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Do Whatever It Takes.

So a little history on BanGov is I did not come from wealth or “privilege” as poor people always will make the excuse for why they are not rich, so i do not want to hear it. I worked a regular 9-5 making $18 an hour at a warehouse job starting this. Then came the side hustles. Whether it be mowing lawns, painting trim, pressure washing, landscape work, moving rocks and dirt, WHATEVER. Get your mind in the habit that when you can’t afford something just ask,”what do I need to do to make this money.” BanGov, merchandising, site developing, social media, this all took money. hahaha I even sold my guns for this to work. Didn’t give a fuck what it took to make it happen, but I wanted this to be a reality and a reality I can bring to all of you. Manifest things in your mind you want to be a reality an run full speed towards trying to get it done. Do what you must to make your dreams a reality, no matter how big or small. It does really help to have intended destinations along the way as well to help know when something is working or not so go,go,go……All that aside I am reminded of a man I saw while driving through town. He wanted to clean my windshield, and I NEVER give to homeless or beggars, but this guy was offering a service. Simple, still had a sign so I am sure he would of taken a hand out, BUT, nonetheless he gave me an option and that is the difference between him and just someone asking for money a block away from him and this person looked wrecked guys. I mean had the scabs on the face and was about the thickness of drywall. So offering a service is a big part, no matter how small it can be you can start something for cheap and the only thing you need to do is think of how to scale. Get 4 meth heads on a few street corners and you have just increased your profits over 100% in a day. That’s to say they don’t just run off with the money,but you get the point. Anything you guys/gals have in your head is really just how creative you are in getting to scale and grow your business, or even create multiple avenues of income. Lets all agree it is hard work, suck it the fuck up and realize this is what keeps us alive, not the easy couch surfing that most of you are used to doing on the weekends. This is what gives us purpose and a reason to keep going so if you need to help each other out then get on social.ban-gov.com, make an account and start asking the questions.See what I did there?, haha any questions or comments ladies and gents, info@ban-gov.com, Bangov actual, out.

 

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Dating, Not For The Faint of Heart.

I recently went on a date with a woman. Ya, who knew I had a romance life..NOT FUCKING ME!. She was nice, beautiful, but when things don’t click, they just don’t click. This is for the gentleman out there looking for someone. Ladies just understand it is nothing against you if I don’t have a blog for you specifically all the time. Don’t think I won’t, I am just not a women so mainly they will be asking for your opinions on a subject, but anyway I digress. Gentleman, what I have learned is do not force chemistry with a woman or it will eventually blow up in your face. As well look out if she is forcing it, then you know something is up(ladies this can all be mirrored for you as well so RELAX.)  A 50% divorce rate in this county and society is now cringing at the fact that we are seeing open relationships, swingers and a rise of only-fans where men and woman can show there goodies for cash. You’re not going to surprise me at all that your 20th date this year has gone bad…20th? oh you think that’s a lot? Well Karen I hate to break it to you but finding your soulmate across the pond ain’t what it used to be. Many dates you will go on and many dates you will have to go on to find someone that is worth your time. Be aggressive, BE E AGGRESSIVE. Nobody knows what they want when it comes to themselves so sure as shit they won’t know when they have a 6 foot blonde hair blue eyed devil who maybe is a mommas boy and sucks in the sack. Meanwhile a 5’9″ blonde/brunette/redhead (whatever the fuck you’re into) is maybe more sexually experienced than you and what is WORSE is you shame her for that to protect your own ego. Spend some time getting to know yourself and get a glimpse of what you want so you’re not chasing life pursuits that are meaningless to you. If you’re under 25, eh, fuck anything you want, you’re young. Either way on a date, or while looking for your passion, just enjoy the date. Be playful, flirt, and just respect the fact that both of you took time out of each others day to realize what you liked and did not like about each other. Both of you can want kids, but if you hate each other then the kids become anchors instead of life rafts keeping you both together. While looking for your passions, or while looking for your person will take time, just know that life will mold into a dream that you didn’t know you even wanted. That is what I call bliss. So keep working, keep going on dates, keep looking for opportunities, or avenues of income, just don’t forget to have a purpose for an eternal happiness that just needs to last a lifetime. BanGov is all about about the individual and their pursuits. So whether you take clothes off for a living, fold them or make them, just think to yourself, BanGov.  Bangov Actual, out. Also any blogs/ideas you want to hear other thoughts on besides your own, hit me up at info@ban-gov.com.

