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This One Is About Sex

 

Gentleman I hate to be the barer of bad news but sex gets old after a few months. Some men are under the impression that they can do it in the same position over and over again because theory has been told by the women, it is the only way they will achieve orgasm. I call bullshit!!! Do not give in to these lies that can keep you as a prisoner in the missionary position. Not saying you can’t go back to it for the touchdown. I can only assume women need to be put in different positions considering how many nerve endings are in her lady garden being 10 times what is on the tip of your dick. Don’t let this discourage you. Better yet take it as a sign of relief that you are able to surprise her in more ways than one that will have her clinging to you like you paid for it. Gentleman it is a very simple means of google and actually wanting to get out of the sexual funk you both may be in. If it is still hot and heavy, great!! Just know that times of mediocrity, mediocrity being defined as: of only moderate quality; not very good. Or ordinary which is defined as: with no special or distinctive features; normal. Uninteresting, commonplace. These are things that develop from a time of neglect, or times of complacency. Complacency is defined as: a feeling of smug or uncritical satisfaction with oneself or one’s achievements. This happens over the course of years with no direction of improvement. Same goes for companies with no competition, with no reason to become any better of quality, complacency begins to set in and quality control diminishes. Just as a relationship between customers will become distant, a relationship with that special someone will become less and less desirable. Gentleman and ladies, understand the hard truth in the world of relationships, you ALWAYS have competition. If you are not satisfying your man or woman, then that person has no choice but to either do what is necessary to find a new way of doing things. Bring toys into the bedroom, longer foreplay, take classes, get in better shape. If between the two of you, one is not willing to adapt, overcome, grow, or even just simply does not want to go with you on this journey then you may have no choice but to be on your own. Being with someone that is not at your level of encouragement is just like having someone that holds you back. Life is constantly in motion, constantly evolving. When someone says no to you getting the most out of life, then it is harder and harder to live life yourself.  Bangov Actual, out.

 

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The Long Game

Nothing being what it seems nowadays, I tell myself that everything is what someone else seems. What you hear, what you see, touch, taste is someone else’s perspective on what that something should be. We are very trusting in nature to leave our experiences  up to others. So why don’t we trust others day to day? Only when we are looking, or purposely in search of an experience. We don’t go through an alleyway at night BUT, we strap ourselves to an amusement park ride with absolutely NO evidence whatsoever that the thing is built to code, by engineers or is even within 10 years old. We just tell ourselves that we paid a lot of money to be here so if death is on the other side then so be it. They said they WOULD NOT refund my gift certificate so I’m going to get on this thing and hopefully everything works out. Why is it unless I tell you at the gate, “if you get on this ride you will die,” do people just let themselves get put in to situations that may not be beneficial to their health? Almost as if we all have no internal danger sensors for the things that go on around us. I’ve seen people completely oblivious to threats around them. Not saying they are imminent, but they are still what people view as a daily occurrence so they deny the ability to act and interfere with the reality going on around them. To me I can only see this as a lack of fortitude in order to change the world around them. Fortitiude is defined as: courage in pain or adversity, to further clarify, adversity is defined as: difficulties or misfortune. They have no idea what they can do to change the daily struggles they may face. They just have to make a move in the direction of what they fear and even if they see the slightest movement of retreat, I bet they would attack. They would rid themselves of what fear may be holding them back. A lack of long game if I may. The refusal to commit to something for a long time. People are afraid of failing at year 1 or 2, so they never even reach the possibilities at year 10 or 20. Life is a long game, there are no shortcuts, even with the internet, time is still the same, coming and going. Work still has to get done and moves have to be made. If I was to put in 20 years of work on something, maybe, just maybe I will have my own dose of nothing is what it seems. Bangov Actual, out.

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System Of Reliance

While you’re at your 9-5 just take a moment to think of the system that you are taking part in. I’m not demonizing 9-5 work, I am just simply expressing that those who are reliant on a 9-5 fall into the system of needing to build their 401k, retirement plan, social security, if it will even be a thing by the time my age bracket needs it. So when you look at your way of life, and look at how your parents might have had to survive based on that same system. Are you thinking to yourself, “this will not be me?” Or, “that will not be my life.” Many people have told me that they see a life far greater than what their parents had provided. Whether or not they will ever surpass their parents ambitions, who the hell knows until those days come. Simple choices create a system of reliance all its own. Multiple avenues of income, this to others seems like a lot of work, and people apparently don’t like working in this day and age, they don’t know how to find the joy in misery. I’m not saying be fake, I’m saying that even in miserable circumstances you develop a sort of mental toughness that makes you cling to the hard work that you know will pay off, but most just have a hard time getting into. Real estate, flipping cars, car washes, handyman,photographer, web designer, whatever tickles your pickle. These things create multiple streams of income. For those of you who bitch about working on the weekends, well if that is how you feel then maybe have longer Monday-Friday days. Or if you work from home then maybe a project that can be worked on in-between your job. Fit your dreams wherever you can. Break away from the system of reliance and realize these false senses of security are just a mirror staring right back at you. You must rely on yourself and your own ability to break free from crutches in life. You’re not broken, you’re just unaware of the possibilities that may be more simple than the job you’ve been hired to do. Create your own system and break free. Bangov Actual, out.

