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Abstract is defined as: existing in thought or as an idea but not having a physical or concrete existence. Everyone may have an idea of what they want to see in a man and woman, but then they see someone else and they think oh that is another type of beauty that i was not aware of. We all have this, especially the guys, hell we ;designed to fuck anything in sight. Don’t really care how religious or “good” of a person you are. I say good because good can be defined as: having the qualities required for a particular role. So when someone says they are a good person it just makes me chuckle a little. Women are everywhere and as many forms of beauty as they can be in, their special powers still to this day come from the eyes. The way a woman looks at you can mean 2 things. In a close relationship, they are asking for approval. She is asking, “does he think I look beautiful, sexy, is he still attracted to me?” Or for women with a little more confidence the thought may be, “let’s see if he can handle this.” Either way ladies just know when you least expect it we are looking. When you step out of the shower, it does not matter if we have seen you naked before. We see you in your most vulnerable state with only a towel around you and your man has one thing on his mind. POUNCE, which is defined as: notice and take swift and eager advantage of a mistake, remark, or sign of weakness. Just know ladies your mistake was putting us in this situation. You’ve just stepped out of the shower, you smell like the garden of Eden or what we interpret an herbal essence commercial would be like in real time. You wrap the towel, and put your first foot out. Then the second one comes out. Now you’re in this situation where your man could be waiting outside, so you peek, just to be sure. You don’t see but you hear him. You are on a time table, you have to get the kids to school, get to work or make it to the grocery store before the rush. You just slip out in time to make it to the bedroom. Whew! OK he didn’t see you, still downstairs SO YOU THOUGHT. You just now realize you fucked up the moment that you turned the water off. That is what he heard and that is why he gave the kids a pot and pan to play with while you were in the shower. He is actually in the bedroom waiting, you just think…POUNCE. Ladies, we are big balls of testosterone and your goddess-like physique coming out of a shower is pretty much like a glass of whiskey, cigar and game all wrapped in a towel. We’ll bend you over the bed and don’t care if the kids are watching while they learn sex ed faster than they can scream and run out of the room. Just food for thought ladies while you’re questioning what we think, our job is to keep that lust alive. Although our vision of you may be abstract, it is also our own. Why we feel the way we feel, the way we look at you are all tied up in the intricacies that are you. Subjective is defined as: based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions. In all you mean to us in our day to day is why we sometimes forget to tell you. Or even why you would doubt it just seems as if you don’t know what is going on inside us. Bangov Actual, out.

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I am CONVINCED that men have to find out what they want to do in life to be happy. All the interconnecting webs of misconceptions, societal norms and culture pressures are just distractions to what a man is really in need of to not only feel fulfilled, but also to not feel cheated that he is only doing something, or living his life in a way that was constructed by someone else. It is a hopeless romantic story, I will admit that but I love romance. I like them for the breaking of “natural” barriers put in place by those trying to control an outcome. Romeo and Juliet all the way to “The Best Of Me.” Hell if you haven’t heard of what Cleopatra did to get in with Julius Caesar, look that shit up. If a woman has her servants roll her in a rug and sneak her in my house, I’d probably fuck her too. Not sure about a second date because that bitch is out of her mind. Still, breaking the natural order of things for lust, love or even luxury, turn up the volume and shut up. Of course ladies would love to hear from you about what makes your foundation in order to be content in life. I can only speak from a man’s perspective. While a man can have many aspirations throughout his life It is interesting to me what I see a man go through during a break up. He will dress, eat, sleep, and occasionally talk differently. All of life’s possibilities are thrown in his face, he no longer has a commitment to a life that he did not understand. That is to say he was the one that initiated the break up. If not then get ready for a whiny little bitch that needs meaning in his life again because he hates his job, and doesn’t have the life that he thought he was going to have and thought he could be happy with someone else when he really should have been happy before he met the woman. Not saying it is her fault, she could even cheat on him, but that does not take away from the fact that the man was not happy before they were together. He may have been happy with her, but that is probably why she cheated on him. She couldn’t stand to share a life with a man who didn’t enjoy his. Gentlemen for those of you who may see a flaw in the logic, I encourage you to ask yourself if you are happy with or without your partner. If you were happy before, great, if not then stop wasting time focusing on the fact she cheated, spend time on making your life happy in order for the next woman to feel as if this is a life she is excited to be a part of. Shit rolls down hill. So make sure while you are choosing your day to day life, realize you are creating a world for yourself that the right woman for you would enjoy. Having a career determines your health, happiness, and way of life. So define that and the woman you end up with may be entirely different than the one that cheated on you. At least I hope she wouldn’t cheat on you because you got your shit together. That is not what I mean though. Think of the girl you dated, to the woman that is going to be your rock till the end of time. Unless you just want to pay for it, in that case BANGOV, Bangov Actual, out.