 

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BanGov Affiliate Marketing…

Just wanted to let everyone know as for affiliate marketing, yes I know its blah blah blah I need money but just know as I do take with high consideration if I am to put the BanGov name on any of the products that you see affiliate links for just know I have tried these products before. I have held them, I have smelled, tasted or even jerked off with them. They are of the quality that I trust to use myself. Here at BanGov, as business advocates, big or small I look for products based on the quality that is seen in how it may be utilized. I do not take this job lightly and I certainly do not care for company sponsorship unless I utilize the product myself and if it is not of great quality. Thank you all for your time.

 

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“We live, and We die”

Repeat after me

These are the things I say to myself, this is not for everyone, and you have to find your own way in this life.”we live, and we die”,we live, and we die.” Now this may scare some people. Some people may even close this because they don’t want “negative” thoughts in their head like life is just a bunch of rainbows and unicorns. In my experience I have come to a point in my life where these words make way too much sense for me to ignore them. I’m 30 years old and now more than ever I’m at a point to where I’ve realized how much life I’ve wasted..or did I? Was watching movies, playing video games, chasing girls, a waste of time??? Anything can be a negative if you utilize it in a negative manner. These experiences have molded me into who I am and I expect all reading this to remind themselves that you lived your life according to what you didn’t know, or thought you did know you wanted. “We live, and we die.” Say this out loud and it will put a pounding in your chest that will bring you to the realization that life does end for you. Whatever you believe in after death I cannot convince you otherwise, and that is your right to have that perception. Just understand as you get older and begin to remember, “we live, and we die.” Is all about you getting the most out of life, so don’t read this and then say “well, this is as good as its going to get.” Remember, “we live, and we die.” I say that every morning and I don’t drink coffee. Coffee makes me tired, but remembering I’m going to be in the ground someday and to leave behind a legacy for others to remember. Coffee kind of becomes a joke. This is where healthy eating, exercise, taking vitamins all comes into play. You want to be able to be at your peak so mentally you can be at your peak. My objective isn’t to scare but it is to get a fire started inside you that will eventually bring life into your every day. When you kiss your spouse a little longer. When you hold your kids a little tighter. Why do we only do this in times of fear? Shouldn’t we want to do it because we know we won’t get to forever?…These are the types of fears that motivate me everyday in order to move forward not without fear, but because of it. Can only hope that I don’t stop because I may have been tired or distracted. Stay focused ladies and gents. Still got a lot of life left, but just remember, “we live, and we die.”…Bangov Actual out.

 

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Remember High school guys????

You guys remember high school right? Jocks, nerds, goths, lots of hugs. So when you think of this, just imagine going from being a jock to being a nerd. Jocks wouldn’t be caught dead hanging out with a different crowd and nerds were too afraid to even be around anything bigger than a laptop because it made them look too skinny around the girls….but anyway that is the struggle with trying to create something outside of your comfort zone. Getting out of your own comfort is going towards a world you may not know or understand, or you may even be ridiculed for…so my advice is if you have something you’re going for, just know you will be ridiculed. Be prepared to be shot, stabbed, bullied and eventually when you get to where you’re making others feel uneasy, they will try and buy you. Create, create, create and don’t hold back thinking this will help anyone like you. Do it because it is what is inside you and you would be lying to yourself or even conforming to a societal norm in order to be average. Hope you guys enjoy these, any questions or comments, or anything you would like to discuss please hit me up at info@ban-gov.com. Sex,business, daily struggles, lets talk about it. Never know who it may help.