Think of what you’re worth in this world. Are you willing to rise to the occasion of asking a man or woman who may be of a certain caliber above where you are? Why not, maybe you would learn something from the way they think, or who they are, maybe they don’t have money, maybe it’s costume jewelry, maybe she wearing extensions. Be very careful with how you perceive the individual, what does that say about someone you may even be with right now? Did you fall into a trap of who they were when you first met them? Have you seen a deeper side to them that may even bring you closer?…Dig deeper folks, keep digging because that is the only way you get all you can out of life/love and you’re own pursuits ESPECIALLY the one you intend to spend the rest of your life with. BanGov Actual, out!

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What Is Your Perception Of Reality?

If perception is reality, then create your own perception. I was asked why I like to work. Purpose is a reason to get up in the morning. It’s why people get up at 5. It is why I will eat once a day. Some days I won’t eat at all because some days I don’t even think I am hungry. I am just hungry for purpose in my life. I’m in pursuit of a purpose and to want it so bad that any obstacles in my way are inevitable on the road to my success. This may sound preachy but fuck it, you’re in my world now BITCH!!. Seriously though take a min, or take a day, or 2 even to look at your life now and realize if it is what you want, and does it justify how hard you have been working. If not, maybe it is time to start looking at your life differently. Maybe even start looking at your life at what it could be if you applied the same hard effort to that thing you’ve been putting off for so many years. I know it’s there. You’re just reading this so don’t think you’re going to lie to me. You’re in your room, so again look around, and think is this what you want? If not then know you’re worth something more. You just have to believe it. I will prove it to you. Ever not bought something because you thought it was too “expensive.” Is that the case or are you just not willing to work hard enough. You wouldn’t buy that dress, purse, watch, car, truck, accessory or whatever the fuck because it was maybe, $50 more expensive? 100, 200, dollars more? Well why wouldn’t you just wait another paycheck and get what you want instead of just wanting something now. You’re lazy!!! If you did spend that extra $200. Did that mean you would starve for a month, or did it just scare you to buy it without even weighing the consequences. See what I mean, that’s the power of fear as it is perceived in the mind. Start telling yourself I can afford this and you will bend the reality of what is affordable in ways you never thought possible. You either wait another paycheck for the most expensive thing. Or buy now and spend the next month working an extra shift, or doing a side hustle knowing it would take care of it. Only question to ask when knowing what you want in life is, “How hard are you willing to work?” When you figure that out, you’ll manifest your potential. Bangov Actual, out.

 

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For My Concealed Carriers

I was at breakfast this morning with a friend and this garbage can r2d2 looking thing is going back and forth across the side walks. I thought, “oh that’s awesome, it’s picking up trash.” NO, it had security printed across the front. This is what security has amounted to now. Just understand people, this to me is exactly the lies that we have been told to us from day one. From birth we are told a false sense of security about how we thought cameras were going to prevent crime. Now we just have rapes, murders and kidnapping on film. hahaha that having a gun you’re more likely to use it on yourself. Welp, everyone get rid of your guns then, no more gun deaths right? Would be great if I could tell everyone to stop doing things to hurt others…if they listened I’d probably have more viewers on my blog site, but eh. So my question is to everyone, what false senses of security do we have about our finances, our livelihood. Look up businesses shut down during covid. Look up how many businesses in America closed forever when covid hit. Peoples businesses they have worked on all their lives. My issue is not with covid, my issue is who told these people struggling that 1 source of income was enough? You have to work your whole life anyway so why not work on more than one lifeline for yours or your families future? Look at someone who owns guns, everyone and their mother is able to have a gun. Someone comes to their house to take away their livelihood, they have pistols, shotguns, rifles, and back ups to their backups!!! I get it, MURICA. That’s the difference between immediate fear and long term fear. The fear of retirement makes you lazy, the fear of getting shot, you buy 10 guns. Everyone looks at guns as the answer, when they are only what they have always been and that is a tool. Tools in the war against poverty. Buy 10 guns, I don’t care, try buying 2 businesses. Buy 10 businesses, then buy an army. Look to the stars when wanting more for yourself, don’t believe the lie that you have a certain job/career and think that you’re “secure.” Security is the game of life, so learn how to play. Question or comments, info@ban-gov.com

 

 

 

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Do Whatever It Takes.