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Jealousy has many faces. Jealous is defined as:feeling or showing envy of someone or their achievements and advantages. Synonyms for jealousy I find to be fascinated due to the perspective it opens. Usually when i have heard someone speak of a jealous person they do it in a passive aggressive way in order to make quick sense of a person’s irrational or even erratic behavior. Synonyms of jealousy are: enviousness,covetousness, desire,resentment, resentfulness, bitterness, discontent, spite, grudge, the green-eyed monster, suspicion, distrust, mistrust, doubt, insecurity, anxiety, apprehension about, rivals, possessiveness, over protectiveness, protectiveness. defensiveness, vigilance, watchfulness, heedfulness, mindfulness, care. solicitousness, attentiveness, just to name a few. Sounds pretty fucking evil right? Well no actually, evil is defined as: profoundly immoral or wicked. Not that Jealousy can’t turn into immorality. With such an easy definition.

Jealousy is a great way for me to describe to you, for anyone who reads this to choose your words more carefully. In moments of erratic behavior, arguments, verbal confrontation, really try and be careful with the words you may use to describe someone. If you call someone jealous, understand all the other words that coincide with that word. This doesn’t aid in a solution for you to just scream out random words in order to project an image on someone in order to win a crowd. In fact it just furthers confrontation. For anyone who may have an issue with someone for any sort of reason, it may take more than 20 min of hard thought in order to gather what you may describe that person as. Are they really jealous? Is there something underlying that could be the issue? You put that into perspective, you may have found a solution you both can agree on.

I would rather people said “fuck you” than label them as a word that is not conducive to finding a solution, or resolution. Fuck you is said in a defensive manner when not having anything else to say or when you’re establishing that you will not be walked over. People don’t really remember fuck you,but they do remember an impression they didn’t mean to give. Call someone evil, jealous, or racist. They know that to convince you otherwise is an uphill battle that may not be worth their time. So they walk away, and now 2 people who may have come to an understanding are now bound by their ignorance’s that could have been saved with simply digging into the heart of the problem. As a community, learning to communicate, just makes the community seem that much more productive, when we all speak with a purpose. Bangov Actual, out.

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You can get mad, kick, scream, and show the world you are angry. Or you can stay calm and show yourself that you can handle anything that is thrown your way. Physical endurance, training yourself to be equipped for the things life throws at you. You’re still human, yes, but any battle that is worth all of your effort will be matched by the focus you bring to it. Don’t be cast aside by those who think they have it all figured out. They are just as lost or or even more scared than you. When they shout at you, stare them in the eye and you will read fear. Not anger, not determination. We are all on the same level here. Striving for greatness, struggling to reach the next level. Question is, how do we know when we are ready for the next level? Well first is when you choose that you want to accept the challenge. Worst thing is that you could fail. With that comes all the education you need for when you realize that believing yourself takes practice. You might as well start with speaking to those who think they rate to speak down to you. May not happen day 1,but be consistent in your actions of speaking up. Make some noise and people will automatically look in your direction. All it takes is a few seconds for you to grab an audience. So in the lead up to having people look at you, make sure you have the attention grabber. Make sure you are ready for them to start listening. When they start to listen, they will question what they have been told, they will test your standings and ask why they should stand with you. Building your own company is those who believe in common values. Basic principles in a way of life that makes them want to fight with you for it. When they are willing to fight with you, you realize that you’re not crazy, you’re not the only one who has been thinking these things. Night sweats, nightmares, screaming in your pillow, all that becomes the past when you wake up. You’re mind and body battling it out like 2 people going back and forth, amping each other up for the fight of their life. Mind versus body continues till the intended pursuit comes into focus and when they both have the vision, it is all clear what they were hungry for. All 8 cylinders are firing, and the horses get up and go for the finish line. Legs are greased, cocked and ready for that high speed pursuit. For those of you who feel what I am writing, all I need from you is a step forward in the right direction to improve what is yours. Your worth starts with believing in yourself, and ends with what you do for others. This is Bangov Actual, live to serve, and breathe to achieve. Bangov Actual, out.