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Simple Steps, Giant Leaps

There will always be moments thinking that you’re not cut out for the profession you’re in. Don’t listen to the naysayers in your mind. Pursue a clear mind and you will come out on the other side thinking that you’re more capable than once believed. It is hard, I understand that each level of pursuit you try and achieve comes with a complication, or set of its own barriers that we as individuals must burst through. A phase of doubt will cloud your mind, a reminder of limitation will keep you from that which has kept you in your corner so that you won’t see what has been with you since birth. A great positive to when you have consistent actions, could be a workout regimen, or not eating junk food, is when you fall off the wagon again you realize how fucked up you once were and how far you have come from being who you were to who you want to become. Simple steps, of course every day is hard when you’re not used to doing something, but when everyday becomes the norm then it is hard to see yourself not doing a workout, or writing blogs, or even getting up at a certain time. I’ve regularly thought about 4:30 am wake ups, but I just haven’t made the decision yet that I wanted to do that. A few extra hours in the morning though does sound awesome for getting things done. All that time to myself to gather thoughts, make a list for myself to create new possibilities. New expectations for myself. Also remember that day 1 will never feel like it is worth it. You don’t know when it will be worth till it is. Sacrifices you make for yourself always are in your best interest to make when it comes to making your life more productive. If you ever do something on a consistent basis that is in turn bad for your health then STOP FUCKING DOING IT. I will say that might be my one limit to consistency, and why I don’t do drugs. Weed sounds fun, but it’s just not a sustainable thing for me to do everyday. So choose your consistency especially based on your way of life, throw some productive ones in there and when you maybe have a hangover, or 10- 20 passed out drunk people on your floor, just tell yourself you had a good night and get back on track. Don’t beat yourself up too much and just get on with your day as you’re trying to still get things done. Work will always be there tomorrow. Bangov Actual, out.

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Infinite Solutions

Stressful is what you do not grow up with or do not know. To think of something as stressful is just a matter of perspective in what you are good at, or what you have passion for. Have talked to many people who are proficient in many things and the wealth of knowledge they have has always astounded me about how much they care about a particular subject. Or so I thought that they cared. I believe that all people who search hard enough, are born, or just come across something that they are not only good at but great at. When it gets interesting is when they find it and it consumes their everyday life. That to me is when a person is truly at peace with what they were meant to do. A certain calm comes over them and they are no longer distracted by what used to distract them, they begin to identify their surrounding friends by what takes them away from those people. No more late night partying, no more wasting time, or at least what they thought was fun they begin to see as a waste of time if they are not becoming more proficient in what they have built an addiction for.

To step back, stress is defined as: a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances. The difference of “stress” being caused by your day to day 9-5 job is that you are doing it out of a necessity of not wanting to be a bum on the street, gas money, sex, or the million of other reasons that keep people in this vicious cycle of not doing something genuinely because they feel it is what they were meant to do. When you manipulate your own emotions to think that a regular 9-5 is just a place holder and that what you are good at is what you should be doing. Your 9-5, although may have a job that a fucking monkey could do, no offense to monkey’s, we do send them to space. Even if it may be for a cruel reason, not saying I know that reason, but why the hell else would you send a monkey into space other than to save humans from blowing up when you haven’t fixed all the bugs in the system. I mean we use animals for a lot of trials. I’m getting off topic, but when you think to yourself that your job is stressful, you only do it because you know it is where you are stuck. You haven’t found your pursuit yet, but I need you to dig down deep and really take into consideration that life is not forever. Day after day, year after year. Not saying you have to figure everything out in one night. No way in hell did I do that.

Everyday is a new perspective or a new idea that brings you closer to whatever vision you have in your head and whatever keeps you up at night because you know you are not living up to your full potential. Potential is defined as: having or showing the capacity to become or develop into something in the future. Which is cute, I guess if you like to read those self help books that make me want to suck start a shotgun. Let me introduce you to the word Prospective. Prospective is defined as: expected or expecting to be something particular in the future. You have this monster brewing inside of you. What Disney movies have taught us is that monsters can be either good or bad. They can lead us to the left or right of our intentions. No matter how good your intentions are, just remember to look for the contradictions and tell yourself no matter what I have to become, and no matter the cost, in the end I will be known by many as a good person or it will all be for nothing. Don’t let your demons consume you because you want something so bad, because there’s always another way. Bangov is ever evolving, and is about not only one but infinite solutions. Bangov Actual, out.