So a little history on BanGov is I did not come from wealth or “privilege” as poor people always will make the excuse for why they are not rich, so i do not want to hear it. I worked a regular 9-5 making $18 an hour at a warehouse job starting this. Then came the side hustles. Whether it be mowing lawns, painting trim, pressure washing, landscape work, moving rocks and dirt, WHATEVER. Get your mind in the habit that when you can’t afford something just ask,”what do I need to do to make this money.” BanGov, merchandising, site developing, social media, this all took money. hahaha I even sold my guns for this to work. Didn’t give a fuck what it took to make it happen, but I wanted this to be a reality and a reality I can bring to all of you. Manifest things in your mind you want to be a reality an run full speed towards trying to get it done. Do what you must to make your dreams a reality, no matter how big or small. It does really help to have intended destinations along the way as well to help know when something is working or not so go,go,go……All that aside I am reminded of a man I saw while driving through town. He wanted to clean my windshield, and I NEVER give to homeless or beggars, but this guy was offering a service. Simple, still had a sign so I am sure he would of taken a hand out, BUT, nonetheless he gave me an option and that is the difference between him and just someone asking for money a block away from him and this person looked wrecked guys. I mean had the scabs on the face and was about the thickness of drywall. So offering a service is a big part, no matter how small it can be you can start something for cheap and the only thing you need to do is think of how to scale. Get 4 meth heads on a few street corners and you have just increased your profits over 100% in a day. That’s to say they don’t just run off with the money,but you get the point. Anything you guys/gals have in your head is really just how creative you are in getting to scale and grow your business, or even create multiple avenues of income. Lets all agree it is hard work, suck it the fuck up and realize this is what keeps us alive, not the easy couch surfing that most of you are used to doing on the weekends. This is what gives us purpose and a reason to keep going so if you need to help each other out then get on social.ban-gov.com, make an account and start asking the questions.See what I did there?, haha any questions or comments ladies and gents, info@ban-gov.com, Bangov actual, out.

 

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Dating, Not For The Faint of Heart.

I recently went on a date with a woman. Ya, who knew I had a romance life..NOT FUCKING ME!. She was nice, beautiful, but when things don’t click, they just don’t click. This is for the gentleman out there looking for someone. Ladies just understand it is nothing against you if I don’t have a blog for you specifically all the time. Don’t think I won’t, I am just not a women so mainly they will be asking for your opinions on a subject, but anyway I digress. Gentleman, what I have learned is do not force chemistry with a woman or it will eventually blow up in your face. As well look out if she is forcing it, then you know something is up(ladies this can all be mirrored for you as well so RELAX.)  A 50% divorce rate in this county and society is now cringing at the fact that we are seeing open relationships, swingers and a rise of only-fans where men and woman can show there goodies for cash. You’re not going to surprise me at all that your 20th date this year has gone bad…20th? oh you think that’s a lot? Well Karen I hate to break it to you but finding your soulmate across the pond ain’t what it used to be. Many dates you will go on and many dates you will have to go on to find someone that is worth your time. Be aggressive, BE E AGGRESSIVE. Nobody knows what they want when it comes to themselves so sure as shit they won’t know when they have a 6 foot blonde hair blue eyed devil who maybe is a mommas boy and sucks in the sack. Meanwhile a 5’9″ blonde/brunette/redhead (whatever the fuck you’re into) is maybe more sexually experienced than you and what is WORSE is you shame her for that to protect your own ego. Spend some time getting to know yourself and get a glimpse of what you want so you’re not chasing life pursuits that are meaningless to you. If you’re under 25, eh, fuck anything you want, you’re young. Either way on a date, or while looking for your passion, just enjoy the date. Be playful, flirt, and just respect the fact that both of you took time out of each others day to realize what you liked and did not like about each other. Both of you can want kids, but if you hate each other then the kids become anchors instead of life rafts keeping you both together. While looking for your passions, or while looking for your person will take time, just know that life will mold into a dream that you didn’t know you even wanted. That is what I call bliss. So keep working, keep going on dates, keep looking for opportunities, or avenues of income, just don’t forget to have a purpose for an eternal happiness that just needs to last a lifetime. BanGov is all about about the individual and their pursuits. So whether you take clothes off for a living, fold them or make them, just think to yourself, BanGov.  Bangov Actual, out. Also any blogs/ideas you want to hear other thoughts on besides your own, hit me up at info@ban-gov.com.

 

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BanGov Affiliate Marketing…

Just wanted to let everyone know as for affiliate marketing, yes I know its blah blah blah I need money but just know as I do take with high consideration if I am to put the BanGov name on any of the products that you see affiliate links for just know I have tried these products before. I have held them, I have smelled, tasted or even jerked off with them. They are of the quality that I trust to use myself. Here at BanGov, as business advocates, big or small I look for products based on the quality that is seen in how it may be utilized. I do not take this job lightly and I certainly do not care for company sponsorship unless I utilize the product myself and if it is not of great quality. Thank you all for your time.