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We tend to forget how hard language is when trying to express how we really feel. Words sometimes are just either not enough or we don’t have the right words at the right time. When speaking with anyone, a conversation has the potential to be of many forms, can go left or right, and with so many interpretations. We just tend to speak without any real intent in what we are trying to say. Just like you would do something for someone. Maybe write a letter, or have a real desire to tell someone how they make you feel. You want it to come out a certain way in order to steer them in the right direction and receive what is going on In your head. A projection screen of sorts that is your mind’s eye. How much effort you put into it, and the patience you have determine how well the message will be received. To tell someone that you despise them in such a way that you’re willing to dedicate a large amount of time is like saying that they are your intended focus of their foreseeable future. Now take hate, as strong of a word as it is, then replace it with love and it will have the opposite effect for a person that you make priority every day. Those you are trying to reach over time will not feel the first message, second, but if it continues and is a part of your life’s plan to convince someone that you not only love them, but that they are the pursuit of your happiness till the end of their time on this planet. Then love is really not enough. You have to feel every emotion capable of feeling in order for them to know the meaning of your intent towards them. I hope to not only communicate that, but in sync show that what I say to those I care for will know from the deepest, darkest, most evil parts of their heart that I will be down there fighting. I will repel down, come out guns blazing close in and destroy the demons that keep you thinking you don’t deserve what you want in life simply because someone told you don’t or someone never told you to believe that you do. You pick whichever is worse, but I am saddling up for war. Peace? Fuck peace, you stay in Utopia while I fight for my life’s pursuit. For those of you who are willing to join the fight, come and go as you please. I am in this till the day that those I cherish are raised above what they have accepted or settled for. Pretty cool huh? You communicate that to someone you love or hate and use the right context, you will either instill fear, or love in their heart. That is how powerful words are, so when people say to me “ talk is cheap”, well so are guns, ammo, gasoline, gun powder, and look at what they tend to protect or destroy. Just how you use them. As always this is Bangov Actual, I live to serve, Bangov Actual, out.

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Has anyone ever been through a terrible tragedy and said, “ I’m glad I kept my mouth shut about this.” I’m assuming not, I mean when something is needing to be said, we can only hope the heroics of one wil compel them to say “no, don’t, stop, get out of the car you have been drinking. Or, “you should leave before he kills you.” Or my favorite, “we probably shouldn’t do this without a condom, what if i get pregnant.” Is it ignorance? Is it a feeling of invincibility? Maybe, or some of us just need to learn the hard lessons the hard way. No matter what the consequences. Consequences is something I have brought up before. Won’t be the last time. Consequences are those we can look at as positive or negative.

Consequences is defined as: a result or effect of an action or condition. Nowhere in this definition does it say you lose a leg, get punched in the face, go to hell for eternity for my religious folk. For non religious people maybe you spend a week at bible camp. Talk about hell on earth. Consequences come in many forms, and sometimes can be a duration of a seconds, days, weeks, or even the rest of your life. For you to continue on through life negatively based on one consequence you have had to endure, then life is going to be very difficult for you. Just pack it up, move back in with mommy and continue your basement dwelling antics. Consequences are a part of the decision making process. Go left, get burned to death, go right, freeze to death. Decisions are “hard” for only one reason and that is the fear of consequences that may be faced if we are to fail.

Let me ask you this. If you were to fail and know that failure was inevitable in your pursuit of a better life, then why are consequences keeping you up at night? I won’t tell you everything will be alright, I won’t say it is easy, I won’t say it is going to all turn out alright because it is not my job to do so. It is your job to take it upon yourself as an individual and tell yourself these things. What I say DON’T MEAN SHIT if you don’t believe it yourself. It still to me seems odd that we don’t say things in order to keep ourselves out of trouble. From having to deal with consequences that have nothing to do with bettering ourselves. Just that keeps us from digging the hole deeper and making things harder for ourselves. If we are caught in a situation that has consequences. Life altering consequences that affect a lot of people.