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Ganja

Today, 4-20-2022 is the official renewal date for Bangov. Which their is something poetic about that. When we think of 4/20 we thing of our great mother of ganja. Pot Grass, Dope, Reefer, Hash, Herb, Chronic. Weed the miracle drug that has brought drug companies to their knees. In realizing what this miracle plant has done for anyone from panic, anxiety, to muscle spasms, and multiple sclerosis. For all the good that has come from this miracle plant, still people will judge its effects as a reason for people to not indulge. To me it is interesting that we never stop as a society to think of what we regularly put in our bodies as a means of coping with day to day. Cigarettes for one, not that I am you shouldn’t smoke, do what you will with your bodies. I won’t lose a moment of sleep for what people choose to do with their bodies. cancer, heart disease, stroke, lung diseases, diabetes, and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), which includes emphysema and chronic bronchitis. These all come from cigarettes alone. I have occasionally enjoyed the effects of nicotine as a way of smoking cigarettes, vape, or even the occasional cigar after a week of Elk hunting. I’m no stranger to it, and I won’t lie in order to demonize something that is a choice to me and others. To look at the effects of things that we put in your bodies is only as important as what we choose. You can have all the knowledge in the world of what to put, and what not to put in your body. It all comes down to what you choose and why you want something. I’m a huge fan of chips, maybe not the healthiest thing on the planet, but with a sandwich, damn it I want my sea salt and vinegar chips. WATER, we are all told to drink more and more water. Then again how much is too much water. Whenever you hear ANYONE say anything about health, understand they have a perception of what health is. You choose yours based on what health goals you have. Pick anyone on YouTube, there are only about a billion(exaggeration) influences that pride themselves on knowing how to eat, sleep and workout for you to be the best version of yourself. Of course they only have one perspective on what it means to be healthy. So have fun in deciding on who you wish to follow to help you. Maybe you want a buff guy/girl to follow. Maybe you want a skinny guy/girl, or maybe a chiseled sexy VEGAN. Whatever the case everything in moderation because even water has the capacity to make you I’ll. Effects of too much water are as follows: Confusion, nausea, and vomiting are symptoms. Severe cases can cause seizures, coma, and death. So why not just stick to everything being in moderation. We’re all going to die, hate to burst your bubbles about living forever, but maybe reminding you of death will keep you on the treadmill for a couple more minutes, or maybe you won’t have that other piece of chocolate cake. These are things I yell at myself in order to keep my fat ass in check because man do I love sweets. Bangov Actual, out.

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Duty Sucks

I’m convinced that boys need a male role model, but probably not in the way that you think. For all my military folk, think of it as not being relieved from duty for your entire career in the military. You are stuck on post for 18-20 years. Now think of that in regards to a child where you are the protector of mom, and no man ever comes to relieve you of your duties. You’re on a constant watch. Which may sound more familiar to moms is that when dad is not home, boys are more rowdy, more in the mindset of conditioning in order to prepare for when they must be physical in a defensive altercation. Until dad comes home it’s fight, play, run jump, trampoline or play with swords and guns. Now to think of what men do when they see a boy, they may even do the same in order to test his strength and worthiness to protect the castle. You can learn a lot from a 6 year old when you pay attention. I encourage any man entering a household with growing boys to be cautious. You may just be entering a nerf war, the floor is lava, or may have to fight to the death so that the princess can be rescued from the top of the castle. Be aware the princess can be a hamster or a 2 year old pup with a ribbon tied around the neck. I don’t want to say more than ever that we need little boys to have strong male role models in the household because it has always been a necessity for future generations to have a role model to emulate. Now to think of this in a business sense, always remember problems are never big or small. Just as our successes can be perceived as big or small, it was the intended goal that made us fall short. For example for those who want to be billionaires, and make only millions. Money should never be the goal, not that I will ever say you cannot wish for that but things in life that are to be wished for IN MY OPINION are those of importance like preparing our youth for the inevitable battles they may face in order to preserve their way of life. These skills of dealing with another male, whether they know them or not, will be life lessons they will carry with them till they know what it is to be in charge of their own lives. They will know the strength, courage, and more importantly the sacrifice necessary in order to sustain and provide for a family of their own. Just as my father had taught me not with words, but with actions. As long as you are present in their lives then the impact is just as important if they were not there for you. You learn from each other. A man learns how to teach the son, the son learns through rebellious acts how to do exactly as the father did to his father in order to prove he is worthy of his own way of life away from the protection from the man that has shown him one of the great joys of life of being a role model/teacher to another. Role model is defined as: a person looked to by others as an example to be imitated. To my younger readers, we cannot always choose our fathers. I have met plenty of children to where fathers are nowhere to be found, I have also met fathers that I wish never reproduced. Be mindful of who you imitate in this world. Those who think you don’t have a choice, just remember that you can always see the man you don’t wish to become. Then spend the rest of your life saying you will be better. Commit to it, and make it part of your life’s pursuit. Bangov Actual, out.

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