We are expected as adults to know what to do in every situation. “Life experience” as some like to refer to it as. Well let’s say I am attacked by a dog while on the street. Dog comes out of nowhere, and I get bit, and people always ask well why didn’t you do this, this, or this? Maybe because I have never been attacked by a dog before and I didn’t care about the extra steak in my pocket to throw as he was latched onto my leg. So I start carrying pepper spray, a knife, or a gun in case it happens again. It is interesting how many people have told me they want a gun after the fact of being attacked. I always ask “ well why now?” They tell me, “because someone came and banged on my door and tried to get in, and I had my child with me.” Me: “why didn’t you have a gun before?” I know the answer but it gets them to think, and realize how vulnerable they are. They always confess to the thought of thinking it could never happen to them, or maybe they just were afraid of an object before it became clear that it could be used in a different way like saving their life. Positive, negative, offense, defense, we have to be put in situations a multitude of times in order for the knowledge of what to do becomes apparent to us. Some of us learn lessons the easy way, and some learn the hard way. Call it stubborn, hard headed, ignorance, but if I am attacked by dogs every day of the week, and am still alive, I may tend to get pretty good at it.  Maybe have the street mapped out, have a couple juke moves, carry some treats in my pocket as deterrents. Same thing with any other situation. I have adapted to the likelihood of being attacked. Now with other situations we just have to think, how do I protect myself in this situation? I’m going out drinking tonight, don’t want to drive drunk, but you don’t want to spend money on an Uber. I’m not advocating drinking and driving and I am not telling you to spend money on an Uber. Are the consequences of killing someone, or paying for a DUI OK consequences for you.

Don’t think this post is going to save lives either. Even as advanced as people think we are, drunk driving is still killing half of teens on the road today. Also my demographic for this site is 18 and over but if this happened to be printed out and you just happen to read it to your son or daughter then that is on you but just make sure they know BANGOV is inevitable and to assess situations and think about consequences before making stupid choices. Also tell them they will make stupid decisions no matter what they do because being afraid of failing is worse than living in fear, and indecision. Don’t tell them what not to do, that is just lazy parenting in my opinion. You outsmart them and instill fear for decisions they are going to make by telling them they are an individual, and let them know mommy and daddy will not be there to help you when you are hauled off to jail. We will leave you there, we still have bills to pay, also I am not missing a day of work to unfuck you. My father told me that, was fucking terrifying. I didn’t drink till I was 21. True story. Hell, I didn’t have sex till…..eh ill stop there, but to recap we need to start looking at consequences just as the little things in life we need to change. Eating better, exercising, drinking more water maybe, easy on the drinking.

Consequences are embedded in every aspect of every decision we make, so as you define how you want your life to be, think of the little things as big ones in how you want to represent yourself. Bangov Actual, out.

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Ladies I have a confession, and it is in my pants. When men are quiet in bed. Just know it is not because we are not enjoying it. We enjoy it A LOT. We are asked many times throughout the day, about things we may not want to comment on. Now just keep in mind I’m not saying it is not sexy when a woman does it . Shouts your name, moans, narrates the sexual act. It is sexy, but you have to understand the circumstances that we as men have something to keep up. We have to constantly maintain an erection and saying things just draws attention away from the primary function. In between positions may be something to talk about and I encourage more men to be vocal in bed about what they want. Just good communication from both parties is never really a bad thing. For men maybe if we were to compliment, say how pretty she is, sexy, she tastes good, whatever!! It’s verbal stimulation that is being communicated. Watch a porno without the sound, guarantee something will be missing. Same thing as in bed, doesn’t have to be constant, just be more expressive in your enjoyment I guess? Ladies please send me some emails on this because we don’t know all the things that are out there. All that I can say on the matter is that men even from a historical context have been quiet, have been solely focused on completing the motion to climax and watching predators near by, so ladies you have a man who’s fucking you while looking like a sprinkler head to watch for apex predators. Ladies please don’t be self conscious when we are quiet during sex, aside from concentrating on what we are doing, we do have to constantly think of next positions, watching the door, who is in the house, did I leave the stove on, should I smack your ass, choke you, kiss you, when we first met, or just enjoy the elegance that is you without make up in the morning, and can’t believe that this incredible woman has entrusted me with her safety and is letting me do this. So again, do we enjoy the sex? Not as easy of a question as you think. Sex can be constantly improved if 2 are willing to share what they want in the bedroom. If a guy is quiet, good chance he is in blissful silence. Bangov Actual, out.

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